Problems With Newly Married Couples : Love Marriage

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[indent]Hi,

I had got married 1&1/2 month back,after a huge struggle for my parents acceptence,finally it went on well as per my decision.Its a love marraige!

Basically he is nice guy and we love each other a lot,but sometimes we fight like this is an END and it scares me to the death...am more of independent natured.he says he has problem with my attitude and independency....we not only yell at each otheri some time slap him and he will threaten me that he will die with a knife or lizol..i get really scared when he does that.....my problem is am not expressive but i express my anger ,i throw things etc..but in love i cant express,until now we are not physically togehter as am scared.
He is more of understandign and all that but some times we both cant manage our temper. My problem with him are
- I dont like his freind circle( his goes along in his freinds wife's in her car to office ,he only mentioned that she was not of a good character,so i have a problem here he accompaining,not that i dotn trust him but i dont like her and carry my perception) all his friends i some doesnot match upto my wave length.
- there was a incident before marraige when i had over seen his FB message,i found he was little flirty with a girl whom he knows quite recently,she has a crush on my Husband....he shared all our problems and fight and tried to gain her sympathy..i made a big issue out here....later he said and tried explaining him that it was only for some time i discussed( he knows that,i dislike sharign our internal couple problems with any one,who ever it is i consider as third person betwn us)
- Now after marraige,our neighbours we gell well,their daughter(23 yrs-unmarried) was in my house, kitchen when i was not there helping him how to do curd..when i was about to go office and this just iriked me and i made a scene here saying how can u allow her to get into my house ...infact she doensot know any household work but she tried helping my H.
H has a problem saying that i started doubting him, to an extent i also feel that am i geting over hyped by all this and making a scene and am being too over posseeive of him..is it ok..am i tryign to be abnormal? i have seen marraiges breakign down due to this doubting /suspecting nature..i dotn want my life to be like thta..i was never like this....i give that freedom and expect freedom as well....i dont know what happening....can you guys throw some suggestions..

he is a nice guy,with very helping nature(overly some times) understandign and extremely caring..but got huge temper issues ..so even i do...help me pls[/indent][/size][/font][/color]

[krisomania2043]

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[tom bhayya]

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[Anta Assamey]

[htnamus]

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[peru_edaite_enti]

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[ammulu]

nakithe okka mukka kuda ardham kale

[psycopk]

ladies ilanti yedavalake padatru ani inko sari proved...

[psycopk]

[quote name='ammulu' timestamp='1327393382' post='1301342392']
nakithe okka mukka kuda ardham kale
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[Simple123]

K2S baa ..nuvvu eda untav and em job chestav cheppu

[krldr871]

Thanadhe problem ani aa ammaaye clear ga cheptondi gaaa..This was more like a confession, rather than a genuine question..idhe thana husband ki chepte problem solve avthundemo..too much ego, chaala possessive papa laga undi..

[Anta Assamey]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1327393414' post='1301342393']
ladies ilanti yedavalake padatru ani inko sari proved...
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Ante ippatiki varaku love lo padi fail vallu andaru okappudu Yadavalu antavu.....

[k2s]

[quote name='Simple123' timestamp='1327393464' post='1301342398']
K2S baa ..nuvvu eda untav and em job chestav cheppu
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[psycopk]

[quote name='John Galt' timestamp='1327393495' post='1301342401']
Thanadhe problem ani aa ammaaye clear ga cheptondi gaaa..This was more like a confession, rather than a genuine question..idhe thana husband ki chepte problem solve avthundemo..too much ego, chaala possessive papa laga undi..
[/quote] ante gani babu garu… punya purush antav…

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