(In)fertility facts

[shaktimaan]

1 hour ago, Konebhar6 said:

have seen ppl who have kids late struggle to raise them as well with low energy.

it’s subjective, if a person is fit and takes care of themselves it won’t be a burden 

[shaktimaan]

1 hour ago, Konebhar6 said:

You may not feel this way about kids now but when you grow older, your view changes. I have a coleague (mentor/boss) who is 50 now and no kids. Says he never thought about them and did not think it will matter. He says he repents the decision a lot now.

again it depends on the person, not everyone will repent

[Deadp0ol2]

7 hours ago, Thokkalee said:

Matter in 1 line:

Ammailu, Abbailu- thondaragaa Pelli cheskuni chaavandi!!

Wrong thinking 

[Spartan]

if given option for changing marriage back in past

...nenu 18 ke pelli cheskuni undalsindi anukunta

[Thokkalee]

11 minutes ago, Spartan said:

if given option for changing marriage back in past

...nenu 18 ke pelli cheskuni undalsindi anukunta

We are talking about marriage uncle.. not first night.. 😄

[Thokkalee]

28 minutes ago, shaktimaan said:

again it depends on the person, not everyone will repent

I think we are talking in general.. there are always exceptions… 

as a generation, most of them are getting married late, or staying single as they can’t find a person to marry; having late kids with more chances of kids with disabilities.. kids are more self centered as they get all the attention and they get everything they want on a platter… 

we will see the affects in the next generation.. 

 

[Konebhar6]

43 minutes ago, shaktimaan said:

again it depends on the person, not everyone will repent

Very true.

[Konebhar6]

47 minutes ago, shaktimaan said:

it’s subjective, if a person is fit and takes care of themselves it won’t be a burden 

True but in general most people are not. Even if they are fit, health problems and energy to raise kids will be less

[shaktimaan]

16 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

I think we are talking in general.. there are always exceptions… 

as a generation, most of them are getting married late, or staying single as they can’t find a person to marry; having late kids with more chances of kids with disabilities.. kids are more self centered as they get all the attention and they get everything they want on a platter… 

we will see the affects in the next generation.. 

 

its just a process of evolution. We no longer have to fight for survival and with good jobs and money flow people start thinking differently. West has seen this 30-40 years ago. Imo kids are not a necessity rather fruits of marriage or companionship. But marrying just to have kids is beyond stupid, we are not machines 

[Spartan]

27 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

We are talking about marriage uncle.. not first night.. 😄

marriage ante tondarga kids ye ani ardham anna

by 20-22 iddarni kaneste aipotadi

[Android_Halwa]

45 minutes ago, Spartan said:

if given option for changing marriage back in past

...nenu 18 ke pelli cheskuni undalsindi anukunta

+1 

[Thokkalee]

8 hours ago, shaktimaan said:

its just a process of evolution. We no longer have to fight for survival and with good jobs and money flow people start thinking differently. West has seen this 30-40 years ago. Imo kids are not a necessity rather fruits of marriage or companionship. But marrying just to have kids is beyond stupid, we are not machines 

No kids anukunte it is fine.. 

[futureofandhra]

9 hours ago, shaktimaan said:

its just a process of evolution. We no longer have to fight for survival and with good jobs and money flow people start thinking differently. West has seen this 30-40 years ago. Imo kids are not a necessity rather fruits of marriage or companionship. But marrying just to have kids is beyond stupid, we are not machines 

Machines don't produce life 

It's nature 

Every species on the planet does the same 

[ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU]

20 hours ago, Rushabhi said:

TLDR sperm counts are decreasing and can lead to miscarriages in women. Women are becoming less fertile in their 20s compared to grandmothers at 35. All due to chemicals, plastic in environment. 

ante ?

[lollilolli2020]

12 hours ago, Konebhar6 said:

I have friends who got married early as well as late. I constantly hear cribbing from people who got married early. Ppl who got married late don't complain as much. 

I have seen ppl who have kids late struggle to raise them as well with low energy. 

Enjoy early life and get married into 30's and have kids before 35. 

In my experience ppl feel bad about marrying late and having kids late. 
below late 20's or early 30's lo kids pudithe its easier to raise them coz we are young; cant say the same when its in late 30's coz you cannot be as energetic as you were in your 20s or early 30s. 
this holds true with desi ppl who are in IT especially; and have minimal fitness levels.