Job to homeless for a desi in bay area

[Moon_Walker]

From expats group

Dear friends and community,

I find myself in an incredibly difficult and painful situation, and I am turning to you all with the hope that someone may be able to guide or help me find a way forward. My husband went to the USA for work in January 2020, and until October 2022, he was sending money to help with our home loan EMIs. However, since November 2022, he has completely cut off all contact with me and our two children. He has blocked us on all social media, and I’ve tried countless times to reach out through emails, calls, and messages, but to no avail.

The home loan EMI is ₹85,000 per month—a huge burden—but somehow, I’ve managed to pay it for the past 18 months. Now, however, I am at a breaking point. I’ve tried so hard to keep things together for our family, but I can’t manage the payments any longer on my own.

In one brief phone call before he blocked our numbers again, he mentioned that he had lost his job and was living with homeless people. I pleaded with him to come back to India so we could sell our flat, pay off the loan, and move to a smaller home. But he feels hopeless, especially at his age (50), thinking he won’t find another job. That was the last I heard from him.

I came all the way to San Francisco to meet him, to get the paperwork signed so we can move forward, but he’s not responding, and I don’t know what else to do. Without his signature, I can’t sell our flat and relieve this financial pressure.

I am at a loss—emotionally and financially. My children and I are facing an incredibly uncertain future, and I am desperately seeking advice from anyone who may have experience in legal or financial matters. How can I move forward? What options do I have when he won’t communicate or cooperate? Any advice, support, or direction would mean the world to me during this incredibly tough time.

Thank you for taking the time to read this and for any help you might offer. 🙏

[ManchamKodi]

@Aquaman konchem me friend ki chepu anna wife and kids ni bada pettadam enduku. 

ask him to stay with family mountain house lo em chestadu vayya me friend. konchem pellam pillalatho undamanu.

@csrcsr uncle endi annaa please go to India and clear the mortage neku ne wife istam lekunte file for divorce anthe kanni enni years vadilestavu

[mettastar]

Sign cheyinchukodaniki vachindhi anta .. not for her mogudu .. 18 months nunchi homeless untunnadu ani telsi endjmuku care cheyaledhu aunty