Popular Post Konebhar6 Posted January 31 Popular Post Report Share Posted January 31 what stops us from growing as a person (or becoming a better person?) - Ego? - Psychological Complexity (A "better" person isn’t just about intelligence or strength—it’s also about wisdom, kindness, and resilience. Improving these traits is much harder than altering DNA or brain function) 3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Android_Halwa Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 Situations surrounding them… Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Konebhar6 Posted January 31 Author Report Share Posted January 31 On 1/31/2025 at 7:15 AM, Android_Halwa said: Situations surrounding them… Expand Of course. Feel free to give some examples. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
11_MohanReddy Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 Diet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Konebhar6 Posted January 31 Author Popular Post Report Share Posted January 31 My example - Ego in certain situations. lets say stocks or knowledge on something. I had decent knowledge that I thought I don't need anyone's advise. It was more egoistic rather than "Exchange of ideas". Once I changed my outlook, it made huge difference in me. I am more receptive to others ideas (easily) now than before. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Konebhar6 Posted January 31 Author Report Share Posted January 31 On 1/31/2025 at 7:17 AM, 11_MohanReddy said: Diet Expand how? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jatka Bandi Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 On 1/31/2025 at 7:11 AM, Konebhar6 said: what stops us from growing as a person (or becoming a better person?) - Ego? - Psychological Complexity (A "better" person isn’t just about intelligence or strength—it’s also about wisdom, kindness, and resilience. Improving these traits is much harder than altering DNA or brain function) Expand Not watering or too much water Lack of nutrition in soil Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Konebhar6 Posted January 31 Author Report Share Posted January 31 On 1/31/2025 at 7:23 AM, Jatka Bandi said: Not watering or too much water Lack of nutrition in soil Expand grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr (gussa mat dilau miyan .. kat dalunga ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jatka Bandi Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 On 1/31/2025 at 7:25 AM, Konebhar6 said: grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr (gussa mat dilau miyan .. kat dalunga ) Expand eedevado vesukuni vachadu.. ajaamu lagettaroi.. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Konebhar6 Posted January 31 Author Report Share Posted January 31 Comon ppl .. I challenge you to think deep and reply Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rescuer7 Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 LISTEN TO REPLY WITHOUT UNDERSTANDING( AUTOPILOT) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rescuer7 Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 On 1/31/2025 at 7:11 AM, Konebhar6 said: what stops us from growing as a person (or becoming a better person?) - Ego? - Psychological Complexity (A "better" person isn’t just about intelligence or strength—it’s also about wisdom, kindness, and resilience. Improving these traits is much harder than altering DNA or brain function) Expand SUFFER FROM IMAGINATION MORE THAN REALITY.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CanadianMalodu Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 On 1/31/2025 at 7:11 AM, Konebhar6 said: what stops us from growing as a person (or becoming a better person?) - Ego? - Psychological Complexity (A "better" person isn’t just about intelligence or strength—it’s also about wisdom, kindness, and resilience. Improving these traits is much harder than altering DNA or brain function) Expand Ego works both ways. It can destroy you completely. Hindu legends are replete with such examples like Ravana, Duryodhana. It can also make you achieve things, through self motivation and resilience which wouldn't be possible otherwise. While you're a young buck, ego drives you. That's due to testosterone that keeps you that way. you want to dominate and conquer. If circumstances favour you take the alpha chair, else you stay beta but the desire persists. You would have seen such examples in your lives by now. I think the key is "better" here. How do you define it? Better in what sense? In the realm of materialism, looks, power and wealth matter. It's understandable that those that have them have ego levels at max level Wisdom is what life gives you when you do the grinding. Wise people are grounded. I also find them more spiritual. I can say the same thing about kindness as well. I think some element of spirituality NOT necessarily being a sadhu with complete detachment, will let grow more as a person. You will realize it at some point. If you take the path of detachment, then you're free from "matrix" , but then your world will be alien to rest of the grinding plebs. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keth Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 On 1/31/2025 at 9:13 AM, CanadianMalodu said: Ego works both ways. It can destroy you completely. Hindu legends are replete with such examples like Ravana, Duryodhana. It can also make you achieve things, through self motivation and resilience which wouldn't be possible otherwise. While you're a young buck, ego drives you. That's due to testosterone that keeps you that way. you want to dominate and conquer. If circumstances favour you take the alpha chair, else you stay beta but the desire persists. You would have seen such examples in your lives by now. I think the key is "better" here. How do you define it? Better in what sense? In the realm of materialism, looks, power and wealth matter. It's understandable that those that have them have ego levels at max level Wisdom is what life gives you when you do the grinding. Wise people are grounded. I also find them more spiritual. I can the same thing about kindness as well. I think some element of spirituality NOT necessarily being a sadhu with complete detachment, will let grow more as a person. You will have it realize it at some point. If you take the path of detachment, then you're free from "matrix" , but then your world will be alien to rest of the grinding plebs. Expand anduke Jagan anna visa gaadi side teesukunnava chutiya!! em vaagutunav ra digambar saale velli movierulz cinema chustu homeless shelters lo 1ginchko sammaga untadi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CanadianMalodu Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 On 1/31/2025 at 9:34 AM, Keth said: anduke Jagan anna visa gaadi side teesukunnava chutiya!! em vaagutunav ra digambar saale velli movierulz cinema chustu homeless shelters lo 1ginchko sammaga untadi Expand Enti eeroju rendu mukkalu ekkuva vesara enti Anna canteen lo? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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