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I am lost right now. We are married for 17 years and now I found out that my husband is cheating on me for 8 years. He went to massage parlors with happy ending for so many times and then for full service and escort too. Our physical relationship was always good. He said that he wants to try with other girls as he has that fantasy. And one more thing that he called my friend to do some flirting when I was in India. We have kids too and I am a housewife. Now he is saying that he regrets what he did and that will never happen again. And he said that he always loved me a lot and what he did that was payed service he never connected with anybody emotionally. I loved him like anything for past 17 years. My heart is broken I am not sure what to do?

He is ready to take counseling to save our marriage and come out from his addiction but same time he is scared because we are on visa and what he did was illegal.

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7 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

I am lost right now. We are married for 17 years and now I found out that my husband is cheating on me for 8 years. He went to massage parlors with happy ending for so many times and then for full service and escort too. Our physical relationship was always good. He said that he wants to try with other girls as he has that fantasy. And one more thing that he called my friend to do some flirting when I was in India. We have kids too and I am a housewife. Now he is saying that he regrets what he did and that will never happen again. And he said that he always loved me a lot and what he did that was payed service he never connected with anybody emotionally. I loved him like anything for past 17 years. My heart is broken I am not sure what to do?

He is ready to take counseling to save our marriage and come out from his addiction but same time he is scared because we are on visa and what he did was illegal.

Hes a guy thats expected

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28 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

I am lost right now. We are married for 17 years and now I found out that my husband is cheating on me for 8 years. He went to massage parlors with happy ending for so many times and then for full service and escort too. Our physical relationship was always good. He said that he wants to try with other girls as he has that fantasy. And one more thing that he called my friend to do some flirting when I was in India. We have kids too and I am a housewife. Now he is saying that he regrets what he did and that will never happen again. And he said that he always loved me a lot and what he did that was payed service he never connected with anybody emotionally. I loved him like anything for past 17 years. My heart is broken I am not sure what to do?

He is ready to take counseling to save our marriage and come out from his addiction but same time he is scared because we are on visa and what he did was illegal.

Dogs tail vankara sameta .. He wont change. Max can be contained with some emotions (if he really likes wife/kids), thats all. Things wont be better if she divorces as well. 

Catch 22 situation. 

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2 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

Dogs tail vankara sameta .. He wont change. Max can be contained with some emotions (if he really likes wife/kids), thats all. Things wont be better if she divorces as well. 

Catch 22 situation. 

As my fellow dbian said.. it is not possible to change a person who is addicted to sex. we contain this for few years.. 

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37 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

I am lost right now. We are married for 17 years and now I found out that my husband is cheating on me for 8 years. He went to massage parlors with happy ending for so many times and then for full service and escort too. Our physical relationship was always good. He said that he wants to try with other girls as he has that fantasy. And one more thing that he called my friend to do some flirting when I was in India. We have kids too and I am a housewife. Now he is saying that he regrets what he did and that will never happen again. And he said that he always loved me a lot and what he did that was payed service he never connected with anybody emotionally. I loved him like anything for past 17 years. My heart is broken I am not sure what to do?

He is ready to take counseling to save our marriage and come out from his addiction but same time he is scared because we are on visa and what he did was illegal.

ee sendalam inka manaledha Kevinu.sFun_duh2

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42 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

I am lost right now. We are married for 17 years and now I found out that my husband is cheating on me for 8 years. He went to massage parlors with happy ending for so many times and then for full service and escort too. Our physical relationship was always good. He said that he wants to try with other girls as he has that fantasy. And one more thing that he called my friend to do some flirting when I was in India. We have kids too and I am a housewife. Now he is saying that he regrets what he did and that will never happen again. And he said that he always loved me a lot and what he did that was payed service he never connected with anybody emotionally. I loved him like anything for past 17 years. My heart is broken I am not sure what to do?

He is ready to take counseling to save our marriage and come out from his addiction but same time he is scared because we are on visa and what he did was illegal.

Orai ilantivi ekkuva chadavamaaku .. it will effect your mental health . 

 

For your good I am saying .

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1 hour ago, kevinUsa said:

I am lost right now. We are married for 17 years and now I found out that my husband is cheating on me for 8 years. He went to massage parlors with happy ending for so many times and then for full service and escort too. Our physical relationship was always good. He said that he wants to try with other girls as he has that fantasy. And one more thing that he called my friend to do some flirting when I was in India. We have kids too and I am a housewife. Now he is saying that he regrets what he did and that will never happen again. And he said that he always loved me a lot and what he did that was payed service he never connected with anybody emotionally. I loved him like anything for past 17 years. My heart is broken I am not sure what to do?

He is ready to take counseling to save our marriage and come out from his addiction but same time he is scared because we are on visa and what he did was illegal.

love and lust different ani akka ki cheppandi 

 

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4 minutes ago, Raja_Returns said:

emotional ga connect avakunda entha mandi ni mingina parvaledu anamata ayete

goppa illalu

All film fraternity and high profiles business families lo married ladies follow ayye principle idhe 

Duck as many you want…use protection …don’t connect emotionally and don’t produce any kids 

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1 hour ago, kevinUsa said:

I am lost right now. We are married for 17 years and now I found out that my husband is cheating on me for 8 years. He went to massage parlors with happy ending for so many times and then for full service and escort too. Our physical relationship was always good. He said that he wants to try with other girls as he has that fantasy. And one more thing that he called my friend to do some flirting when I was in India. We have kids too and I am a housewife. Now he is saying that he regrets what he did and that will never happen again. And he said that he always loved me a lot and what he did that was payed service he never connected with anybody emotionally. I loved him like anything for past 17 years. My heart is broken I am not sure what to do?

He is ready to take counseling to save our marriage and come out from his addiction but same time he is scared because we are on visa and what he did was illegal.

What is illegal here ? Divorce aithe nup lekapothe alimony ivvali. Not a big deal. Gudde vayasu lo guddutha povadame. Vayasu ayipoyaka, janalaki cheptha povachu.

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