Sex Outside Marriage

[k2s]

Picked up this from other forums.

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]hi, I am male (42y) from Mumbai. [/size][/font][/color][color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]we are married for 12y and have one 8y old child. life was going ok..but recently i discovered that my wife started a fun sex with a male (who is also married) from her family friend's house. This could happen only 3-4 times over a period of 4 years as she could only got this much opportunities to be with him while I am away. She consider him best friend and tells everything. After knowing, I am literally devastated and in full of depression. its very difficult to concentrate on work. I have talked to her but she won't ack under any circumtances including if we need to seperate out. I look all options including divorce but its very difficult to be away with child. I always wanted to be both parents around her. Few people advise me to ignore this and focus on your kid and yourself. but I don't know how would be my life while this will keep going (there is not a option to stop or 'that person go away' because the area we live). Since she didn't ack, from her side this thing never happened . I can divorce her but then I will be alone as I don't want to start new relationship in the late phase of life - I wanted to do something else on carrier side. But also I don't want to live in this mess. its very difficult for a person to be in who didn't do any thing like this. [/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Pls assume what i stated are confirmed facts. [/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I am looking forward to see your views and help in my situation.[/size][/font][/color]

[bongumakers]

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[tom bhayya]

[k2s]

[quote name='bongumakers' timestamp='1327390624' post='1301342148']
Nuvvu Adults forums lo kuda member vaaa
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nee............ oka manishi avedana..... vesa vay ikkada...... deniki.... kontha ladies replies ila icharu.......

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[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I feel sad to hear about you. And I know the most logical answer would be to divorce your wife. However, how are you so sure that it happened?[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Anyways....I feel your painful situation. And the difficulty of living under the same roof with the person who betrayed your trust. But unless you have a solid evidence in your hand....I don't think divorce would be that easy to get either. [/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]If parents are stressed out and tensed....it affects the child more. So keep the home atmosphere normal...whether u decide to go for a divorce or not. Not showing your tension, aggression, frustration in front of the child....not insulting your partner even if she is at fault in front of the child is important. The child might hold you responsible for not treating his mother right, if you show anger in front of the child. You will have to respect your souse as the mother of your child even if you dont respect her as a person anymore. Try to keep a respectful distance from your wife, hold few conversations--and have some solid evidence before u file for divorce. If you're very sure she is cheating on you(and if you have evidence too!)--file for divorce.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]To take care of your child's mental health......the best you can do is--give a good atmosphere to him, try to be cheerful for his sake...no matter what.[/size][/font][/color]






[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]2: [/size][/font][/color][color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Did you talked to her why she is doing like that ; r u neglecting her? does she found any problem in u? Most indian families after marriage and child birth they lose interest on each other b'cos of various reasons. Both of you spend some quality time on this and if required change urself.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]If none of this works then u can think of divorce . If there is no love and trust then it is no point in the marriage life.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]It is hard to be away from child but life is moving on so as our values.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]If you do that this stage then ur kid will overcome this as he is young and can't understand what is happening around; he just wants no fights in home.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]About the maintenance and other things if by mutual you are filing then not much money u need to shelve. But if required you have to take care kids expense. You can't run away from that.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]And about starting ur new relation why to think that u r in 40's and all ; it is ultimately ur life and u know how to lead : want to get married or going to be single however u feel happy it is on u.[/size][/font][/color]

[jimcarrey]

Fafam....

[Simple123]

I feel you are not satisfying her . Have S*X more frequently and take her out to Kashmir or dehadrun or Kerala for honeymoon.

Talk with her about your findings and ask her clarifications . Talk smoothly .

If She is a bitch ,leave her and find another hole

[evadigolavadide]

paapam pichi peon aipoyaadu...[img]http://i42.tinypic.com/258qdu9.gif[/img]

[Aavakaaya Biryaani]

[tom bhayya]

[quote name='Simple123' timestamp='1327390778' post='1301342173']
I feel you are not satisfying her . Have S*X more frequently and take her out to Kashmir or dehadrun or Kerala for honeymoon.

Talk with her about your findings and ask her clarifications . Talk smoothly .

If She is a bitch ,leave her and [b]find another[/b] hole
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vaadi age 42 antaa...

[k2s]

[quote name='evadigolavadide' timestamp='1327390802' post='1301342177']
paapam pichi peon aipoyaadu...[img]http://i42.tinypic.com/258qdu9.gif[/img]
[/quote][img]http://i42.tinypic.com/258qdu9.gif[/img]

[bongumakers]

[quote name='Alexander' timestamp='1327390992' post='1301342190']
vaadi age 42 antaa...
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Age tho sambandhame ledhu... US lo entha mandhini chudala...

[tom bhayya]

[quote name='bongumakers' timestamp='1327391090' post='1301342204']

Age tho sambandhame ledhu... US lo entha mandhini chudala...
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vaadu india lo vuntunnadu.. 42 age vunnavaadi mentality oka sari ela vuntundho oohinchuko...

[Simple123]

[quote name='Alexander' timestamp='1327390992' post='1301342190']
vaadi age 42 antaa...
[/quote]

avunu baa . Mid age crisis . Monna maa manager ede discuss chesadu natho . 40's lo ekkuva levadu + life tensions and ekkuva cheyyaru anta . Concentartion ekkuva vere vatimeda untadi anta . Deniki edo peru cheppadu . Manchi lecture ichadu aa roju naku .

[psycopk]

[quote name='Simple123' timestamp='1327391171' post='1301342213']

avunu baa . Mid age crisis . Monna maa manager ede discuss chesadu natho . 40's lo ekkuva levadu + life tensions and ekkuva cheyyaru anta . Concentartion ekkuva vere vatimeda untadi anta . Deniki edo peru cheppadu . Manchi lecture ichadu aa roju naku .
[/quote] lecture aaipoyaka nuvvu mee manager inti address adigava?? lol...

[bongumakers]

[quote name='Alexander' timestamp='1327391170' post='1301342212']
vaadu india lo vuntunnadu.. 42 age vunnavaadi mentality oka sari ela vuntundho oohinchuko...
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Naaku thelisina uncle india lo adhe age lo inko pelli chesukunnadu...