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Sarvapindy

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Sarvapindy
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especially below 5 years ..how managing vayya…deenamma jeevitham anipistundi..parents iddar working undi ipudu remote kuda 10gindi etla manage chesar vayya andaru..pellam tho fighting…poragallu chepth

LadiesTailor
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You are living an American dream bro… just enjoy it 😜😜 Elementary school ki velle daka thappadu.. after that after school activities tho busy.. totally you are ducked for next 18 years 

Pahelwan4
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Tappadu mari. Ee spring break lo vihwarupam chupettinru ma kids. But it’s all part of life. Sardukupovali. Lolli lu Aitai wife tho nuvvu chusko ante nuvvu chusko. Anni nene cheyala of course manam ent

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  On 3/31/2025 at 6:12 PM, Sarvapindy said:

especially below 5 years ..how managing vayya…deenamma jeevitham anipistundi..parents iddar working undi ipudu remote kuda 10gindi etla manage chesar vayya andaru..pellam tho fighting…poragallu chepthe vinar ..poddhunne lepi ready chesi school daycare malla night padukune daaka..nee yavva..

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Best get someone from India on monthly basis I pay $2300 live in per month 

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especially below 5 years ..how managing vayya…deenamma jeevitham anipistundi..parents iddar working undi ipudu remote kuda 10gindi etla manage chesar vayya andaru..pellam tho fighting…poragallu chepthe vinar ..poddhunne lepi ready chesi school daycare malla night padukune daaka..nee yavva..

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Pindiga ennalaki darshanam isthunavu….. 

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  On 3/31/2025 at 7:35 PM, Flush said:

Best get someone from India on monthly basis I pay $2300 live in per month 

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Can you please let us know the process of getting someone from India on a hire basis ? We are planning for one. Thx

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desis do not spend a lot of money for nannys, hire someone from your community to watch kids for 1-2 hrs atleast, aa 2 hrs break anna untundi for you and your wife

take a walk with her or just chill during that time, totally worth the $ you spend

also outsource some of the tasks you have no time for

  • lawn (mowing/weeds)
  • house cleaning (biweekly or monthly deep clean) or robo vaccums
  • Groceries sometimes (Instacart etc)
  • For Pickup/Drop offs, work it out with other parents in your community, this way you may be spending just 1/3rd time if you can work with 2 other set of parents
  • curries/home made good if anyone is selling in your community - 1 or 2 days/week aina it will give some relieft although I would not recommend this we do not know what oil and ingredients they may use

I know these will add up and will be costly but whats the point of just earning and suffering bro?

spend some 10% for these and live life well!

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  On 3/31/2025 at 6:59 PM, SantoorBoy said:

Next 18 years life is frocked*.pillalu Putte mundu I didn’t realise life would be so hard. First 3 to 4 years jeevitam ante virakti vachedi ippudu alavatu aipoindi. By the time my kids are 18 and off to college, i will be in my 50s. Jeevitam mottam 10gindani ee madhye realization ki vachaa..

i hope at least by my kids generation they will be out of this pelli chesko, illu konu, pillalni kanu loop. This is just modern day slavery..

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lol, we love our kids but I do feel your thoughts, your whole life here is just about being an IT coolie and then raising kids,  life antha ayipotundi 

also agree that with out family support like in India life here is so so hard

Imagine dropping off kids at your parents for the weekend and then chilling, just for this vellochu India ki back

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  On 3/31/2025 at 9:12 PM, Galactus said:

lol, we love our kids but I do feel your thoughts, your whole life here is just about being an IT coolie and then raising kids,  life antha ayipotundi 

also agree that with out family support like in India life here is so so hard

Imagine dropping off kids at your parents for the weekend and then chilling, just for this vellochu India ki back

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India lo kids ni penche pani ledu valle perugutaru e lolli lekunda…chuskodaniki evado okad untad pakkintlo vadilesi kuda povachu..

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desis do not spend a lot of money for nannys, hire someone from your community to watch kids for 1-2 hrs atleast, aa 2 hrs break anna untundi for you and your wife

take a walk with her or just chill during that time, totally worth the $ you spend

also outsource some of the tasks you have no time for

  • lawn (mowing/weeds)
  • house cleaning (biweekly or monthly deep clean) or robo vaccums
  • Groceries sometimes (Instacart etc)
  • For Pickup/Drop offs, work it out with other parents in your community, this way you may be spending just 1/3rd time if you can work with 2 other set of parents
  • curries/home made good if anyone is selling in your community - 1 or 2 days/week aina it will give some relieft although I would not recommend this we do not know what oil and ingredients they may use

I know these will add up and will be costly but whats the point of just earning and suffering bro?

spend some 10% for these and live life well!

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Anna, all desis i know do these

Lawn- almost all my friends outsource lawn to makkus, TX heat lo not worth it.

House Cleaning- all of us hire alternate week house cleaners. roborocks elagu andaro thnksgiving lo kontaru

Groceries- this I have seen some ppl do everything on own or use instacart or store curbside pickups.

Pickup/Dropoffs ki definitely if possible everyone sharing car rides.

Curries- Homemade curries also lot of desis use but not everyone. More than cost I have friends who dont like taste ani annaru.

Suffer avuta converting everything to Rs to buy lands/apts in india waste anna.

 

 

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Can you please let us know the process of getting someone from India on a hire basis ? We are planning for one. Thx

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Ok, first plan then I will tell 

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Best get someone from India on monthly basis I pay $2300 live in per month 

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Rich people ekkada anna California na

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lol, we love our kids but I do feel your thoughts, your whole life here is just about being an IT coolie and then raising kids,  life antha ayipotundi 

also agree that with out family support like in India life here is so so hard

Imagine dropping off kids at your parents for the weekend and then chilling, just for this vellochu India ki back

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Anduke appudu appudu bachelor trips veyali full ga tagali enjoy cheyali.

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