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What stops us from growing as a person?


Konebhar6

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  On 1/31/2025 at 3:10 PM, Picha lite said:

Anna ivanni Vinayaniki baguntayi but implement chesinodu goppudu like @csrcsr

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vindaniki baguntayo ledo telledu kaani gatti debbalu tagili realize ai cheste matram inka baguntadi

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  On 1/31/2025 at 7:11 AM, Konebhar6 said:

what stops us from growing as a person (or becoming a better person?)

  - Ego?

  - Psychological Complexity (A "better" person isn’t just about intelligence or strength—it’s also about wisdom, kindness, and resilience. Improving these traits is much harder than altering DNA or brain function)

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Self evaluation, Realization and Acceptance, improvization

Ee 4 steps every person cheste they can grow as a person. Remember Discipline is the key to bind everything together💪🏻

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  On 1/31/2025 at 2:28 PM, phatposts said:

By looking outside more often than inside. 

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thats true.

outer engineering started recently...slowly transitioning from animal to social animal

went through inside biochemical engineering for past 10 years...

 

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  On 1/31/2025 at 3:03 PM, krishnaaa said:

Sometimes makes me think its more physiological. Most of them don't have that ability.

Most of my friends stayed the way they have been when they were kids. Probably like 5-10% growth. Those who were growing rapidly as kids are growing fast even now.

This means that it could a part of the brain that gets used or not or something.

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I went back to school I studied after 10 yrs. When I told the teacher who I was, she said she remembered my name but cant recognize me. After talking to her for 10 minutes, she said she remembers me based on the way I talk. 

I guess we carry our traits as we grow up. Some we improve but the core remains the same. 

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  On 1/31/2025 at 2:21 PM, Iriswest said:

Nuvvu Friday ilanti existential questions veste how ya. Start over on Monday. Work frustration lo hard hitting truth bombs padtai.

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Friday rooju work tension enti? Most ppl are relaxed on fridays ... 

Its OK you can drop the truth bombs

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  On 1/31/2025 at 9:41 AM, Keth said:

This thread itself is an answer to our question and then practicality

you started a very good thread, so ilanti manchi threads lo inputs ivvaniki @Android_Halwa @CanadianMalodu lanti edavalu raakudadu, if they stayed out, providing good atmosphere, i would've never stepped in here.

see what they did, cheppevanni sriranganeethulu doorevanni dummari gudesalu samethalu ilanti edavalni chuse cheppi untaru

real life lo cheppu teesukuni 1gutam ilanti manushulani and these also stay way i guess because they dont have that guts to interact

so ikkada @Konebhar6 nuvu "real" ga "real" answers expect cheyoddu 

ledu ante ne istam ika

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Oka society munduki vellali ante opposing views are important. How they express it is up to individuals. If everyone has same view then its more like a herd.

If we think others' views are stupid, they believe the same about us. Who will determine right/wrong in this? If it is about political views, it usually is determined via election results.

I keep it simple. How a person expresses himself/herself shows their character, upbringing, etc. How one handles criticism, adversity, etc is up to themselves.

Finally, I listen to everyone but make my own decisions. 

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  On 1/31/2025 at 7:11 AM, Konebhar6 said:

what stops us from growing as a person (or becoming a better person?)

  - Ego?

  - Psychological Complexity (A "better" person isn’t just about intelligence or strength—it’s also about wisdom, kindness, and resilience. Improving these traits is much harder than altering DNA or brain function)

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I feel it's the comfort zone. Manam comfort zone lo undi life is good, Jill Jill Jiga mode lo undipotaam. 

 

One way of growing as a person is by doing the hard things in life. 

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  On 1/31/2025 at 2:54 PM, Xtian_Teddy said:

What stops us from growing as a person?

beating

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Marandi anna .. inkennallu ila untaru .. ani @csrcsr tolded no .. pls change

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  On 1/31/2025 at 6:19 PM, Konebhar6 said:

Oka society munduki vellali ante opposing views are important. How they express it is up to individuals. If everyone has same view then its more like a herd.

If we think others' views are stupid, they believe the same about us. Who will determine right/wrong in this? If it is about political views, it usually is determined via election results.

I keep it simple. How a person expresses himself/herself shows their character, upbringing, etc. How one handles criticism, adversity, etc is up to themselves.

Finally, I listen to everyone but make my own decisions. 

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andke cheppedi anna nuvu edagali pardhu ani

opposing views ki contructive criticism ki hate speech ki teda telvali

ah teda telvaka pothe avatali vaadu just edho different cheptnade anukuntaru ne laaga

those idiots are doing hate speech if you cant see it there is a problem lies with in you as well

hate speech chusi kuda emi analeka unnav ante ne valla pedda upayogam emi ledani na opinion kuda take that as well

 

 

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  On 1/31/2025 at 6:31 PM, Konebhar6 said:

Marandi anna .. inkennallu ila untaru .. ani @csrcsr tolded no .. pls change

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neekoka wild example chepta

roju ikkada @Spartan tho adult comedy or jokes or sarcasm edo oakti chestu untav kada tag chesi 

one day he posted morphed pics of anasuya, instead of condemning that barbaric incident you praised him, or you said you liked it and you said you want more of it

such is the sad state of mindset of yours bro

adhi telsi chesavo teliyaka chesavo ani nenu anala? 40 pls undi arey neeku siggu unda ani nenu antanu because morally ethically what you did was wrong

vaadevado tappu chesthe nuvu danni encourage chesav, that itself says you also falls under same category.

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  On 1/31/2025 at 8:34 PM, Keth said:

neekoka wild example chepta

roju ikkada @Spartan tho adult comedy or jokes or sarcasm edo oakti chestu untav kada tag chesi 

one day he posted morphed pics of anasuya, instead of condemning that barbaric incident you praised him, or you said you liked it and you said you want more of it

such is the sad state of mindset of yours bro

adhi telsi chesavo teliyaka chesavo ani nenu anala? 40 pls undi arey neeku siggu unda ani nenu antanu because morally ethically what you did was wrong

vaadevado tappu chesthe nuvu danni encourage chesav, that itself says you also falls under same category.

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I never claimed to be a perfect person. I have flaws, some I know, some I don't know. 

I appreciate you being a person who questions things when you think they are wrong. I am different. In the real world, I debate my point of view with facts. I believe, people seldom change their views, hence I believe in "agree to disagree". On the internet, I reply with my POV or sometimes I just ignore it. I do not want to fill my mind with -ve thoughts or hatred of someone. I am very clear on why I am on this DB. Have some general fun and post on the stuff I like - Stocks/Finance/NFL/General Topics. 

Regarding the morphed pic I liked, I do get carried away with "locker room" talk sometimes and crossed line. That does make me a sick person - No qualms about it. I accept I am wrong morally and ethically. I also accept your view that I am useless. No issues.

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  On 1/31/2025 at 8:22 PM, Keth said:

andke cheppedi anna nuvu edagali pardhu ani

opposing views ki contructive criticism ki hate speech ki teda telvali

ah teda telvaka pothe avatali vaadu just edho different cheptnade anukuntaru ne laaga

those idiots are doing hate speech if you cant see it there is a problem lies with in you as well

hate speech chusi kuda emi analeka unnav ante ne valla pedda upayogam emi ledani na opinion kuda take that as well

 

 

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Question for you - Ee constant fights, abusing others, and taking abuse from others valla neeku vachindi enti? Satisfaction?

Have you changed anyone's opinion except filling your head with hatred of others and their views?

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  On 1/31/2025 at 10:00 PM, Konebhar6 said:

Question for you - Ee constant fights, abusing others, and taking abuse from others valla neeku vachindi enti? Satisfaction?

Have you changed anyone's opinion except filling your head with hatred of others and their views?

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andke cheppa anna you are putting a point of no use ani

i'm questioning or fighting the evil anthe, i'm not filling up my mind with hatred. avatalavaadu psyco vaadni nenu marchagalanu anedi na opinion kaadu vaadu parama edhaava ilanti society lo unnadu ani cheptuna, gurthu chestuna

 change anedi nuvu fight or start chesthene vastadi, anthekani chodyam chsinattu chusthe nuvu andulo bhagam aipotav

 inthaka mundu cheppinattu cheduni aswadisthu adhi tappu ani realization lekunda vellipothav

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  On 1/31/2025 at 10:21 PM, Keth said:

andke cheppa anna you are putting a point of no use ani

i'm questioning or fighting the evil anthe, i'm not filling up my mind with hatred. avatalavaadu psyco vaadni nenu marchagalanu anedi na opinion kaadu vaadu parama edhaava ilanti society lo unnadu ani cheptuna, gurthu chestuna

 change anedi nuvu fight or start chesthene vastadi, anthekani chodyam chsinattu chusthe nuvu andulo bhagam aipotav

 inthaka mundu cheppinattu cheduni aswadisthu adhi tappu ani realization lekunda vellipothav

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When you fight with someone, it stays in your mind. It impacts. You can't deny that. You have too many expectations on an online forum to think of bringing a change. You are talking about people who can't take criticism of their beloved caste politicians/actors and resort to abuse, twisting facts, quote something from X without validating. It takes a considerable amount of time and effort/energy/emotional energy to search/quote the right content. We are living in a world of Fake news/Social Media propaganda where truth is twisted to suit someone's needs. 

Half the links that are posted here, ppl do not even listen to what's in the video/audio. They just go by the misleading titles and post.

I choose not to fight ELITE STUPID. Ignore and move on. Sorry to disappoint you, but that's who I am. 

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