usetime63 Posted August 13 Report Share Posted August 13 Asking for a friend who is in this group. Hi plz post this for me!! I m 35 yr old married to highly egoistic and extremely short-tempered man (40) married for 10 yrs and have 2 kids. Because of his physical, mental abuse, I usually have bad days which is obviously revealed as am sad most of the days.. his friends know about our hard life.. so one of his friends( male 38 yr old) who is also married to short tempered 30 yr lady and also have 2 kids.. is getting attracted to me.. his wife misbehaved with his parents and mistreat him..when my husband had to go to UK for 2 weeks and his wife was visiting her cousin at Canada.. he used to visit me often after work and discuss about our miserable lives.. within a week we became very close.. like hugging each other, lean on his chest.. nothing else. He tried to kiss me but I refused. But now a days I often think about him and longing for such a nice spouse.. and he feels the same.. we feel that we both are soulmates.. should we visit a counselor? How to overcome this? We both have zero connection with our own spouses because of their toxic behavior. Has anyone faced this type of attraction? We do know the reality pic that we both can’t stay together… Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
usetime63 Posted August 13 Author Report Share Posted August 13 Atta thayar ayindi a group, ivi nijalo leka fake pakodi posts o, entertaining aytey pakka untadi. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevinUsa Posted August 13 Report Share Posted August 13 Divorce your abusive spouse. But don't go around cheating. Two wrongs don't make a right. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevinUsa Posted August 13 Report Share Posted August 13 You are cheating on your husband and it will destroy both your families, especially your both children’s lives. If you are unhappy with him, divorce him first and let him divorce his wife. Then you both need to take time to heal and work on your individual selves. If after couple of years, you both still want to continue your relationship, then pursue it. It’s best to have a relationship than an affair. Don’t be cake eaters. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevinUsa Posted August 13 Report Share Posted August 13 The man who is hitting on his friends’s wife in absence of his friend . doesn’t deserve any respect and peace in his Life so he gonna suffer i am sure. You might get suffer too 10h10 hours ago Reply Edited Quiz Monsters Unleashed · Vikas Gupta The wife is responding to husband's friend while he is away. Tali to dono hath se baj rahi hai bhai jaan.. 🤷🏻♂️ 3h3 hours ago Reply Vikas Gupta Quiz Monsters Unleashed yep . Sadly Villain gonna born the day when her husband get to know what his wife and friend doing behind him . Double cross from friend and wife too . 3h3 hours ago Reply Suraj Kumar Or all 4 are cheating. How come UK and Canada trips happens at the same time.😆😆. This is way sctipted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevinUsa Posted August 13 Report Share Posted August 13 If you want to break your marriage, divorce. Don’t cheat. And BTW, if he cheats WITH you, he’ll likely cheat ON you. Best to think what you’re doing and stay away from each other until you decide. 5h5 hours ago Reply Syed Heena Ahmed Donna Young THIS I agree with. 4h4 hours ago Reply Siddharth Kumar Donna Young both are already cheaters here! 4h4 hours ago Reply Donna Young Siddharth Kumar - yes, I meant before cheating, you should divorce. It's never okay to cheat while in marriage. 2h2 hours ago Reply Aditi Patil He isn't your soul mate. He is taking advantage of you in your situation. Our probably you both.. In case you get divorce, he will run back to his family or he will keep you as a side chick. Plz don't fall in a trap. Sort your life first. Take your time to heal. Dont fall for anyone when you are vulnerable and desperate. You will only attract ingenuine ppl. 6h6 hours ago Reply Edited Teddy Panda Ever since I have joined this group, I have lost whatever little interest I had in getting married… Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevinUsa Posted August 13 Report Share Posted August 13 Become independent while being married. File for divorce. Then date this guy for a couple of years provided he leaves his spouse too. Then think of marriage. Running from one disaster into another is not making smart choices. You got kids, and you are setting an example for them. You will fall in love, and that guy may not. You will suffer a lot on the easy path you are trying to take. If you just want to have a causal affair, that’s another story. But dignity, your brain which will definitely fall in love, the idea that the boundaries of a relationship are so grey for both of you - Naah, it will drive you crazy. Do the cost benefit analysis. This is a losing proposition from the outset. Try taking the hard route with this guy, and see if he measures up. If you measure up. Also, it’s not about him. This is about you. Your life, your kids. Your well being. Your dignity. Maybe this long distance love will give you the courage to get out of a toxic marriage. Sometimes that is enough 😇 4h4 hours ago Reply Edited Dan Govar You are thinking that grass is greener on the other side. Relationships are always stressful. No matter who you marry. Only first few months are good. After that movie starts. 3h3 hours ago Reply Pia “Stolen kisses are the sweetest” Initial phase of any new relationship will be sweet, sexy and all butterflies…. Cuz the thrill of not getting caught and a having a lover does excites the hormones… Plus points : You will groom well Always murmur song and in good mood You feel young and energetic as 10 years down All the love song lyrics will be meaningful 🥰 Things to remember: Emotional attachment (the dramas 🙄) Does he wants , what u want? (Good thrilling sex or future together ) Clarity of each others needs (emotionally, physically and financially) trust me most affair also brings financial tightness. And kids, what you both going to do with your own respective kids ? Note : He already knows about your abusive relationship. Ask yourself ,is he manipulating you ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevinUsa Posted August 13 Report Share Posted August 13 Shilpa Yellapragada well said. OP - cheating is a choice so please don’t do this. From your post it clearly shows u have mid life crisis and rather trying to solve ur current issue first. u r choosing a very temporary solution which will ruin ur all relations and please be mindful the image impact u r going to cause to ur kids. To me that man is just taking advantage and u will suffer a big time and incur lot of Bad Karma. Have control on urself and solve ur issue first with ur husbanf. 1habout an hour ago Reply Vikas Gupta The man who is hitting on his friends’s wife in absence of his friend . doesn’t deserve any respect and peace in his Life so he gonna suffer i am sure. You might get suffer too 10h10 hours ago Reply Edited Quiz Monsters Unleashed · Vikas Gupta The wife is responding to husband's friend while he is away. Tali to dono hath se baj rahi hai bhai jaan.. 🤷🏻♂️ 3h3 hours ago Reply Vikas Gupta Quiz Monsters Unleashed yep . Sadly Villain gonna born the day when her husband get to know what his wife and friend doing behind him . Double cross from friend and wife too . 3h3 hours ago Reply Suraj Kumar Or all 4 are cheating. How come UK and Canada trips happens at the same time.😆😆. This is way sctipted. 1habout an hour ago Reply Quiz Monsters Unleashed · Suraj Kumar Kabhi Alvida Na Kehna? 🤣 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Assam_Bhayya Posted August 13 Report Share Posted August 13 mana db lo chala mandi looking to help people going thru such miserable marital life, aadarinchadaniki, odarchadaniki desperate unnaru, kaani chance ravatledu anta, ilaanti cheppi vallani inkaa fantasy loki netteyakandi anna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post The_Mentalist Posted August 13 Popular Post Report Share Posted August 13 19 minutes ago, usetime63 said: Asking for a friend who is in this group. Hi plz post this for me!! I m 35 yr old married to highly egoistic and extremely short-tempered man (40) married for 10 yrs and have 2 kids. Because of his physical, mental abuse, I usually have bad days which is obviously revealed as am sad most of the days.. his friends know about our hard life.. so one of his friends( male 38 yr old) who is also married to short tempered 30 yr lady and also have 2 kids.. is getting attracted to me.. his wife misbehaved with his parents and mistreat him..when my husband had to go to UK for 2 weeks and his wife was visiting her cousin at Canada.. he used to visit me often after work and discuss about our miserable lives.. within a week we became very close.. like hugging each other, lean on his chest.. nothing else. He tried to kiss me but I refused. But now a days I often think about him and longing for such a nice spouse.. and he feels the same.. we feel that we both are soulmates.. should we visit a counselor? How to overcome this? We both have zero connection with our own spouses because of their toxic behavior. Has anyone faced this type of attraction? We do know the reality pic that we both can’t stay together… Yes you guys are soulmates just like them 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maggavale Posted August 13 Report Share Posted August 13 Expats harini vaunty ni approach avamanu ... 2 mins lo divorce ipichi 10guddi . Inka next Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadiesTailor Posted August 13 Report Share Posted August 13 1 hour ago, The_Mentalist said: Yes you guys are soulmates just like them Haha same post veddam anukunna… 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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