is divorce new normal ... ?

[tyrion123]

why so many divorce posts in Indian Expats ...?

[futureofandhra]

Just now, tyrion123 said:

why so many divorce posts in Indian Expats ...?

girls mothers ego

[CaptainMaverick]

6 minutes ago, tyrion123 said:

why so many divorce posts in Indian Expats ...?

have two kids as soon as you get married instead of waiting. a lot of couples are waiting for many reasons. Sometimes it's wife's choice, sometime it's the guy's choice. Don't make the mistake of waiting. 

Have kids, keep her busy.

[psycontr]

1 minute ago, CaptainMaverick said:

have two kids as soon as you get married instead of waiting. a lot of couples are waiting for many reasons. Sometimes it's wife's choice, sometime it's the guy's choice. Don't make the mistake of waiting. 

Have kids, keep her busy.

Kids future will lock you to the relationship, but what if spouse is toxic ? Going for kids asap after marriage is also a mistake.

[Aquaman]

4 minutes ago, CaptainMaverick said:

have two kids as soon as you get married instead of waiting. a lot of couples are waiting for many reasons. Sometimes it's wife's choice, sometime it's the guy's choice. Don't make the mistake of waiting. 

Have kids, keep her busy.

kids putaka divorce ayithe inka pain kadha.. child support headache

[Aquaman]

1 minute ago, psycontr said:

Kids future will lock you to the relationship, but what if spouse is toxic ? Going for kids asap after marriage is also a mistake.

kids kanna mundu... edhuaru issues resolve chesukunte better...counselling lanitivi thesukoni... divorce should be verrrry verry last option 

[tyrion123]

14 minutes ago, futureofandhra said:

girls mothers ego

i heard about this from many people ...

[CaptainMaverick]

6 minutes ago, psycontr said:

Kids future will lock you to the relationship, but what if spouse is toxic ? Going for kids asap after marriage is also a mistake.

toxicity will be diluted because having kids changes priorities. 

Having kids is one of the MAIN things people do to get married.

Think of what made our parents marriages work!! They got married & many had kids within 9 months. Then 2nd edition...then busy with kids...it's a circle of life.

 

[CaptainMaverick]

5 minutes ago, Aquaman said:

kids kanna mundu... edhuaru issues resolve chesukunte better...counselling lanitivi thesukoni... divorce should be verrrry verry last option 

Counselling antene divorce sagam ayinatte...endukantha problems vastunnayi for newly married couples?? atleast few years ago, ee issues ravataaniki oka 5 years pattedi!!!

[Aquaman]

5 minutes ago, CaptainMaverick said:

toxicity will be diluted because having kids changes priorities. 

Having kids is one of the MAIN things people do to get married.

Think of what made our parents marriages work!! They got married & many had kids within 9 months. Then 2nd edition...then busy with kids...it's a circle of life.

 

iyalrepu atla kids unnaru kadha ani mundhu la adjust avatle kontha mandi

[CaptainMaverick]

Just now, Aquaman said:

iyalrepu atla kids unnaru kadha ani mundhu la adjust avatle kontha mandi

parents kuda koddiga chusukovaali gaa pelli chesukune mundu especially arranged marriages?!!

[appusri]

11 minutes ago, CaptainMaverick said:

toxicity will be diluted because having kids changes priorities. 

Having kids is one of the MAIN things people do to get married.

Think of what made our parents marriages work!! They got married & many had kids within 9 months. Then 2nd edition...then busy with kids...it's a circle of life.

 

Pelli chesukokunda ee circle ni break cheyyadam better emo.

[Barney_Stinson]

Yes

if i were to redo my past i will never marry and stay single

[CaptainMaverick]

4 minutes ago, appusri said:

Pelli chesukokunda ee circle ni break cheyyadam better emo.

India lo surrogacy pedda expensive kaadu kaani US lo ayithe vaachipothundi.

Unless you want to adopt, marriage is how you have kids...unless your girl friend is willing to have your kid & not expect child support & custody should you breakup!

[tyrion123]

19 minutes ago, CaptainMaverick said:

India lo surrogacy pedda expensive kaadu kaani US lo ayithe vaachipothundi.

Unless you want to adopt, marriage is how you have kids...unless your girl friend is willing to have your kid & not expect child support & custody should you breakup!

I think should become more acceptable in Indian society ..

much of latin poris in US do this ... they date and make babies ... then separate ... then marry some body else ...

but atleast they will have kids ... rather than waiting for perfect partner, getting aged, then no fertility ... ivf. ... then divorce etc ...