Atluntadi fellalthoti

[FrustratedVuncle]

10 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

What if she knew that from day 1… and gave that money as seed money for his business? 

intiki down payment ani 10gesaru anna. . 20L down payment ki na daggara 12L 10garu. 

Vaddi ki paisal icharu ani telisaka G lo mandindi. boothulu thitti 10ga. No use.

 

[praying]

7 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Last time ma parents 1month ki USA ki vachinapudu my dear wife, kottaga food pettana neku ani naku plate lo petti ichedi.

And after parents left alage adigi mari food plate lo petti ivvatam continued. Felt so happy.

Today I came to know, ratri migilipoina rice microwave lo petti first naku pedutundi roju ani 

Atha kuthullu migilipoina food naku petti vaallu fresh food thintu paiga mogudiki first plate lo petti istunna ani covering. 

Na akkaki 2L avasaram ani pampithe, gola gola enduku pampali ani. Valla thammudiki india lo avasaram ani 12L appu ippinchindi joint account nundi, 2yrs ki 1L return pamputu inka 80% appu alage undi. Recent ga telisindi enti ante, vadu 12L vaddiki thippukuntu naku zero interest paying. Idhi mana kodi brain atha gari planning. 

Monna India poinapudu, DW bags paina battalu teeste kgs of chocolates, $2000 worth of gifts for their side. Mana parents/sisters ki chinna gift konna, em konnav, entha petti konnav, avasarama ivanni vallu akkada konukkuntaru le ani lov da lo godava.

Mana parents and sisters are outside families, wife parents, brothers, sisters are true family annattu sava 10gudu epdu. 

You should dissapear for few days and go into exile. See what will happen to your wife and atha garu

[FrustratedVuncle]

45 minutes ago, jpismahatma said:

No use. Looks like you parents left you dummy. I would have your mom call her brother and ask money and you do everyday 

Emundi le bammarde kada hawa untadi ani ichina. India poinapudu maryadalu gavi bane chestaru. Venaka gisonti gudisetu vesalu vestunnaru. 

ma ayya ki cheppina, wife ni adagamanu, inko 1yr lo ivvakapothe nen adugutha annadu. 

 

[FrustratedVuncle]

55 minutes ago, nokia123 said:

Gee vishayam lo attu side amma side emi undadhu ba … ma parents bhi eppudu idhe gola me akka and valla fillalu eeda shana kashtalu paduthunru mee india lo asthulu vallaki iccheyyandi …meeru elago thirigi raru kadha and akkada meeku dabbulu dhandigaane unnayi ani …eeda mana badhalu lekkalu seppina ardham sesukoru 

mana parents mana akka mogudi dabbulu manaki ivvamani adagaru kada.

adigithe mana paisalu akkaki immantaru. Big difference no anna. 

[FrustratedVuncle]

38 minutes ago, Peddayana said:

bro, nuvvu assalu cheppava neeku saddi annam vaddu ani?

sometimes ppl do these stupid things so as not to waste food (could be their upbringing or how they are conditioned), clear ga cheppu to throw it away and give you fresh food every day, aa matram kooda cheppe dhairyam lekapothe inka assam train ye

 

ooooko anna tatri annam evaru istapadtaru anna. Adi special ga cheppala.

Nenu migilipoina food thinanu kavalante naku half glass takkuva rice ani chepta. 

[Kootami]

21 minutes ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Emundi le bammarde kada hawa untadi ani ichina. India poinapudu maryadalu gavi bane chestaru. Venaka gisonti gudisetu vesalu vestunnaru. 

ma ayya ki cheppina, wife ni adagamanu, inko 1yr lo ivvakapothe nen adugutha annadu. 

 

Dabbulu istey gani maryadalu cheyara ??

[FrustratedVuncle]

38 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

Marriage lo oka balance annadi untundi ... We have to make sure its in the middle .. if we see it going the other way, we have to figure out a way to get it to middle.

For e.g. If you take dowry, its already on their side. You wont get the respect you deserve from their family. Don't take even marriage expenses. Bear it.

Likewise, affairs after marriage, getting caught red handed with messages, etc swings the balance in their favor.

Also mana @Thokkalee cheppinatlu, marriage ayina kothalo Baby, da, etc and giving in for whatever they want (you know how they get what they want)... swings balance in their favor.

Be nice, love them & share but they have to reciprocate as well. 

Doing some nice things to them, sharing chores once in a while, appreciate certain things swings the balance in your favor. 

Also Men are logical and women are emotional. Saying no to them is an art. Say yes to everything they say, then put a question in such a way that they start thinking and they themselves say NO to it.

Balance, dowry, gifts, showing love givanni okay anna. 

manam sava lacha panullo busy ga undi, sarle ee chinna chinna vatiki emundi le ani vadilestam... aaa gap lo kompalu munchi 10gtaru. Manaki telise sariki damage aipoi untadi.

future lo avvakunda choosukovatame kani how to control upfront telidu. I am asking how to control that. 

[FrustratedVuncle]

43 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

2 weeks ki 12 lakhs ante good deal 😁

if he doesn’t give back the money, you have a good opportunity to bug her about it and bring that topic every time.. or even mention that they are profiting from your money… 

emi konamannaa, aa 12 lakhs thiskuraa kondaamu anochhu.. 

you can make that 12 lakhs worth 50 lakhs by making good use of it in every fight.. 

 

 

35 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

Simply say - Maa friend adigadu 1.5 rs vaddi istha annadu. Aa money maname vaddiki tippithe, oka 1 yr lo gold konachu .. evo adugutunnav kadaa ... 

100% work avuddi ... 

India poinapudu Jewelry and kotha cheeralu adigithe me thammudi ki pampu bill, kadithe konukko ani cheppi cut chesina india lo bills. 

[praying]

Just now, FrustratedVuncle said:

 

India poinapudu Jewelry and kotha cheeralu adigithe me thammudi ki pampu bill, kadithe konukko ani cheppi cut chesina india lo bills. 

e advantages tho polchukunte... ni bammardi istha anna nuvvu venakki teesukoku....

[FrustratedVuncle]

4 minutes ago, Kootami said:

Dabbulu istey gani maryadalu cheyara ??

alludu vachadu ani chesara, dabbulu ichamani chesaro telvadanna. 

Paisal return vachaka ela treat chestaro apudu telustadi. 

[Tellugodu]

6 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Evaristunnaranna katnalu iyal repu. 

Edo chapala cheruvu, some money on wifes name. never enquired or touched that money. 

How much it would be worth now? Does she work? 

[ramannar]

3 hours ago, Thokkalee said:

Valla thammudiki 12L ivvadaniki, ee condition pettalsindi 😁😁😁

@FrustratedVuncle bamardi gadu ichetod b j 🙃 sollu videalu iyyak anna

[ramannar]

20 minutes ago, praying said:

e advantages tho polchukunte... ni bammardi istha anna nuvvu venakki teesukoku....

Kotta case lu fadthay when they realize veenitho manaku no use

Eggjample 4 9 8 A 

Mana faisall 10gi mana faina case aeyach

 

They do regular farformens affraisall

[Pahelwan4]

8 hours ago, The_Mentalist said:

Intha chesina g muskoni kusuntunnav ante U did some ranku mogudu ramasamy things and Ur wife found it

andhuke pelli ayinanka shutter banjeskovali ani cheppedhi

I think uncle g valaga dowry tiskuni untadu so kukkina penu Lekka undalsinde 

[Thokkalee]

1 hour ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Balance, dowry, gifts, showing love givanni okay anna. 

manam sava lacha panullo busy ga undi, sarle ee chinna chinna vatiki emundi le ani vadilestam... aaa gap lo kompalu munchi 10gtaru. Manaki telise sariki damage aipoi untadi.

future lo avvakunda choosukovatame kani how to control upfront telidu. I am asking how to control that. 

Jokes apart.. ivanni prathi intlo undeve.. all of us are going through the same though we bravely suggest you some ideas.. 😂

At least your wife is working and cooking food for you.. if she is earning, she has every right to support her parents and siblings.. 

naku friends lo house wife ga undi, cooking sarigaa raani vallu kuda unnaru… daddy’s pet type.. on top of that, in laws family domination kudaaa.. vadini chuste chala jaali vesuddi..