Bayam vestundi myan.. Aada ladies stay out...

[FrustratedVuncle]

Amma (Dad staying in India due to work) coming to stay with us for 6months (for the first time) in few weeks. 

Intha varaku ma parents tho pattumani 1month kuda continuous ga ledu Dear wife. 

Epudu ma yamma, ma thammudu antu torture pette pellalu tho how to maintain parents in omrika for a smooth 6months time.

Amma oka pakka pellam oka pakka, naku enduko yuddam aytademo anipistundi.

Atha vaste different story, amma kuthullu mogudi meda padi edustuntaru, vadileste vaalla saavu vallu sastaru.

mana parents ante, teda vaste godava peak ki potundi kada... 

DB peddalu throw some light. best practices. Things to do to make a pleasant stay for parents. 

[ManchamKodi]

7 minutes ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Amma (Dad staying in India due to work) coming to stay with us for 6months (for the first time) in few weeks. 

Intha varaku ma parents tho pattumani 1month kuda continuous ga ledu Dear wife. 

Epudu ma yamma, ma thammudu antu torture pette pellalu tho how to maintain parents in omrika for a smooth 6months time.

Amma oka pakka pellam oka pakka, naku enduko yuddam aytademo anipistundi.

Atha vaste different story, amma kuthullu mogudi meda padi edustuntaru, vadileste vaalla saavu vallu sastaru.

mana parents ante, teda vaste godava peak ki potundi kada... 

DB peddalu throw some light. best practices. Things to do to make a pleasant stay for parents. 

give one room for wife and mother-in-law.

you stay in seperate room and act your are very busy at job. Office ki vellu 5 days weekend workout ani chepi morning vellu afternoon paduko evening mandu kottu. repeat for 6 months .

vallu ninnu mingina US lo em annaku, India trip ani chepi wife ni india lo vadileyi baga kathal mingute

cc @Android_Halwa @Konebhar6 @Assam_Bhayya @ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU @TeluguTexas for help.

 

[praying]

6 minutes ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Amma (Dad staying in India due to work) coming to stay with us for 6months (for the first time) in few weeks. 

Intha varaku ma parents tho pattumani 1month kuda continuous ga ledu Dear wife. 

Epudu ma yamma, ma thammudu antu torture pette pellalu tho how to maintain parents in omrika for a smooth 6months time.

Amma oka pakka pellam oka pakka, naku enduko yuddam aytademo anipistundi.

Atha vaste different story, amma kuthullu mogudi meda padi edustuntaru, vadileste vaalla saavu vallu sastaru.

mana parents ante, teda vaste godava peak ki potundi kada... 

DB peddalu throw some light. best practices. Things to do to make a pleasant stay for parents. 

manam cheyali anukuntam kani.... final ga mana chetullo emi undadu.... just watch anthe.... 

[11_MohanReddy]

1 minute ago, praying said:

manam cheyali anukuntam kani.... final ga mana chetullo emi undadu.... just watch anthe.... 

Bhagavad Geeta saramsam cheppavu ga

[TeluguTexas]

2 minutes ago, ManchamKodi said:

give one room for wife and mother-in-law.

you stay in seperate room and act your are very busy at job. Office ki vellu 5 days weekend workout ani chepi morning vellu afternoon paduko evening mandu kottu. repeat for 6 months .

vallu ninnu mingina US lo em annaku, India trip ani chepi wife ni vadileyi baga kathal 10guthe

cc @Android_Halwa @Konebhar6 @Assam_Bhayya @ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU @TeluguTexas for help.

 

Arey india lo laws women baised

omerika is better atleast case vintaru

india lo bhobbey ra antaru

 

 

[FrustratedVuncle]

3 minutes ago, praying said:

manam cheyali anukuntam kani.... final ga mana chetullo emi undadu.... just watch anthe.... 

choostu ela untam anna. Mana parents ni maryadaka chooskopothe calmga ela untam? 

Or what if mom complains about wife? calm ga undatamena?

[praying]

2 minutes ago, 11_MohanReddy said:

Bhagavad Geeta saramsam cheppavu ga

Its a fact no, manam entha conflict lekunda choodam anna mana energy waste anthe, when their basic instincts are to fight they will fight anthe…

[praying]

Just now, FrustratedVuncle said:

choostu ela untam anna. Mana parents ni maryadaka chooskopothe calmga ela untam? 

Or what if mom complains about wife? calm ga undatamena?

You should be ready to face the reality, when they dont have respect inside, it will not reflect outside. First lo act chesina tarvatha ardham aipoddi, neeku kuda first lo baga kopam vastadi tarvatha alavatu aipoddi

[FrustratedVuncle]

6 minutes ago, ManchamKodi said:

give one room for wife and mother-in-law.

you stay in seperate room and act your are very busy at job. Office ki vellu 5 days weekend workout ani chepi morning vellu afternoon paduko evening mandu kottu. repeat for 6 months .

vallu ninnu mingina US lo em annaku, India trip ani chepi wife ni india lo vadileyi baga kathal mingute

cc @Android_Halwa @Konebhar6 @Assam_Bhayya @ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU @TeluguTexas for help.

 

vastundi my mom. wife and mom ni oka room lo petti nenu busy ga tirigithe roof untadantava?

[FrustratedVuncle]

Just now, praying said:

You should be ready to face the reality, when they dont have respect inside, it will not reflect outside. First lo act chesina tarvatha ardham aipoddi, neeku kuda first lo baga kopam vastadi tarvatha alavatu aipoddi

India trip poinapudu pellalu mana parents tho hardly 1 week or 2 weeks kuda undaru.. apude chala problems kanipistai.. ipudu 6months lo full blast situations raise avtai ani ardam avtundi... but how to handle is what scaring me. 

[BejawadaChow]

My best friend went through this exact phase as well, we used to sit and talk about this.

In his situation,  his elder sister and mother had huge argument with his wife about some internal matter.

friend wife and mother, sister did not speak after that about 2 years before his wife conceived, initially they were reluctant to come here and take care of kid because of his wife mind set, but they came here somehow ( this guy managed to get them here).

after they were here, everything was casual..

except couple of misunderstands all went fine.

take parents and wife out every weekend.

have drinks togeather

visit friends place.

watch movies etc..,

only disadvantage is they are comin in winter, not much places to visit.

hope this helps

good luck.

 

 

[BattalaSathi]

19 minutes ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Amma (Dad staying in India due to work) coming to stay with us for 6months (for the first time) in few weeks. 

Intha varaku ma parents tho pattumani 1month kuda continuous ga ledu Dear wife. 

Epudu ma yamma, ma thammudu antu torture pette pellalu tho how to maintain parents in omrika for a smooth 6months time.

Amma oka pakka pellam oka pakka, naku enduko yuddam aytademo anipistundi.

Atha vaste different story, amma kuthullu mogudi meda padi edustuntaru, vadileste vaalla saavu vallu sastaru.

mana parents ante, teda vaste godava peak ki potundi kada... 

DB peddalu throw some light. best practices. Things to do to make a pleasant stay for parents. 

tennis match lo choosthavu kadha..attage calm gaa koosukuni popcorn/chicken 65 thintoo atu itu thala thapputhoo calm gaa soosi enjoy cheyyi..edava comments pass cheyyaku, just choodu anthe...evaraina oka point meedha win ayithe calm gaa Race Gurram lo Praksh Raj laaga melligaa chappatlu kottu...continue this for 6 months...

eee sutram amalu chesi nuvvu bathiki batta kadithe eedaki vachi naaku oka Thanks cheppi po..lekapothe RIP...paina kaludham...

[FrustratedVuncle]

8 minutes ago, BejawadaChow said:

My best friend went through this exact phase as well, we used to sit and talk about this.

In his situation,  his elder sister and mother had huge argument with his wife about some internal matter.

friend wife and mother, sister did not speak after that about 2 years before his wife conceived, initially they were reluctant to come here and take care of kid because of his wife mind set, but they came here somehow ( this guy managed to get them here).

after they were here, everything was casual..

except couple of misunderstands all went fine.

take parents and wife out every weekend.

have drinks togeather

visit friends place.

watch movies etc..,

only disadvantage is they are comin in winter, not much places to visit.

hope this helps

good luck.

 

 

I visited my friend in Austin recently. I eavesdropped wifes coversation, friend's wife and others were bitching and venting about their in-laws like they are the daemons on the earth. Help cheyaru, epudu adi cheyyi ala cheyyi ani savagadatharu, vantalu balevu, asalu adjust avvaru blah blah anii...

Bayataki teskeltam cheyochu but still conflicts are inevitable. I was shocked all aada ladies can't bear their in-laws for few months given they only visit 2 times in their life time. 

[ManchamKodi]

17 minutes ago, TeluguTexas said:

Arey india lo laws women baised

omerika is better atleast case vintaru

india lo bhobbey ra antaru

 

 

Women biased aite strong ga undalli anna biatches ni jail ki pampali

[ManchamKodi]

14 minutes ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

vastundi my mom. wife and mom ni oka room lo petti nenu busy ga tirigithe roof untadantava?

neenu mother in law anukunna. me Mom ante inka ekuva problems anna.

 

give one room for wife .

you stay in seperate room with your mom. 

Make your wife busy on weekdays send her to gym, office and swimming . India body kabbati nuvvu weekday office and gym she can't be active on weekend. Repeat for 6 months

cc @TeluguTexas @Konebhar6