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2 minutes ago, Keth said:

First accept your wife as it is.. don’t argue what so ever.. be in love and show that to her, make her get attached to you as well. 
 

you need to fix this one before heading out to anything…. Because if you win your wife and happy home leads to good life otherwise nuvu em chesina nothing works out and leaves yourself in same situation as you explained in first post.

yes.. better to bend in front of wife and listen to her always...

happy wife ..happy life ani @Sucker tolded

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37 minutes ago, seemaraja said:

How do you all overcome loneliness in this country ? 8 years back masters aipoindi few of the best days of my life with friends ! Taravata got married and moved to a new city and got an FT !.But marriage did not turn out as exciting ,at the least it is not even passable   ! Edho live and let live policy la bratakatame !on an average weekly 3 times fights vuntayi most of the time gets lost in rebalancing ! Sometimes asalu tanaki emi feeling e ledu anipistadhi  ! Nenu e toxicity ninchi escape avataniki friends medha depend ayevadini ! But last two years lo vunna idharu friends kuda vere city ki velipoyaru ! And trying to make any new friends feels very artificial for me now ! Okkosari weekends i weep like anything ! I don’t know how people get to find such good family or individual groups where they meet every weekends and chill ! Kanisam new year ki meet ayi wishes cheppukunetaniki kuda evaru leru ! 

First fix ur married life then every thing falls in place. Don't argue, don't go for ego, don't try to point old mistakes. Show love, bend aei undu for an year... even all these don't change her then seriously go for divorce than rot in hell.

 

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42 minutes ago, seemaraja said:

How do you all overcome loneliness in this country ? 8 years back masters aipoindi few of the best days of my life with friends ! Taravata got married and moved to a new city and got an FT !.But marriage did not turn out as exciting ,at the least it is not even passable   ! Edho live and let live policy la bratakatame !on an average weekly 3 times fights vuntayi most of the time gets lost in rebalancing ! Sometimes asalu tanaki emi feeling e ledu anipistadhi  ! Nenu e toxicity ninchi escape avataniki friends medha depend ayevadini ! But last two years lo vunna idharu friends kuda vere city ki velipoyaru ! And trying to make any new friends feels very artificial for me now ! Okkosari weekends i weep like anything ! I don’t know how people get to find such good family or individual groups where they meet every weekends and chill ! Kanisam new year ki meet ayi wishes cheppukunetaniki kuda evaru leru ! 

Enni years aindhi mrg ayyi

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41 minutes ago, seemaraja said:

How do you all overcome loneliness in this country ? 8 years back masters aipoindi few of the best days of my life with friends ! Taravata got married and moved to a new city and got an FT !.But marriage did not turn out as exciting ,at the least it is not even passable   ! Edho live and let live policy la bratakatame !on an average weekly 3 times fights vuntayi most of the time gets lost in rebalancing ! Sometimes asalu tanaki emi feeling e ledu anipistadhi  ! Nenu e toxicity ninchi escape avataniki friends medha depend ayevadini ! But last two years lo vunna idharu friends kuda vere city ki velipoyaru ! And trying to make any new friends feels very artificial for me now ! Okkosari weekends i weep like anything ! I don’t know how people get to find such good family or individual groups where they meet every weekends and chill ! Kanisam new year ki meet ayi wishes cheppukunetaniki kuda evaru leru ! 

Bruh firstly you are not alone and welcome to reality of growing up. 
 

secondly boring life is not really bad, boring is better than living toxic life and having out of the worldly problems. 
 

this is the time to introspect and see what you want in life and how you want to lead it. Motivation only lives a few days to few months where as the purpose will stay till you die. Find your purpose, ala kuda em ledu anukunte just live in the present

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26 minutes ago, Aquaman said:

plan babies vayya... you will busy wirth kids

@seemaraja don’t plan babies man. That is a bloody nightmare and will become a quagmire with no escape. 
 

does your wife have friends? Don’t get into arguments. 
 

most of us, MS guys get into toxic marriages because of impulsive decisions to marry. What is the point of getting married with no compatibility or common interests. I am in a really similar boat. Infact my wife destroyed my social life. I lost my best friends. Now I am just an uncle in a subdivision with no interest in anything. I work like a robot, take care of expenses, kids etc and life just moved between dropping Kids to activities and work. My only escape gym and drink every Friday night

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1 hour ago, seemaraja said:

How do you all overcome loneliness in this country ? 8 years back masters aipoindi few of the best days of my life with friends ! Taravata got married and moved to a new city and got an FT !.But marriage did not turn out as exciting ,at the least it is not even passable   ! Edho live and let live policy la bratakatame !on an average weekly 3 times fights vuntayi most of the time gets lost in rebalancing ! Sometimes asalu tanaki emi feeling e ledu anipistadhi  ! Nenu e toxicity ninchi escape avataniki friends medha depend ayevadini ! But last two years lo vunna idharu friends kuda vere city ki velipoyaru ! And trying to make any new friends feels very artificial for me now ! Okkosari weekends i weep like anything ! I don’t know how people get to find such good family or individual groups where they meet every weekends and chill ! Kanisam new year ki meet ayi wishes cheppukunetaniki kuda evaru leru ! 

Gattiga lakonni lip kishhhh petti 

cheera laagi bed meeda padesi

ne shirt pant inner vipesi

Anni muskoni padukondi

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1 hour ago, seemaraja said:

How do you all overcome loneliness in this country ? 8 years back masters aipoindi few of the best days of my life with friends ! Taravata got married and moved to a new city and got an FT !.But marriage did not turn out as exciting ,at the least it is not even passable   ! Edho live and let live policy la bratakatame !on an average weekly 3 times fights vuntayi most of the time gets lost in rebalancing ! Sometimes asalu tanaki emi feeling e ledu anipistadhi  ! Nenu e toxicity ninchi escape avataniki friends medha depend ayevadini ! But last two years lo vunna idharu friends kuda vere city ki velipoyaru ! And trying to make any new friends feels very artificial for me now ! Okkosari weekends i weep like anything ! I don’t know how people get to find such good family or individual groups where they meet every weekends and chill ! Kanisam new year ki meet ayi wishes cheppukunetaniki kuda evaru leru ! 

divorce man , one life 

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1 hour ago, seemaraja said:

How do you all overcome loneliness in this country ? 8 years back masters aipoindi few of the best days of my life with friends ! Taravata got married and moved to a new city and got an FT !.But marriage did not turn out as exciting ,at the least it is not even passable   ! Edho live and let live policy la bratakatame !on an average weekly 3 times fights vuntayi most of the time gets lost in rebalancing ! Sometimes asalu tanaki emi feeling e ledu anipistadhi  ! Nenu e toxicity ninchi escape avataniki friends medha depend ayevadini ! But last two years lo vunna idharu friends kuda vere city ki velipoyaru ! And trying to make any new friends feels very artificial for me now ! Okkosari weekends i weep like anything ! I don’t know how people get to find such good family or individual groups where they meet every weekends and chill ! Kanisam new year ki meet ayi wishes cheppukunetaniki kuda evaru leru ! 

 

Treat her as friend. surprise her slowly.

Do something for her so she starts liking you. Take her outside.  arranged marriage lo starting problem you should gain their trust by your deeds.

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