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1 hour ago, baabaa said:

correct cheppavu bhayya. same feelings start ayyindi naku koda. 

Kids started playing basketball with tella/nalla kids and started watching NBA and now nenu/wife also started following so gives some purpose and fun to watch games. Cheap tickets vaste NBA games ki koda eltunamu and its good family fun experience. Telugu valu cheyaru kani its very fun. Majority of my telugu friends kaluste either real estate/consultancy/GC/CBN/KCR/Jagan topics tappa emi undadu.

Nenu chesedi to come out of mid life crisis nuvvu list ga cheppesavu :)

Very nice. I also go to NFL games once in a while. NBA mostly TV. It’s good timepass.

i used to play tennis some yrs back. I started getting neck pain so stopped. I used to be regular in gym but stopped during Covid. Again neck pain. I started hiking and walking with friends/wife 4-5 days a week. Hiking mostly with friends on weekends. We have to keep ourselves busy. Inka time dorkithe stocks. 
edo oti chesi busy ga undali. Even after all this i sometimes feel life is routine. It’s normal. But with growing kids, they always keep us busy.

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Was in the same boat. Doing well now. Here are my suggestions.

1. Spend sometime to know about your self. Think about your childhood, teen and adult life. You might recollect your interests and strengths like say, chess or quizzing or creating music or artistry etc. Now, pick one and start attending classes. You can take virtual classes from India as well.

2. As someone said, watch nfl, nba, nhl (hockey is very very exciting) or EPL. The trick is to associate with one team and give an year or so. Probably, your local state team. Attend the games physically. The football experience in the stadium is amazing. Hockey one too.

3. How many f$&%ing years one can watch the same balayya, chiru, etc etc acting in mass masala movies with exactly the same story lines? How long can you watch the same type of Netflix series? Explore new age cinema. Watch the other language’s classic movies. There are tons of them available in the internet these days. Install Criterion Collection Or TCM. You can watch Hollywood classics as well. And you can get the true cinematic experience.

4. Understand how to make your wife happy. Learn how to give sensual full-body massages. Your life will change. She will reciprocate. 

5. Start a local WhatsApp with your neighbors and come up with a community club. You can arrange potlucks or picnic or special events etc. you will make a lot of friends. 

6. If you have long term plans to stay in US, follow the politics. Understand what the dems or republicans stand for. Keep reading the latest news on their policies. It gets interesting. (Ofcouse it can’t be more interesting than the Indian politics.). 
 

7. watch entrepreneurial shows like Sharktank or dragons den. You will be inspired to start your company. You will keep getting multiple startup ideas. You might even start one and make it big. 

Or just have kids 😊

Thats all for now. 

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4 hours ago, Manani said:

Was in the same boat. Doing well now. Here are my suggestions.

1. Spend sometime to know about your self. Think about your childhood, teen and adult life. You might recollect your interests and strengths like say, chess or quizzing or creating music or artistry etc. Now, pick one and start attending classes. You can take virtual classes from India as well.

2. As someone said, watch nfl, nba, nhl (hockey is very very exciting) or EPL. The trick is to associate with one team and give an year or so. Probably, your local state team. Attend the games physically. The football experience in the stadium is amazing. Hockey one too.

3. How many f$&%ing years one can watch the same balayya, chiru, etc etc acting in mass masala movies with exactly the same story lines? How long can you watch the same type of Netflix series? Explore new age cinema. Watch the other language’s classic movies. There are tons of them available in the internet these days. Install Criterion Collection Or TCM. You can watch Hollywood classics as well. And you can get the true cinematic experience.

4. Understand how to make your wife happy. Learn how to give sensual full-body massages. Your life will change. She will reciprocate. 

5. Start a local WhatsApp with your neighbors and come up with a community club. You can arrange potlucks or picnic or special events etc. you will make a lot of friends. 

6. If you have long term plans to stay in US, follow the politics. Understand what the dems or republicans stand for. Keep reading the latest news on their policies. It gets interesting. (Ofcouse it can’t be more interesting than the Indian politics.). 
 

7. watch entrepreneurial shows like Sharktank or dragons den. You will be inspired to start your company. You will keep getting multiple startup ideas. You might even start one and make it big. 

Or just have kids 😊

Thats all for now. 

Wow 🙏

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23 hours ago, andhrasodabudi said:

 

back kindhaki 35 vachayi ! Working for a witch company ! No friends to talk to or spend some quality time (i used to have a few close ones but job changes valla move aipoyaru) ! No social circle to hang out with ! Ilantivi ela deal cheyali ! Asalu life lo happiness e ledu anipisthadi ! Poni india podama ante etu telchataniki guts levu  !

idhi add cheyatam marchipoya !! Marriage done and not so exciting/ loving 🙃🙃🙃wife epppud tana phone lo vuntadi a reels bigboss lu chusukuntu ! Sometimes i feel scared of the silence on weekends in home when two of us are there ! Nenu kastapadi edhaina movie set chesina complaint chesthadi company ivadhu ! 

Try this https://www.instagram.com/reel/C0k8nwIoenE/?igshid=N2ViNmM2MDRjNw==

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On 12/9/2023 at 5:28 PM, andhrasodabudi said:

 

back kindhaki 35 vachayi ! Working for a witch company ! No friends to talk to or spend some quality time (i used to have a few close ones but job changes valla move aipoyaru) ! No social circle to hang out with ! Ilantivi ela deal cheyali ! Asalu life lo happiness e ledu anipisthadi ! Poni india podama ante etu telchataniki guts levu  !

idhi add cheyatam marchipoya !! Marriage done and not so exciting/ loving 🙃🙃🙃wife epppud tana phone lo vuntadi a reels bigboss lu chusukuntu ! Sometimes i feel scared of the silence on weekends in home when two of us are there ! Nenu kastapadi edhaina movie set chesina complaint chesthadi company ivadhu ! 

Intlo no issue ni speak and sort it out .. as u spend lot of time together only .. friends circle anni is secondary 

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On 12/9/2023 at 11:28 PM, andhrasodabudi said:

 

back kindhaki 35 vachayi ! Working for a witch company ! No friends to talk to or spend some quality time (i used to have a few close ones but job changes valla move aipoyaru) ! No social circle to hang out with ! Ilantivi ela deal cheyali ! Asalu life lo happiness e ledu anipisthadi ! Poni india podama ante etu telchataniki guts levu  !

idhi add cheyatam marchipoya !! Marriage done and not so exciting/ loving 🙃🙃🙃wife epppud tana phone lo vuntadi a reels bigboss lu chusukuntu ! Sometimes i feel scared of the silence on weekends in home when two of us are there ! Nenu kastapadi edhaina movie set chesina complaint chesthadi company ivadhu ! 

Get yourself tagged with Pulka or Jaffa or Sainik ideology. And then your entire life will be scintillating, I can assure

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On 12/11/2023 at 10:39 AM, papampasivadu said:

Same age bhayya...many uncles suggested video games, PS5, FIFA something something...not my type, but they might work for you if you like playing video games.

Ledu anna manaki work kosam laptop screen chudatam chiraku alantidi games kosam screen medha concentrate cheyatam kastam , but i enjoy movies so ala edho okka series lu chusukuntu bratikesthu vunta

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On 12/10/2023 at 9:55 PM, perugu_vada said:

Intlo no issue ni speak and sort it out .. as u spend lot of time together only .. friends circle anni is secondary 

Matladina okkasari , pedha godava aindi , its always a blame game never a fruitful discussion ! Things escalate very quickly if i try to do any kind of meaningful disco

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