Estory - 2 : Relations Hurt

[k2s]

Hi All,

I have been following this site from a very long time but never thgt i would end up writing............i am if my post is long

About me: i am the youngest in the family and i was like a princess and apple of my dad's eye. I just had to order wat ever i wanted and it would come right to me. Both my parents are into white collar jobs so there was never short of money and i spent very lavishly. Its been 5 yrs that i got married and i have been staying in US from then.

About my family: My parents are well educated and the way the talked to us(elder sister and I) was very polite. Mom was our best frnd so shared everything wid her. When ever a guy proposed us we used to go to our mom and tell her we were that close. so they was never this bad words or language used in our family. As far as i remember i never heard my dad saying anything to us. My dad would never get into our talks he maintained his dignity.

About my DH: He is very educated smart handsome loving and caring but very short tempered. when my DH was a kid they were like a lower middle class family but after getting a and came to US they are well off now.

About my DH family:my hats off to my ILs for raising their kids like this and i wish no one gets inspired by them. I dont want thier influence on my kids at all. MIL is working but she is not independent she cant do anything on her own. Never saw her cooking in these 5yrs, she never goes out alone u cant stand her for more than 10mins. neatness is 0% in their house and she does nothing but going to office, watching tv , talking and cursing others. IF anyone wants to know bad words in telugu u can go to her she'll give training i am sure. She has no respect for money even after coming from such a poor background.FIL is like the woman in the family does all the cooking cleaning, washing, grocery gossiping and wat not and he is also a expert in using bad words. SIL got married and she has 2 kids. she is always there in my ILs house though her apt is jus 10mins away.She left her 1st daughter wid my ILS as she is working and that girl is a spoiled brat now. she is hardly 4yrs now and did her masters in abusing.


MY Problem:for smallest thing My DH over reacts and starts using bad words. his parents are everything to him and i dont mind that. he talks to his parents twice a day(morning before leaving for work and night). even in their conversation for every 2 sentences they use around 3-5 bad words which i really cant take it. even wen he is in a gud mood or wen he's pampering me he uses all those words sometimes i dont understand if he is cursing me or he's pampering me. the other day we got into an argument about kids and he lost his cool and started abusing me and i got so pissed of wid that i walked out of the room after some time he came upto me and said he was he lost his cool and i could not forgive him as this is not the first time this happened. he says he was and repeats the same when ever there's any discussion going on and stopped talking to hims its been more than 2days that we are not talking. now a days he became more abusive. In the beginning i told my MIL abt this and she told its runs in the family to take it easy i was shocked by her answer and now i know she is no less ..................What should i do to stop. Now its just 2 of us and but ones we have kids how is it going to be. I have already seen how my SIL daughter is and i dont want my kids to be like that not even in my wild dreams i think imagine my kids like that. the main reason for not having kids is his short temperament. Can u please suggest me some thing. i cant tell this my parents as i dont want to hurt them they know how my ILs are.

[ganesh]

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[Anta Assamey]

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[irritation]

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[Anta Assamey]

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[psycopk]

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[Anta Assamey]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1337372578' post='1301822827']
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[manjunath455]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1337372578' post='1301822827']
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[k2s]

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