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Need a word of advice from this group on my current situation. I am in my early 40s, healthy and happy, never married, single Man, living in US for 15 years plus, US educated and have been working in 13 of those years. Over a period of time, I have invested and made profit from stocks, crypto and other assets, accumulated over 2 million USD so far and add a few more before 50. I live a very simple, not flashy life in a small town, near Chicago suburbs and am proud my savings and investing habit. I have been told by friends that in order to attract female in my life, I have to show off, nice car, expensive clothes and a big house. I don't need any of those. I also believe in give and take - reciprocation in a relationship. Not fair for me to spend my own money on women, and not expecting anything. The reason I am not interested in India is the same- not going to be a sole sponsor of her immigration status, education, vacation or shopping spree. After all, we live in 21st century of equality and expecting one person to contribute, is not in line with this. I make all these crystal clear when I talk to a girl. Some might think I am too straight forward, but I am who I am. What does group think of these thoughts and my situation? Should I change my approach? I am definitely not interested in sharing my hard earned wealth with a stranger in the name of love. I can soften up/polish my words but thoughts will still be the same.

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