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51 minutes ago, Pandubabu said:

hope you are getting fussy atleast ( don't mean to offend ) , most of the time that could be the problem. also , Hire a nanny if it can help 

 Maybe hiring a nanny part time could help, could try for few months

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24 minutes ago, imhott said:

Alteast few days a week vellali, but as she doesn't drive I can spend only 5 hours at work and get back to pick up my ki.

vere arrangements chesko anali...ledante job vadileyamanu...or ninnu vadileyamanu

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Edaina kani don’t take extreme steps, your kids will be affected the most. Hire a nanny, consult a marriage counsellor, try to explain in a cooler manner, try to get a private vacation with your wife. 

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1 hour ago, DallasKarreBaluGadu said:

Divorce, then start dating medical girls 

Braaa... manchi clarity undi neeku. Padithe .doctor lekapothe nurse huh 

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1 minute ago, Aquaman said:

deggarundi divorce ipinchela unav ga bro lol

mari divorce kakapote endi bro...

alimony tension kuda undadu

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2 hours ago, imhott said:

"nuvvu working , kids management"

it becomes hard when I have to take care of each and every aspect of two kids. to add, cooking tanu chesaka, feeding kids, cleaning, clothes laundry, folding, illu vaccuming, car lo kids dropping, pickups, grocery shopping, doc visits, chalane unnay, ila list add cheskuntu pothe almost 90% of things I'm doing at home. it is clearly not balanced IMHO

moreover recent ga DL vachindi after 5 years, car tho konni errands aina help cheyamante no way, naku work meetings unna I have to either take calls while driving or skip the meetings.

Nuvvu carrer vodiley, edo basic income job chusko next few years and spend all energy on family 

you have no other choice 

mottam road meeda padtav otherwise 

just think like devudu itla chesadu nenu follow kavali

pellam pillalu vodilesey option ledu neeku 

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2 hours ago, imhott said:

"nuvvu working , kids management"

it becomes hard when I have to take care of each and every aspect of two kids. to add, cooking tanu chesaka, feeding kids, cleaning, clothes laundry, folding, illu vaccuming, car lo kids dropping, pickups, grocery shopping, doc visits, chalane unnay, ila list add cheskuntu pothe almost 90% of things I'm doing at home. it is clearly not balanced IMHO

moreover recent ga DL vachindi after 5 years, car tho konni errands aina help cheyamante no way, naku work meetings unna I have to either take calls while driving or skip the meetings.

Don't complain and plan 

laundy only once a week (keep it friday evening) wash and fold the same day 

use machines for help, use dishwasher to clean all your dishes don't use hands

use robot vaccums and hire cleaners for once a month. 

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1 minute ago, DallasKarreBaluGadu said:

Desi lanjelani denghudu kastam anna

lanjeluuu body maintain cheyaru kanni kathal 10gadam lo first

@DallasKarreBalu chepindu monna mandu party lo

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