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BattalaSathi Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 4 hours ago, karuvu said: ee fellallu itta thayarayyarendi vaa ani @FrustratedVuncle monna mandu sitting lo niladeesifying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bulreddy Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 @kevinUsa idanta chusaka, pelli avasaram antava? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevinUsa Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 10 minutes ago, bulreddy said: @kevinUsa idanta chusaka, pelli avasaram antava? I am in that boat already Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Assam_Bhayya Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 monnati varaku katnam ani maa parents ni dobbaru, aada pilla pudithe chinna chupu chusaru ani konthamandi feminists migatha budhumanthul ni rechagottaru, result idi. . . ippatiki girl puttindhi ante katham bad luck ani parents, grand parents, inlaws andharu moham m laga pettukuni barasala, birthday lu naam ke vasthe jaripistharu ani feminists kundabaddal kotti rechagoduthunnar, tv news channel debates, social media influencers . . . Atul brother 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CanadianMalodu Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 51 minutes ago, Assam_Bhayya said: monnati varaku katnam ani maa parents ni dobbaru, aada pilla pudithe chinna chupu chusaru ani konthamandi feminists migatha budhumanthul ni rechagottaru, result idi. . . ippatiki girl puttindhi ante katham bad luck ani parents, grand parents, inlaws andharu moham m laga pettukuni barasala, birthday lu naam ke vasthe jaripistharu ani feminists kundabaddal kotti rechagoduthunnar, tv news channel debates, social media influencers . . . Atul brother People often misunderstand "dowry" concept. Historically and even today Men stand as providers to women. Even so called feminist women don't chase men that don't earn. They want successful men too. From the days before "Women empowerment" and "quota" hiring of women in the name of empowerment and diversity and what not, dowry was seen as a capital that women brought when the couple started a family. She doesn't earn much and family grows so that capital is to ensure financial success. Problem came when in laws families greed exceeded the means of Bride's family. Today dowry works in perfect market place too. Rich parties marry rich parties. Only middle class and upper middle class suffers due to these ideologies. Unfortunately this group is least united as they are pulled in the directions of caste, region, religion, language, ideology etc. all the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thokkalee Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 8 minutes ago, CanadianMalodu said: People often misunderstand "dowry" concept. Historically and even today Men stand as providers to women. Even so called feminist women don't chase men that don't earn. They want successful men too. Form the days before "Women empowerment" and "quota" hiring of women in the name of empowerment and diversity and what not, dowry was seen as a capital that women brought when the couple started a family. She doesn't earn much and family grows so that capital is to ensure financial success. Problem came when in laws families greed exceeded the means of Bride's family. Today dowry works in perfect market place too. Rich parties marry rich parties. Only middle class and upper middle class suffers due to these ideologies. Unfortunately this group is least united as they are pulled in the directions of caste, region, religion, language, ideology etc. all the time. All customs and laws are put in place with good intentions.. but are misused and eventually the misuse becomes the norm.. If everyone strictly follows equal sharing of assets to all kids irrespective of the gender, we can do away with this dowry system… many ppl are already doing it.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CanadianMalodu Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 1 minute ago, Thokkalee said: All customs and laws are put in place with good intentions.. but are misused and eventually the misuse becomes the norm.. If everyone strictly follows equal sharing of assets to all kids irrespective of the gender, we can do away with this dowry system… many ppl are already doing it.. Not necessarily. Men and Women are NEVER equal, not created equal physically, mentally, emotionally and even intellectually. There is no reason to share the assets equally too. The property division will be based on how the property is acquired. Any division of the self earned property is up to the individual belief system of the owner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thokkalee Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 7 hours ago, karuvu said: RIP Almost all divorces are the result of a relationship turning very bad and husband/wife hate each other… so each party wants the other party to suffer as much as possible… here women has the upper hand bcoz laws are written favoring them.. Dowry deaths are still very common in the Hindi belt.. thousands of women are still killed every year for dowry related issues.. but unfortunately states became very famous for dowry .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thokkalee Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 3 minutes ago, CanadianMalodu said: Not necessarily. Men and Women are NEVER equal, not created equal physically, mentally, emotionally and even intellectually. There is no reason to share the assets equally too. The property division will be based on how the property is acquired. Any division of the self earned property is up to the individual belief system of the owner. lol.. every gender has a role to play in the family and society… with women also earning, they are behaving more like men.. men will have to share some of the woman’s responsibilities too.. earning is no longer a man’s sole thing now.. more pressure on men now with added responsibilities.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CanadianMalodu Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 16 minutes ago, Thokkalee said: lol.. every gender has a role to play in the family and society… with women also earning, they are behaving more like men.. men will have to share some of the woman’s responsibilities too.. earning is no longer a man’s sole thing now.. Who said women has no role to play? They are mothers entrusted with raising family. No one asked them not to earn. Even if I were to buy your premise, from the lowest manual labour work (polam, construction, rallu kottadam) to top jobs(surgeons, Entrepreneurs, CEO) the monies earned are significantly different. Every single time like 9/10 times all things being equal, a man outearns a woman. Exception to this would be government mandated pay, even then that doesn't measure productivity. Huh? You started with a premise of dividing assets equally, then shifted to man taking woman responsibilities? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thokkalee Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 3 minutes ago, CanadianMalodu said: Who said women has no role to play? They are mothers entrusted with raising family. No one asked them not to earn. Even if I were to buy your premise, from the lowest manual labour work (polam, construction, rallu kottadam) to top jobs(surgeons, Entrepreneurs, CEO) the monies earned are significantly different. Every single time like 9/10 times all thing being equal, the man outearns woman. Exception to this would be government mandated pay, even then that doesn't measure productivity. Huh? You started with a premise of dividing assets equally, then shifted to man taking woman responsibilities? Men and women are equal now, uncle.. in knowledge based society, men and women have equal chances to be successful.. pay may be different bcoz of the biases.. law also mandates that ancestral properties should be shared equally.. society is changing.. men are taking more responsibilities related to child care, child education, house work, etc.. ask any one in this db.. inthaki neeku pelli ayindaa?? 😁 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CanadianMalodu Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 5 hours ago, Thokkalee said: Men and women are equal now, uncle.. in knowledge based society, men and women have equal chances to be successful.. pay may be different bcoz of the biases.. law also mandates that ancestral properties should be shared equally.. society is changing.. men are taking more responsibilities related to child care, child education, house work, etc.. ask any one in this db.. inthaki neeku pelli ayindaa?? 😁 Don't throw vague statements. Back it up with numbers. Men have been taking child responsibilities for ages now. It's called being a father. Taagi, tirige vadu tappisthe, every father usually tries to provide better life to his children. Idhedho kothaga vachina marpu annattu chepthunnav? House work antava, it's all division of labour. Idhi kooda mundhu nunchi vasthunnade. Bulk of NRIs are mostly middle class. Cost affordability kosam anthe. Koncham ekkuva sampadinche vallu hire "nanny's" and "housemaids". Guess what they're 100% women. Akkada you're simply substituting one woman with another woman anthe. Ancestral properties gurinchi evadu annadu? Swarjitham gurinchi. Even then, that's a flawed premise. Neeku 10 kotla aasthi unte, 5 kuthriki, 5 koduku ki isthe kuthriki 10 kotla sambandham chesthav, chala varaku. Kodukki 3-5 kotlu sambandham chesthav. Other variables like looks, education, earnings, appudu demand supply koncham tweak chesthayi but by and large idhe scenario. That negatively affects your own male child. Naaku kaledhu. Neeku okkate aada pilla undha? 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pavanonline Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 24 minutes ago, Thokkalee said: society is changing.. men are taking more responsibilities related to child care, child education, house work correct, mari laws kuda change avvali kada Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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