Depressed

[seemaraja]

How do you all overcome loneliness in this country ? 8 years back masters aipoindi few of the best days of my life with friends ! Taravata got married and moved to a new city and got an FT !.But marriage did not turn out as exciting ,at the least it is not even passable   ! Edho live and let live policy la bratakatame !on an average weekly 3 times fights vuntayi most of the time gets lost in rebalancing ! Sometimes asalu tanaki emi feeling e ledu anipistadhi  ! Nenu e toxicity ninchi escape avataniki friends medha depend ayevadini ! But last two years lo vunna idharu friends kuda vere city ki velipoyaru ! And trying to make any new friends feels very artificial for me now ! Okkosari weekends i weep like anything ! I don’t know how people get to find such good family or individual groups where they meet every weekends and chill ! Kanisam new year ki meet ayi wishes cheppukunetaniki kuda evaru leru ! 

[LadiesTailor]

Just now, seemaraja said:

How do you all overcome loneliness in this country ? 8 years back masters aipoindi few of the best days of my life with friends ! Taravata got married and moved to a new city and got an FT !.But marriage did not turn out as exciting ,at the least it is not even passable   ! Edho live and let live policy la bratakatame !on an average weekly 3 times fights vuntayi most of the time gets lost in rebalancing ! Sometimes asalu tanaki emi feeling e ledu anipistadhi  ! Nenu e toxicity ninchi escape avataniki friends medha depend ayevadini ! But last two years lo vunna idharu friends kuda vere city ki velipoyaru ! And trying to make any new friends feels very artificial for me now ! Okkosari weekends i weep like anything ! I don’t know how people get to find such good family or individual groups where they meet every weekends and chill ! Kanisam new year ki meet ayi wishes cheppukunetaniki kuda evaru leru ! 

Try activities .. gym join avvu… running start chey… if you are into sports find a group so that brings lots of friends…. 

[BejawadaChow]

Learn New Technologies and keep your self busy, ignore her, dont try to win an argument, let it go most of times until physical fights involved.

Hit gym( try orange therapy).

Watch series in weekends.

inka chala untai man, sit with your wife and ask whats her problem, and try to adjust accordingly.

[President]

Which city you are in. See if you can do temple volunteering or social activities to pass time. You will find some good friends.

[seemaraja]

1 minute ago, BejawadaChow said:

Learn New Technologies and keep your self busy, ignore her, dont try to win an argument, let it go most of times until physical fights involved.

Hit gym( try orange therapy).

Watch series in weekends.

inka chala untai man, sit with your wife and ask whats her problem, and try to adjust accordingly.

Thanks bro ! Yeah discussions eppudu nadavavu bro edhaina vishayam 2 mins ki minchi matladina argument loki escalate aipotundi ! Gets triggered too frequently asalu normal ga manam adhi trigger ani kuda consider cheyamu ! Will try other physical activities though ! 

[seemaraja]

3 minutes ago, BejawadaChow said:

Learn New Technologies and keep your self busy, ignore her, dont try to win an argument, let it go most of times until physical fights involved.

Hit gym( try orange therapy).

Watch series in weekends.

inka chala untai man, sit with your wife and ask whats her problem, and try to adjust accordingly.

What is orange therapy ?

[enigmatic]

https://www.orangetheory.com/en-us

[kushi_]

Which state? 

[Aquaman]

plan babies vayya... you will busy wirth kids

[FrustratedVuncle]

1 hour ago, seemaraja said:

How do you all overcome loneliness in this country ? 8 years back masters aipoindi few of the best days of my life with friends ! Taravata got married and moved to a new city and got an FT !.But marriage did not turn out as exciting ,at the least it is not even passable   ! Edho live and let live policy la bratakatame !on an average weekly 3 times fights vuntayi most of the time gets lost in rebalancing ! Sometimes asalu tanaki emi feeling e ledu anipistadhi  ! Nenu e toxicity ninchi escape avataniki friends medha depend ayevadini ! But last two years lo vunna idharu friends kuda vere city ki velipoyaru ! And trying to make any new friends feels very artificial for me now ! Okkosari weekends i weep like anything ! I don’t know how people get to find such good family or individual groups where they meet every weekends and chill ! Kanisam new year ki meet ayi wishes cheppukunetaniki kuda evaru leru ! 

Anna, wife thone ila aypoyav ante, me atha fingering start cheste emaipotavo...

[Aquaman]

try couple counseling  vayya...... ma @csrcsr gives free counseling 

[FrustratedVuncle]

43 minutes ago, Aquaman said:

plan babies vayya... you will busy wirth kids

nuvoookooo anna. 2mins matladithene yuddalu avtunnai antunte nishabda yuddam antav. 

[Keth]

11 minutes ago, seemaraja said:

Thanks bro ! Yeah discussions eppudu nadavavu bro edhaina vishayam 2 mins ki minchi matladina argument loki escalate aipotundi ! Gets triggered too frequently asalu normal ga manam adhi trigger ani kuda consider cheyamu ! Will try other physical activities though ! 

First accept your wife as it is.. don’t argue what so ever.. be in love and show that to her, make her get attached to you as well. 
 

you need to fix this one before heading out to anything…. Because if you win your wife and happy home leads to good life otherwise nuvu em chesina nothing works out and leaves yourself in same situation as you explained in first post.

[Konebhar6]

36 minutes ago, seemaraja said:

How do you all overcome loneliness in this country ? 8 years back masters aipoindi few of the best days of my life with friends ! Taravata got married and moved to a new city and got an FT !.But marriage did not turn out as exciting ,at the least it is not even passable   ! Edho live and let live policy la bratakatame !on an average weekly 3 times fights vuntayi most of the time gets lost in rebalancing ! Sometimes asalu tanaki emi feeling e ledu anipistadhi  ! Nenu e toxicity ninchi escape avataniki friends medha depend ayevadini ! But last two years lo vunna idharu friends kuda vere city ki velipoyaru ! And trying to make any new friends feels very artificial for me now ! Okkosari weekends i weep like anything ! I don’t know how people get to find such good family or individual groups where they meet every weekends and chill ! Kanisam new year ki meet ayi wishes cheppukunetaniki kuda evaru leru ! 

You gotta fix the core issue in your life. 

Its very obvious from your message that your wife and u dislike each other. Mostly it happens when people have expectations on others behavior. You gotta sit together, discuss whats bothering each other, if a compromise can be done, etc. 

Love is doing something for each other genuinely. Even small gestures matter. Sometimes involving a 3rd neutral person who both listen to may work and take their point of view into consideration. Counselling helps.

If not Divorce is the only option. Every person deserves a chance to be HAPPY. You just gotta take initiative.

GOOD LUCK.

[psycontr]

1 minute ago, Keth said:

First accept your wife as it is.. don’t argue what so ever.. be in love and show that to her, make her get attached to you as well. 

First time I agree with you ra