Popular Post FrustratedVuncle Posted October 3 Popular Post Report Share Posted October 3 Amma (Dad staying in India due to work) coming to stay with us for 6months (for the first time) in few weeks. Intha varaku ma parents tho pattumani 1month kuda continuous ga ledu Dear wife. Epudu ma yamma, ma thammudu antu torture pette pellalu tho how to maintain parents in omrika for a smooth 6months time. Amma oka pakka pellam oka pakka, naku enduko yuddam aytademo anipistundi. Atha vaste different story, amma kuthullu mogudi meda padi edustuntaru, vadileste vaalla saavu vallu sastaru. mana parents ante, teda vaste godava peak ki potundi kada... DB peddalu throw some light. best practices. Things to do to make a pleasant stay for parents. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ManchamKodi Posted October 3 Popular Post Report Share Posted October 3 7 minutes ago, FrustratedVuncle said: Amma (Dad staying in India due to work) coming to stay with us for 6months (for the first time) in few weeks. Intha varaku ma parents tho pattumani 1month kuda continuous ga ledu Dear wife. Epudu ma yamma, ma thammudu antu torture pette pellalu tho how to maintain parents in omrika for a smooth 6months time. Amma oka pakka pellam oka pakka, naku enduko yuddam aytademo anipistundi. Atha vaste different story, amma kuthullu mogudi meda padi edustuntaru, vadileste vaalla saavu vallu sastaru. mana parents ante, teda vaste godava peak ki potundi kada... DB peddalu throw some light. best practices. Things to do to make a pleasant stay for parents. give one room for wife and mother-in-law. you stay in seperate room and act your are very busy at job. Office ki vellu 5 days weekend workout ani chepi morning vellu afternoon paduko evening mandu kottu. repeat for 6 months . vallu ninnu mingina US lo em annaku, India trip ani chepi wife ni india lo vadileyi baga kathal mingute cc @Android_Halwa @Konebhar6 @Assam_Bhayya @ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU @TeluguTexas for help. 2 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post praying Posted October 3 Popular Post Report Share Posted October 3 6 minutes ago, FrustratedVuncle said: Amma (Dad staying in India due to work) coming to stay with us for 6months (for the first time) in few weeks. Intha varaku ma parents tho pattumani 1month kuda continuous ga ledu Dear wife. Epudu ma yamma, ma thammudu antu torture pette pellalu tho how to maintain parents in omrika for a smooth 6months time. Amma oka pakka pellam oka pakka, naku enduko yuddam aytademo anipistundi. Atha vaste different story, amma kuthullu mogudi meda padi edustuntaru, vadileste vaalla saavu vallu sastaru. mana parents ante, teda vaste godava peak ki potundi kada... DB peddalu throw some light. best practices. Things to do to make a pleasant stay for parents. manam cheyali anukuntam kani.... final ga mana chetullo emi undadu.... just watch anthe.... 8 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post 11_MohanReddy Posted October 3 Popular Post Report Share Posted October 3 1 minute ago, praying said: manam cheyali anukuntam kani.... final ga mana chetullo emi undadu.... just watch anthe.... Bhagavad Geeta saramsam cheppavu ga 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeluguTexas Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 2 minutes ago, ManchamKodi said: give one room for wife and mother-in-law. you stay in seperate room and act your are very busy at job. Office ki vellu 5 days weekend workout ani chepi morning vellu afternoon paduko evening mandu kottu. repeat for 6 months . vallu ninnu mingina US lo em annaku, India trip ani chepi wife ni vadileyi baga kathal 10guthe cc @Android_Halwa @Konebhar6 @Assam_Bhayya @ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU @TeluguTexas for help. Arey india lo laws women baised omerika is better atleast case vintaru india lo bhobbey ra antaru 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrustratedVuncle Posted October 3 Author Report Share Posted October 3 3 minutes ago, praying said: manam cheyali anukuntam kani.... final ga mana chetullo emi undadu.... just watch anthe.... choostu ela untam anna. Mana parents ni maryadaka chooskopothe calmga ela untam? Or what if mom complains about wife? calm ga undatamena? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
praying Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 2 minutes ago, 11_MohanReddy said: Bhagavad Geeta saramsam cheppavu ga Its a fact no, manam entha conflict lekunda choodam anna mana energy waste anthe, when their basic instincts are to fight they will fight anthe… Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post praying Posted October 3 Popular Post Report Share Posted October 3 Just now, FrustratedVuncle said: choostu ela untam anna. Mana parents ni maryadaka chooskopothe calmga ela untam? Or what if mom complains about wife? calm ga undatamena? You should be ready to face the reality, when they dont have respect inside, it will not reflect outside. First lo act chesina tarvatha ardham aipoddi, neeku kuda first lo baga kopam vastadi tarvatha alavatu aipoddi 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post FrustratedVuncle Posted October 3 Author Popular Post Report Share Posted October 3 6 minutes ago, ManchamKodi said: give one room for wife and mother-in-law. you stay in seperate room and act your are very busy at job. Office ki vellu 5 days weekend workout ani chepi morning vellu afternoon paduko evening mandu kottu. repeat for 6 months . vallu ninnu mingina US lo em annaku, India trip ani chepi wife ni india lo vadileyi baga kathal mingute cc @Android_Halwa @Konebhar6 @Assam_Bhayya @ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU @TeluguTexas for help. vastundi my mom. wife and mom ni oka room lo petti nenu busy ga tirigithe roof untadantava? 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrustratedVuncle Posted October 3 Author Report Share Posted October 3 Just now, praying said: You should be ready to face the reality, when they dont have respect inside, it will not reflect outside. First lo act chesina tarvatha ardham aipoddi, neeku kuda first lo baga kopam vastadi tarvatha alavatu aipoddi India trip poinapudu pellalu mana parents tho hardly 1 week or 2 weeks kuda undaru.. apude chala problems kanipistai.. ipudu 6months lo full blast situations raise avtai ani ardam avtundi... but how to handle is what scaring me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BejawadaChow Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 My best friend went through this exact phase as well, we used to sit and talk about this. In his situation, his elder sister and mother had huge argument with his wife about some internal matter. friend wife and mother, sister did not speak after that about 2 years before his wife conceived, initially they were reluctant to come here and take care of kid because of his wife mind set, but they came here somehow ( this guy managed to get them here). after they were here, everything was casual.. except couple of misunderstands all went fine. take parents and wife out every weekend. have drinks togeather visit friends place. watch movies etc.., only disadvantage is they are comin in winter, not much places to visit. hope this helps good luck. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BattalaSathi Posted October 3 Popular Post Report Share Posted October 3 19 minutes ago, FrustratedVuncle said: Amma (Dad staying in India due to work) coming to stay with us for 6months (for the first time) in few weeks. Intha varaku ma parents tho pattumani 1month kuda continuous ga ledu Dear wife. Epudu ma yamma, ma thammudu antu torture pette pellalu tho how to maintain parents in omrika for a smooth 6months time. Amma oka pakka pellam oka pakka, naku enduko yuddam aytademo anipistundi. Atha vaste different story, amma kuthullu mogudi meda padi edustuntaru, vadileste vaalla saavu vallu sastaru. mana parents ante, teda vaste godava peak ki potundi kada... DB peddalu throw some light. best practices. Things to do to make a pleasant stay for parents. tennis match lo choosthavu kadha..attage calm gaa koosukuni popcorn/chicken 65 thintoo atu itu thala thapputhoo calm gaa soosi enjoy cheyyi..edava comments pass cheyyaku, just choodu anthe...evaraina oka point meedha win ayithe calm gaa Race Gurram lo Praksh Raj laaga melligaa chappatlu kottu...continue this for 6 months... eee sutram amalu chesi nuvvu bathiki batta kadithe eedaki vachi naaku oka Thanks cheppi po..lekapothe RIP...paina kaludham... 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrustratedVuncle Posted October 3 Author Report Share Posted October 3 8 minutes ago, BejawadaChow said: My best friend went through this exact phase as well, we used to sit and talk about this. In his situation, his elder sister and mother had huge argument with his wife about some internal matter. friend wife and mother, sister did not speak after that about 2 years before his wife conceived, initially they were reluctant to come here and take care of kid because of his wife mind set, but they came here somehow ( this guy managed to get them here). after they were here, everything was casual.. except couple of misunderstands all went fine. take parents and wife out every weekend. have drinks togeather visit friends place. watch movies etc.., only disadvantage is they are comin in winter, not much places to visit. hope this helps good luck. I visited my friend in Austin recently. I eavesdropped wifes coversation, friend's wife and others were bitching and venting about their in-laws like they are the daemons on the earth. Help cheyaru, epudu adi cheyyi ala cheyyi ani savagadatharu, vantalu balevu, asalu adjust avvaru blah blah anii... Bayataki teskeltam cheyochu but still conflicts are inevitable. I was shocked all aada ladies can't bear their in-laws for few months given they only visit 2 times in their life time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ManchamKodi Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 17 minutes ago, TeluguTexas said: Arey india lo laws women baised omerika is better atleast case vintaru india lo bhobbey ra antaru Women biased aite strong ga undalli anna biatches ni jail ki pampali Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ManchamKodi Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 14 minutes ago, FrustratedVuncle said: vastundi my mom. wife and mom ni oka room lo petti nenu busy ga tirigithe roof untadantava? neenu mother in law anukunna. me Mom ante inka ekuva problems anna. give one room for wife . you stay in seperate room with your mom. Make your wife busy on weekdays send her to gym, office and swimming . India body kabbati nuvvu weekday office and gym she can't be active on weekend. Repeat for 6 months cc @TeluguTexas @Konebhar6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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