kevinUsa Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 I have been looking for girl in Arranged Marriage, so was very active over past few months. But few things I listed over past dew days are giving anxiety. Girl family demands are insane. I know Arranged Marriage in Telugu states in business transaction but 1 or 2 exceptional cases are driving the expectations of many families to ridiculous levels. Few real stories I came across. 1. Girl family rejected a guy who is earning 15 LPA as he doesn't have lands, Girl family itself doesn't have any lands, the girl doesn't work and yet they are waiting for that one rich groom to change their lives. 2. This was in my relatives circle, An Group 1 govt job holder in Telangana who works in Hyderabad was rejected by a below middle class family, the girl rejected him saying he looks fat, I saw his photo, he isn't too fat but yes he is little overweight but I don't understand the audacity of the girl, she too is overweight and telling her parents that he overweight shook me to the core. The guy can turn their family fate forever yet she is dreaming of Hritik Roshan to marry her. Here also the girl doesn't work. I pity that guy who actually wanted to marry in relatives circle. He would easily fetch crores of dowry given his job alone. 3. This is from my friends circle and I know her, she rejected IIT+IIM profile saying that he is short, she is 5.2 and he is 5.6, she is working in non-IT job, cut to 3 years later the guy got beautiful wife who works in IT and the girl who rejected him actually is dying with jealous every day. She told me she should have selected him and literally is in tears. She is 32 now and getting rejected left and right by all profiles. All of the above girls are still singles in late 20s and early 30s. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevinUsa Posted December 13 Author Report Share Posted December 13 working im mor-i jop, cut to 3 years later me guy got beautiful wife who works in IT and the girl who rejected him actually is dying with jealous every day. She told me she should have selected him and literally is in tears. She is 32 now and getting rejected left and right by all profiles. All of the above girls are still singles in late 20s and early 30s. These are just few real life experiences I saw and now I know why my profile is getting rejected left and right in matrimony sites. So when will girl families realise, Marriage is commitment more than money, ofcourse money important but they just waiting for that dream match where boy should have ideal qualities and should be rich like Ambanis. Are these scenarios outliers or is Arranged marriage is completely messed up with expectations? Girls can add their views. I really want to know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pakeer_saab Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 48 minutes ago, kevinUsa said: working im mor-i jop, cut to 3 years later me guy got beautiful wife who works in IT and the girl who rejected him actually is dying with jealous every day. She told me she should have selected him and literally is in tears. She is 32 now and getting rejected left and right by all profiles. All of the above girls are still singles in late 20s and early 30s. These are just few real life experiences I saw and now I know why my profile is getting rejected left and right in matrimony sites. So when will girl families realise, Marriage is commitment more than money, ofcourse money important but they just waiting for that dream match where boy should have ideal qualities and should be rich like Ambanis. Are these scenarios outliers or is Arranged marriage is completely messed up with expectations? Girls can add their views. I really want to know. intaki neeku pallayinda.. i mean ayyelaa unda leda?? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sixers Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 Vallu pani cheyanappudu husband anna baaga sampadhisthe anni ok untayi ani untaru. 15 L ante anthantha maathrame. City outskirts lo adde kompa kuda raadu. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HighlyRespected Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 6 minutes ago, Sixers said: Vallu pani cheyanappudu husband anna baaga sampadhisthe anni ok untayi ani untaru. 15 L ante anthantha maathrame. City outskirts lo adde kompa kuda raadu. Hmm ante 1 lakh salary per month in idaravad lo nothing aa... 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnydanylee Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 8 minutes ago, Sixers said: Vallu pani cheyanappudu husband anna baaga sampadhisthe anni ok untayi ani untaru. 15 L ante anthantha maathrame. City outskirts lo adde kompa kuda raadu. 15L అంతంత మాత్రం అంటే.. ఊళ్లో ఉద్యోగం చేస్తున్న మా పరిస్థితి ఏంటి అంటున్న లోకల్ యూత్ ఫోర్స్... మేము ఎప్పటికీ సింగిల్ కింగ్స్ ఆఆ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rako Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 1 hour ago, HighlyRespected said: Hmm ante 1 lakh salary per month in idaravad lo nothing aa... trust me.. in hyd.. nothing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
praying Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 personal experience... marriage bureau ki elthe 36+ ammayilu kuppal kuppal ga untunaru... this is back in 2017 ippudu inka count perigi untadi... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rendu Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 9 minutes ago, praying said: personal experience... marriage bureau ki elthe 36+ ammayilu kuppal kuppal ga untunaru... this is back in 2017 ippudu inka count perigi untadi... Over head weight porilu antava?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
praying Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 22 minutes ago, Rendu said: Over head weight porilu antava?? Over expectation porilu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joker_007 Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 8 hours ago, kevinUsa said: I have been looking for girl in Arranged Marriage, so was very active over past few months. But few things I listed over past dew days are giving anxiety. Girl family demands are insane. I know Arranged Marriage in Telugu states in business transaction but 1 or 2 exceptional cases are driving the expectations of many families to ridiculous levels. Few real stories I came across. 1. Girl family rejected a guy who is earning 15 LPA as he doesn't have lands, Girl family itself doesn't have any lands, the girl doesn't work and yet they are waiting for that one rich groom to change their lives. 2. This was in my relatives circle, An Group 1 govt job holder in Telangana who works in Hyderabad was rejected by a below middle class family, the girl rejected him saying he looks fat, I saw his photo, he isn't too fat but yes he is little overweight but I don't understand the audacity of the girl, she too is overweight and telling her parents that he overweight shook me to the core. The guy can turn their family fate forever yet she is dreaming of Hritik Roshan to marry her. Here also the girl doesn't work. I pity that guy who actually wanted to marry in relatives circle. He would easily fetch crores of dowry given his job alone. 3. This is from my friends circle and I know her, she rejected IIT+IIM profile saying that he is short, she is 5.2 and he is 5.6, she is working in non-IT job, cut to 3 years later the guy got beautiful wife who works in IT and the girl who rejected him actually is dying with jealous every day. She told me she should have selected him and literally is in tears. She is 32 now and getting rejected left and right by all profiles. All of the above girls are still singles in late 20s and early 30s. Well... most the females asking whether the guy is staying with his parents or not. if yes straight to rejection... Also Now a days they are not preferring GOVT jobs people at all.. most of them are having aspirations of moving to abroad. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hushh fatak Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 Stay away from these profiles. They actually do favor by rejecting those boys. just imagine they marry them and then regret. And to get out to that relationship they torture the guy and in laws. So, this is much better. if boys leave such scrap they would rot and after 28-30 no one will marry them. that is the ground reality they should know before or face it later gunavanthiralu will keep entire family happy than asthi vanthuralu or andhgatte Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndhraPickles Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Everydayrunner Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 These are normal expectations since ages. First girl family will shoot for rich young dude with green card..when they realise such category people wont marry poor and insta filter girls they settle with 35 year old cts uncles with offshore project eventually... This is not a new developing trend. Every girl parents assume their girl is beautiful and high demand until realty hits them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndhraPickles Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 9 minutes ago, Everydayrunner said: These are normal expectations since ages. First girl family will shoot for rich young dude with green card..when they realise such category people wont marry poor and insta filter girls they settle with 35 year old cts uncles with offshore project eventually... This is not a new developing trend. Every girl parents assume their girl is beautiful and high demand until realty hits them telugu nela meeda ee self realization eppudu start avvuddo...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.thumb.gif.343fe49c7e1c507ae0056326bd8cf77e.gif)
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.