Pelli Gurunchi Alochisthuntey..............

[Spartan]

[quote name='andhra student' timestamp='1337484382' post='1301829231']
anni ammaye cheseyali.. manam em adjust avvakunda ammai ni motham adjust avvamandam kooda not practical.. stubbornness relationship lo undakoodadhu ani thought
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agreed....mutual understanding is important....adi tanaki alavatu cheyali in case lekapote...

u need to standup as example for her...so that she will also follow ur steps....ledu nenu stubborn ga untanu..tane adjust avvali ante..appudu kuda ne stpes ye follow avutadi..tanu kuda stuborn ga undatam alavatu avutadi..

[Idly Vishwanatham]

[quote name='mothi' timestamp='1337483950' post='1301829213']



elaaa vuntadhi amaaayi..........mingle ayipothadha family lo

naaku space isthadha

nenu konni konni things ki chaala specific gaa untaanu so naa stubborn mindedness ni ardham cheysukuntadha

difference of opinions untaaayi............. koncham question cheysthaanu already accepted things ki...... inka chaaala unaaayi......
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Prati vallaki unde feeling ee mama idi.. Nenu koncham unique, nannu tattukuni, ardam chesukuni, adjust ayye life partner vastunda, Leda ani.. Pelli chesesuko, tarvata oka sari
Nuvvu, oka sari ame adjust avukunta happy ga untaru

[mothi]

[quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1337484184' post='1301829223']
ammai ela untundi ante....

neeku ealnti ammai kaalo..alanti qualities unna ammai ni vetakadam kanna..e rojullo.. nachina ammai ni konni match ayina chaalu..neeku nachinatlu nuvvu mould cheskune capaacity u need to have...appudu life happies...


Mingle avutada leda ante....family to...20-25 yrs oka family to undi.inko family to kotta awareness and rituals to adjust avvalante minimum 3 yrs padtundi..u need to understand that...and dont expect to change and mingle immediately..a understanding neelo undali..

neeku space ivvakapote..nuvve kalginchu..ammailu tondarga open avvaru konta mandi...so u need to initiate that process..konta mandi easy ga mingle aipotaru..openup avutaru..coz u r the only companion for them for rest of their life kada...


Stubborn g auntanu ante...nuvvu munde cheppali..tanaki ardham ayyela...so that tarvta differences rakunda untai..she will get used to it..

differeences of opinions untai definite ga..neeto paatu unna family members ki neeku kuda untai...relation ship and marriage ante ne...adjustment and loving each other..okari priorities okaru telsukoni..kalisi undatam ...avi obvious..only point is the differences shudnt go to an extent where it hurts others feeling everytime...
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I agree........ that overnight motham changes raavaali antey thats impossible.................... But nenu anukunnatey malli naa alot depends upon the conversation that a boy would have with a girl when they meet .................... aaaaa disco lo ney ardham ayithadhi enti sangathi annadhi...........

[Spartan]

[quote name='mothi' timestamp='1337484629' post='1301829240']


I agree........ that overnight motham changes raavaali antey thats impossible.................... But nenu anukunnatey malli naa alot depends upon the conversation that a boy would have with a girl when they meet .................... aaaaa disco lo ney ardham ayithadhi enti sangathi annadhi...........
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first stmt tappa tarvata em cheppavo ardham kaale...

[mothi]

[quote name='andhra student' timestamp='1337484382' post='1301829231']
anni ammaye cheseyali.. manam em adjust avvakunda ammai ni motham adjust avvamandam kooda not practical.. stubbornness relationship lo undakoodadhu ani thought
[/quote]
[quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1337484516' post='1301829234']

agreed....mutual understanding is important....adi tanaki alavatu cheyali in case lekapote...

u need to standup as example for her...so that she will also follow ur steps....ledu nenu stubborn ga untanu..tane adjust avvali ante..appudu kuda ne stpes ye follow avutadi..tanu kuda stuborn ga undatam alavatu avutadi..
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mama's nenu emi Hitler ni kadhu nenu anukunnadhey jaragaalanni emi ledhu................................But anyways let's wait and see what's in store for me ...........

[Spartan]

[quote name='mothi' timestamp='1337484768' post='1301829246']
mama's nenu emi Hitler ni kadhu nenu anukunnadhey jaragaalanni emi ledhu................................But anyways let's wait and see what's in store for me ...........
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nee gundu....inta daniki..pelli gurinchi..oo tension qns..unnai ananv inte na....


wait chesevadivi..enduku alochinchadam....

[mothi]

[quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1337484682' post='1301829241']


first stmt tappa tarvata em cheppavo ardham kaale...
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pelli choopulu apudu photos chupisthaaru kadha mama...... so then next step is you will talk to the girl kadha..... atleast idhi mandatory naa case lo that i must talk to girl annadhi......... so conversation lo thelusthadhi asalu manam further gaaa proceed avacha avvochaaa ledha annadhi..........

[mothi]

[quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1337484842' post='1301829252']


nee gundu....inta daniki..pelli gurinchi..oo tension qns..unnai ananv inte na....


wait chesevadivi..enduku alochinchadam....
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konni questions unaayi kaani public forum lo adagaali anni ledhu............... koncham reserved by nature.............

[Spartan]

[quote name='mothi' timestamp='1337484948' post='1301829259']
pelli choopulu apudu photos chupisthaaru kadha mama...... so then next step is you will talk to the girl kadha..... atleast idhi mandatory naa case lo that i must talk to girl annadhi......... so conversation lo thelusthadhi asalu manam further gaaa proceed avacha avvochaaa ledha annadhi..........
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okka conversation lo nuvvu ameni..ame ninnu ardham chesko galigite.....pellilu breakups avvavu mama...

u need atleast two -three sittings....

nuvvu ela undalanukuntunnavo...tanu ela undalanukuntundo...avanni telsukovali...

ela adjust avvagalaru..iddaru anedi..ivanni first meet lo e ammai matladaledu...unless age is more than 25+


abbaila sangati antava... i wud be in same situation...one sitting lo naaku kashtame telsukovadam...2 yrs frendship chesi roju matladukunna kuda nenu evvariki ardham kaanu.......na case cheptunna...

[nenusaitham]

[quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1337484184' post='1301829223']
ammai ela untundi ante....

neeku ealnti ammai kaalo..alanti qualities unna ammai ni vetakadam kanna..e rojullo.. nachina ammai ni konni match ayina chaalu..neeku nachinatlu nuvvu mould cheskune capaacity u need to have...appudu life happies...


Mingle avutada leda ante....family to...20-25 yrs oka family to undi.inko family to kotta awareness and rituals to adjust avvalante minimum 3 yrs padtundi..u need to understand that...and dont expect to change and mingle immediately..a understanding neelo undali..

neeku space ivvakapote..nuvve kalginchu..ammailu tondarga open avvaru konta mandi...so u need to initiate that process..konta mandi easy ga mingle aipotaru..openup avutaru..coz u r the only companion for them for rest of their life kada...


Stubborn g auntanu ante...nuvvu munde cheppali..tanaki ardham ayyela...so that tarvta differences rakunda untai..she will get used to it..

differeences of opinions untai definite ga..neeto paatu unna family members ki neeku kuda untai...relation ship and marriage ante ne...adjustment and loving each other..okari priorities okaru telsukoni..kalisi undatam ...avi obvious..only point is the differences shudnt go to an extent where it hurts others feeling everytime...
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[Spartan]

[quote name='mothi' timestamp='1337485013' post='1301829270']
konni questions unaayi kaani public forum lo adagaali anni ledhu............... koncham reserved by nature.............
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ilanti palce lo ne adagatam better..endukante..nuvvu evaru annadi evadiki telvadu konta mandiki tappa...a knta mandi emi anukoru..kavalante neeku suggestions istaru.....

lekapote a qns neelo ne undipotai....

ide right time teslkuodaini..and right platform....nuvvu kanivvu...

[mothi]

[quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1337485129' post='1301829279']


okka conversation lo nuvvu ameni..ame ninnu ardham chesko galigite.....pellilu breakups avvavu mama...

u need atleast two -three sittings....

nuvvu ela undalanukuntunnavo...tanu ela undalanukuntundo...avanni telsukovali...

ela adjust avvagalaru..iddaru anedi..ivanni first meet lo e ammai matladaledu...unless age is more than 25+


abbaila sangati antava... i wud be in same situation...one sitting lo naaku kashtame telsukovadam...2 yrs frendship chesi roju matladukunna kuda nenu evvariki ardham kaanu.......na case cheptunna...
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okka 15 mins time ivvu bayatiki velli vostha koncham detailed gaa chepthaaaa naaa response............

[Spartan]

[quote name='mothi' timestamp='1337485247' post='1301829293']


okka 15 mins time ivvu bayatiki velli vostha koncham detailed gaa chepthaaaa naaa response............
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take ur time..appudu varaku vere vallu evaraina unte adagandi..naaku telsindi septa...

[mothi]

[quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1337485326' post='1301829302']


take ur time..appudu varaku vere vallu evaraina unte adagandi..naaku telsindi septa...
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chitti unaava ?.....

[mothi]

Adapting antaara... in other words incorporating changes in their respective lives is inevitable.........
and adhi gradually over the time avuthadhi........ overnight kaadhu anni telusu........

And I agree that 2 or 3 meetings jaruguthey okka idea vasthundhi anni anukuntaamu but alaa idea raavaali inka ekuvvey time padthadhi...................but you know okka meeting ayaaka ney amaayi vaalu aduguthu untaaru answer gurunchi......... so emmi answer cheppakunda 2 or 3 meetings amaayi tho jaragaali antey koncham kashtam...........

inka chitti annattu 2 or 3 years ayaaka kuda nenu evariki ardham kaanu antey adhi completely obvious adhi......... life time motham ayipoyaaka kuda ardham kaaru.....

naaku anumaninchey amaayilu antey asalu padadhu ........... and adhi pelli ayaakaney telusthadhi vaalu elaanti vaalu annadhi....... I guess divorce manaki entha nachaka poyina adhi option laaga untadhi atleast for some time after a couple goes through an arranged marriage........

because endhuku antunaanu antey if the couple does not getting along well..... then it is much better to end the marriage then prolonging their mistake................... annadhi naa thought.