Single salary in USA is dina dina gandam

[mm_user]

1 minute ago, Ara_Tenkai said:

Day care chala important bro... ikkada kids ki friends undaruga... to be social they have to be in daycare

Its true. Indian community lo lekapothe day care must. 2 kids ni intlo maintain cheyatam chala kastam. Screen time perigipoi their routine becomes shitty.

Tappaka day care manipinchesa this month.

[baabaa]

$150K in Houston is good bhayya. Ikkada salaries anthe untayi. What was your previous job?

[Ara_Tenkai]

Just now, mm_user said:

Its true. Indian community lo lekapothe day care must. 2 kids ni intlo maintain cheyatam chala kastam. Screen time perigipoi their routine becomes shitty.

Tappaka day care manipinchesa this month.

vaddu bro...just my opinion... oka puta thinaka poyina parle kani... pillalni ee 4 walls lo ne petti vallaki bore kotti... they will not be happy...

[Assam_Bhayya]

Just now, Ara_Tenkai said:

Day care chala important bro... ikkada kids ki friends undaruga... to be social they have to be in daycare

ilaanti daridram valle autism, pedhayyaka personality disorders osthayi anna.

If one parent is not working, better spend time with kids, evening, neighbor kids tho time spending, taking kids outside every alternate day evenings. India relatives tho calls, avoiding gadgets chalu.

Daycare lo kuda antha socializing undadhu. Daycare ante, child ki valla day one nundi parents nundi disconnect untadhi. 6, 7 years ki they started treating parents as some outsiders, just formal relation lo bathakatame rest of the life.

e rojullo MS Nibba Nibbis though they are born brought up in India, ikkada settle ayithe pellilu kashtam. Inka ABCD ayithe baadha varna na theetham. 

[Aquaman]

5 minutes ago, mm_user said:

ee month nundi day care paisal save avvali. Car ammaledu inka. Talking to some dealers. 

But Home maintenance ki 500 ayyedi, bathroom cleaning, pest control, Lawn mowing, avi budh chesi nene cheskuntunna. 
HVAC unit giving trouble, technician gadu kottadi pedithe better antadu 15k bill ichadu.
Fense fell down - guessing 7k bill. 
Next 1yr recovery lone undi povali

urgent ga faang job kottu

[baabaa]

2 minutes ago, Ara_Tenkai said:

vaddu bro...just my opinion... oka puta thinaka poyina parle kani... pillalni ee 4 walls lo ne petti vallaki bore kotti... they will not be happy...

Yes, US lo you have to spend on kids activities. Otherwise screen chusi chusi mental gallu avutaru. Chinna pillalu aiyte daycare/homecare where they can play with other kids. Unless you or your wife can play with them but ee rojullo yavariki antha patience undadu to keep kids constantly busy.

Koncham pedda ayyaka have to spend money on sports/activities of their choice. 

[shaktimaan]

9 minutes ago, mm_user said:

ee month nundi day care paisal save avvali. Car ammaledu inka. Talking to some dealers. 

But Home maintenance ki 500 ayyedi, bathroom cleaning, pest control, Lawn mowing, avi budh chesi nene cheskuntunna. 
HVAC unit giving trouble, technician gadu kottadi pedithe better antadu 15k bill ichadu.
Fense fell down - guessing 7k bill. 
Next 1yr recovery lone undi povali

unless your hvac is 15+ years old, you shouldn’t be spending that much to replace. Get more quotes from recommendations to repair.  Most of them take advantage if you sound naive 

[Arjun9]

11 minutes ago, mm_user said:

 

 

Home EMI - 4000
Medical ins - 800
day care - 1200
grocery - 1000
phone - 200
care insu - 200
2 car EMI - 1000 (SUV and Mini Van)
Misc - 500

in Hand 9k vastundi rough ga.
kid day care bundh chesina and oka car ammeddam anukuntunna. 

Totally Relatable with no kids malla..

Home EMI - 4300 (with Property Tax), Car EMI - 600, Car Insurance - 200, Gas - 100-150, ATT - 120, Internet - 50, Insurance - 900, Groceries/Restaurants/Food/Costco - 1000, Power/Gas/water - 300.. Misc/gifts/Outing - 300-500...  Pest/grass/weed - 100... Approx 8000$/Month.. iga India triplu egastra

 

 

 

[Gorantlamdhav]

16 minutes ago, mm_user said:

 

 

Home EMI - 4000
Medical ins - 800
day care - 1200
grocery - 1000
phone - 200
care insu - 200
2 car EMI - 1000 (SUV and Mini Van)
Misc - 500

in Hand 9k vastundi rough ga.
kid day care bundh chesina and oka car ammeddam anukuntunna. 

kid is important 

send to daycare as it helps learning in longterm 

car selling is better if possible 

also home sell chesi move to rental to save 

[Tellugodu]

45 minutes ago, mm_user said:

H1B meda high paying job poindi, kotha job paying 150k in Houston.

Car, Home, Medical insurances, Grocery bills, kid day care costs increased so much that life became dina dina gandam.

kid day care apesanu currently. Anyone in same boat?

 

wife em pani chestadi bro ?? Try to find a job for her. 

[mm_user]

10 minutes ago, JANASENA said:

go to carvana they always give best deal and on spot payment 

they gave me best price and payed me on spot

will try bro. thanks. 

[mm_user]

9 minutes ago, baabaa said:

$150K in Houston is good bhayya. Ikkada salaries anthe untayi. What was your previous job?

Walmart lo job peekindi. 220k remote vastunde. 3months pattindi malli job dorakadaniki. Almost India podam anukunna time lo friend recommendation tho 150k job dorkindi. I am just lucky anukovali aa vishayamlo. 

 

[mm_user]

8 minutes ago, Aquaman said:

urgent ga faang job kottu

MAANG lo interviews mamul competition ledu. 5 rounds vesi kuda position went hold ani 1month tarvata cheptunnaru.

bayata job market mamul gabbu ledu. ekkadoka chota konnallu anni mooskoni undatame.

Market recover ayyaka 200k+ job kottali. But it seems long wait.

[Aquaman]

2 minutes ago, mm_user said:

MAANG lo interviews mamul competition ledu. 5 rounds vesi kuda position went hold ani 1month tarvata cheptunnaru.

bayata job market mamul gabbu ledu. ekkadoka chota konnallu anni mooskoni undatame.

Market recover ayyaka 200k+ job kottali. But it seems long wait.

take 3 months training from @csrcsr anna.. pakka MAANG lo job vasthadhi.... he trained hundreds  

[Ara_Tenkai]

17 minutes ago, Assam_Bhayya said:

ilaanti daridram valle autism, pedhayyaka personality disorders osthayi anna.

If one parent is not working, better spend time with kids, evening, neighbor kids tho time spending, taking kids outside every alternate day evenings. India relatives tho calls, avoiding gadgets chalu.

Daycare lo kuda antha socializing undadhu. Daycare ante, child ki valla day one nundi parents nundi disconnect untadhi. 6, 7 years ki they started treating parents as some outsiders, just formal relation lo bathakatame rest of the life.

e rojullo MS Nibba Nibbis though they are born brought up in India, ikkada settle ayithe pellilu kashtam. Inka ABCD ayithe baadha varna na theetham. 

I think evari life experiences vallavi anukunta... Ayina autism ravadam undadu bro,..they will be born with it...ayina adi sensitive topic le.. we should not discuss it...