Ching Chang Chow Love Story

[chinni005]

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Ok ekada spamming padha...
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[k2s]

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She didn't have access to internet or phone or anything till then but sudden ga email chesindi and asalu ammana butulu tidutu and nenu explain cheyalane anukunna but antalopala emails varsham kuripinchesindi and she wrote to my dad ccing. Appadivaraku asalu ma intlo vallaki we lived togetehr ane telusu motham story teledu danike they kicked me out of house. Adi rasina darunamayina emails ki nake chala chala badha vesindi and i was so hurt that she could even think of me in this way thought i said i will leave her if my sister wedding will be cancelled. Ayina na manasu ento ala teledu asalu enni yrs relationship ani chala kopam vachind. By the way this story started in 2004 and ended in 2009. for clarity cheptunna as some one posted a question. Ma dad read that email and was shocked what is happening ani adigaru and nenem cheppukovalo teleka i ended the call. Vepareetamaina kopam vachindi naku oka stage lo champeyalanipinchindi danini as she could think so cheaply and i didnt even knew what happened on her end and who influenced her. Ma sister, mom kuda tavata emails chadivaru and they blasted me. Nenu ayina konni rojulu tavata avesam taggaka explain cheddamane anukunnanu but she went to my house and she told every thing scene to scene. My parents tittani butu ledu and my parents said they are okay for the marriage and told her that they would do the marriage if i am okay to get married. Naku asalu prema ani alochana poyindi asalu chachipoya paruvu poyi and ma chellalu i never expected u are such a rogue andi and ma amma asalu valla nanna tittadu anukunnam kani asalu maku penchadame raledu he is correct andi. my family couldn't handle the situations listening to what happened and they were even scared what she will do and how their family will react to these situations. Idi na friends ki cousins ki andariki cheppesindi edustu he is cheater ani and asalu rayadaniki ravatledu boss world lo unna butulu google lo chusi kuda rasindi and i am not kidding. She emailed saying naku bootulu ravu google list lo chusi kodutunnanu ani. Naku temper roju rojuku perigipoyindi. oka 1000 emails chesi untundi atleast but okka email lo kuda she didnt even try to understand and think what i am and naku respect poyindi andarilo especially ma dad and mom chedabuttav ani tittaru and nenu chala rojulu explain cheyaledu tavata nenu na family dooramayipotondi ani vallani convince chesesukunnanu saying anta scene ledu she magnified asalu adem ledu ani cover chesanu to my parents. My parents nammaledu but her crazy behavior made them believe that she is generally out of mind. na side nenu office lo intlo friends to anni chotla paruvu poyi every one wwere asking on face what did u do to her ani. Naku danimida prema asalu poyindo ledo undo kuda teledu but chachenta kopam and champesenha kopam vachindi and nijanga kanipiste champesevadinemo. Here emails killed me and chadivi avi nenu ento edchevadini as chala worst ga tidutu rasedi. At a point i thought there is no point to even get married after her opinions on me. Nuvve naku akkarledu po ra ani chala emails rasindi. Chachipovadam better nilanti manishito undadam kante antu worst possible oohinchesukondi. Oka abbayini enta max peaks lo tittacho avi just nato kadu andari to tittindi and especially ma sister to and also cousins. konni emails edustu rasedi but she has gone crazy and nenu tala ethukon tiragalekapoyanu officce kuda quit chesanu and asalu naku telisina vallu leni place lo job chusukoni colarado move ayipoyanu. Handle cheyalekapoyanu and naku pain and badha annitiki minchi respect poyindi chi na batuku anipinchindi nenu danini enduku preminchana ani chala regret ayyanu. Enta chesanu US ki danikosame vacha and she forgot everything and nannu ila hurt chesindi anukunnanu. Ma sister pelli settle ayyindi so nenu pelli ani intlo cheppakapoyina ma sister email chusi vachanu and i convinced my parents that there is not so much as she explained but preminchanu work out kaledu ani convince chesanu. She purely told her side of story to every one making me villian. Sister pelli lo family motham na gurinchi em chesanu a ammayini gurinchi discussions cousins kuda enti enjoy chesi vadilesava ane adigaru as if i am a cheap guy nenu tattukolekapoyanu and edo manage chesukunnanu. Edo jarigindi ani telusu motham family ki but emito evvariki teeledu and inka teliyalsina avasaram ledu anipinchindi. Edchi edchi alano she is hating me pelli chesukuntundi and she and her family will be happy anipinchindi. I also thought inta worst ayyaka em batakagalam we are not destined for each other anukunnanu. But every now and then matuku abusive emails vastune undevi. I used to not lift her calls as sometimes ethina nenu chepppedi vinakunda butulu titti pettesedi and naku ala ethi ethi calls i got irritated and stopped answering her calls. Na side inka chalu jarigindi and she will be happy only if she marry some one else inka iddaram batikedi night mare anukunnanu and i took the decision.


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Her parents looked for a match for her and she was forced to marry. Chala fight chesindi ani naku appudu teledu and she was totally against it but she was all alone without any kind of support from anyone and she was totally helpless. She emailed me so many times and called so many times but i used to delete emails even without reading. Chadavaleka chadave guts kuda poyayi so nenu light tesukunna. I know chala anubhavinchindi and definately i am responsible as she always told me her parents doesn't agree. Nene convince chesanu and nene responsible at every step as kiss chestene pelli chesukuntavu kada ani edchindi so she trusted me but naku unna situatiosn lo enta kashtapadina inka she has to move on and i have to move on for our families to be happy anukunnanu. Naku temper and ego kuda peaks lo undindi when i even think of her and oka range lo even i started hating her as andarilo i lost respect and howlga gadila chusaru. Job maripoya kuda because of her.2 montsh daily emails vachayi and tavata inka raledu. Pelli ayipoyindemo anukunnanu. She was engaged and even after that she called couple of times and inka bharincchaleka she tried to comitt suicide the day before her wedding . i got a call from my parents that she is in hospital vellanu India ki ventane she was in ICCU . Naku chachipovalanipinchindi nenu nannu life lo excuse chesukolenu anukunnanu. a stage lo i realized andaru em anukunna bad ayina because of her she should be important but ego to worst ga behave chesa ga anipinchindi. i was so desperate to correct my mistake and a pain was killing me. na email id ki forwarding address undedi password kuda marchipoyanu adi unlock chesi i read all emails she wrote to me. Preti email lo edchindi that she cannot live without me and that she cannot even live without character . Nannu inta chesi vadilestava and how did u expect me to be alive like this ani chala badha ga rasindi. Ninne trsut cheste nuvve nannu nammaka droham chesavu kada inko danini pelli chesukoni nannu marchipogalava ani enno emails. pelli chesukoni nenu ila batakala ala kanna chave better nenu batakanu antu there were many emails. Tittanu bad chesanu ane anta kopam vaste mari nuvvu chesinavi anubhavinchevallaki enta kopam vastundi who is responsible for my situations i dont care about your parents or my parents asalu mundu ni character enti ani questions. Mogadivi nuvvu mosam cheste niku bad name ani badhaga unda mari adapillani na character aey poyindi kada ala tala ethukovali family lo and ala face cheyanu manushulani and na behavior bad avvachu but tannulu kuda tinnanu ni valla na parents to and ma parents ala penchute ala ayipoyavu ani kumili kumili edchi tindi manesaru who is responsible ? My dad opposed this marriage which i always told you mari handle chestanu annav idena ni handling nannu handle chesi champeyadama ani adigindi. Trust chesanu bhayam annanu vaddu annanu and pelli chesukuntadu ane trust to kalisanu and enni tappulu chesina excuse chesanu but namminaduku em chesav na life ni asalu batakala? em sadhinchali? Enta chesi enta edipinchi niku na mida kopam and nuvvu naku respond kavatladu..Cheppu to kottukuntunna preminchinanduku and learned lesson of lifetime . Enta chesi nannu pelli chesuko ani adukunte kuda matladaledu nenu akkarledu annav and u didn't respond to any of the emails i sent saying my marriage is settled chachipoyina niku avasaram ledu and u dont care anthe ga ? 100 % mogavadini nammite life ki migiledi suicidal thoughts and cheredi chavu ke ani telusukunnanu ani chala emails unnayi. Avi chadivi nenu batiki undi kuda waste anipinchindi and her suicide note was i still love u kopam chala vachindi champeyalanipinchindi but nuvvu lekunda batakalenu inkodito asale batakalenu so nene chachipotunna ani last email rasindi. Her last line was dont worry i wont write your name and die so nothing will happen because of my death bhayapadaku ani undi. ma parents bhayapaddaru case avutundemo ani but case em avutundi her parents even didn't look at my face and they said okallu chachelaga unnaru inkollu jail ki veltharu appudu miru malage edustaru inka em chesina em upayogam go away from here annaru valla dad ma dad to. Nenu bharinchaleka evi chudaleka that day i felt so embarassed and nene na moham evariki chupincholekapoyanu and i was ashamed and cried how my ego almsot killed a life. Kshaminchukoleni tappu ayipoyindi but nenu intentional ga em cheyaledu i loved her and i still love her. Batakalemu and she will be happy if she get married anukunnanu chachipotundi ani teluste nannu evaru emanna lepukochi ayina pelli chesukunevadini. Enta mandi leru easy ga marriages chesukuntaru deniki koncham time padutundi but inta differences to pelli chesukunna happy ga undalemu and tanu asale undaledu and she cannot face situations anedi na thought. Pelli once ayipote tane adjust avutundi tana husband ki nannu marchipotundi in max 1 yr anukunna but mu thought was wrong. I will never be able to excuse myself in my life time. I hate myself and i know everyone hate me but nenu tanani cheat cheyalanukoledu anedi evariki cheppina ardham kakunda ayipoyindi. My family didnn't even look at my face and my mom said i wish you died not her. Adi na story. i understood ammayilu chala chala sensitive vallu edo annaru ani ego techukoni decisions tesukunte we will be the worst people. Matalu avesam lo vallu arustaru but they dont mean it danikanna badha ardham chesukoni undi unte memu eddaramu happy ga undevallam but ippduu andarini edipincham and nannu devudu asalu kshaminche chance kuda ledemo. Enni emails lo cheppina ardham kaledu nannu ardham chesukoledu nannu howla ni chesindi ani alochinchane kani nenu enta baga ardham chesukunnano analyse chesukoledu.I was the culprit and criminal Human being anevade nannu excuse cheyadu inka story follow ayye miru asale cheyaru ani telusu but dont ever behave like me and evaranan nannu ardham chesukunte i will be happy that there is some one who understood my situations and nenu manishine ani gurthukostundi.

Love cheste a guy should handle total responsibility adi nenu fail ayyanu and i am facing consequences. It might not be true for all cases but it will be true in cases when girls are sensitive and we don't realize their sensitivity until we loose them.


But ending story line is she recovered soon and we are married now an year back. Just one and half year completed and we are very very happy couple. Bhad me jay lokam but i will never let a tear drop from her eye. Manchi lover ni kaledu atleast manchi husband and father avvalani korika. Her parents and my parents are also fine and nannu villian chupulu chustaru but my family look at her like a princess and she is very very happy ( Atleast i think so) Excuse chesindo ledo i don't know and i cannot even ask as i don't think i have that right to even ask but she doesn't even let me talk about past. She will tell on my face that we will get divorced if we talk about past and nenu try chestunte she will simply say will you shut up and that she will never discuss about that topic in life time. We are now well settled bought a house in California and happily settled. We just got to know 2 days back that i am going to become a father . I got a very beautiful wife more beautiful at heart than appearance and god gave me more than what i deserved but i have gone through so much. Lif e ante mastu bhayam vesesindi adi ICCU lo unnappudu nenu chachipodam anukunna if she doesn't be alive full punches mida punches ichadu god but finally good days also came for us. Never ever expected that at a stage that there would be happiness in my life. Guy strong ga unte edaina success avutundi provided the girl really loves him and i think evaro 30% tappa most of the girls will love more sincerely than us. Adi story. Kee posting comments. Nenu complete chesa story give me HI5
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[nmh]

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DISCLAIMER:

I never projected myself right and i even wrote i made mistakes which i can never correct in lifetime so don't argue that i am good or bad. I was definately wrong. I am not against your comments and totally agree with people who hate me here. No dis-agreements. People who understand me understands me who cannot understand me will understand her point of situaitions. I always have win-win situation. But i agree with people who think i was wrong. Banda butulu tittalanukune vallu tittina padatanu boss as some mistakes are lifetime mistakes and you cannot correct them no matter why you made them.
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DB ni follow avadam start chesi 3 mnths avtondi
First time DB follow avtunanduku Chala Chala Happy ga feel avtuna...............

Really Happy For You Both
Past Life ela una gani I am sure that you are going to have "The Best Future" With your loving wife and your Child..

All The Very Best And I Wish You a Very Happy and Bright Future

[jamesbond]

classic bhayya... inta kanna comment cheyalenu... last daaka tension lo pettav

and Congratzz on the new person coming into life

[dreamgirl]

wow...no words to describe antha nachindhi story..ofcourse madhya lo anthe kopam vachindhi

All the very best

[k2s]

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wow...no words to describe antha nachindhi story..ofcourse madhya lo anthe kopam vachindhi

All the very best
[/quote]motham sadivinava ?? leka edo paina paina sadivi reply isthunnava ??

[dreamgirl]

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motham sadivinava ?? leka edo paina paina sadivi reply isthunnava ??
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ninna almost midnight varaki wait chesaaa...ninnane last but one episode varaki chadhivi inka nidrochi padukunna..Ippudu levagaane db open chesi finish chesaa and am very happy

[k2s]

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ninna almost midnight varaki wait chesaaa...ninnane last but one episode varaki chadhivi inka nidrochi padukunna..Ippudu levagaane db open chesi finish chesaa and am very happy
[/quote]enthaina neeku naaku love estories antey istame ley

[charygaru]

pakka thread lo mottam 78 pages story sadivi adi kakunda ee thread lo kuda mottam sadivina eppudo 12 ki start chesthe 3 kaavosthundi but thoroughly enjoyed the whole story chingchangchow your story was awesome.

comments emanna unte kaavaali annav kada
1) you acted like every other guy through out but realize ayyav chudu that was the best part in you.
2) me wife kuda naaku antha manchiga anipiyyale starting lo naaku atla maree amayakam ga unde vallu nachharu but the conviction she showed was unbelievable. nee meeda antha kopam ochhaka kuda anni maatalu paddaka kuda valla ayya anni kaanilu cheppi nee meeda manasu virichesaka kuda inka nuvvu kaavalanukotam nuvvu lekapothe sachhipotaniki kuda ready avvatam unbelievable.

may be nuvvu ee story cheppe mundu andaru ninnu thidtharu ani thittukuntaru ani expect chesi undachhu but end of the story andaru ninnu mechhukunnaru neeku Fans ga maripoyaru kaaranam nee realization also madhyalo koncham cheap ga matladina tarvatha valla tappu vallu telsukunnaru mee wonderful couple ki neerajanalu palukuthunnaru adi aame chupinchina sincerity ki ochhina response.

on a personal level i would say you are one very very very lucky bast@rd antha preminche ammayi dorkatam anedi nee adrushtam on the same side nee laaga tappu telsukoni maripoyi bharyani raani laaga chusukune husband kuda rare ye mee couple ghoram ga adrushta vanthulu.

kani nee 30% equation ni nenu oppukolenu edo oka ammayi ala chesindi ani andaru alage untaru anukotam correct kadu ani nuvvu ane maata mee wife lanti vallaki kuda varthisthundi alanti ammayilu ye nootiko kotiko okallu untaru anthe.

father vi kaa bothunnav ani cheppav i am sure ee paatiki ayyipoyi untav kuda, just imagining how awesome it would be to tell your children and grand children how your love story went alochisthe ne pichha exciting ga undi i wish you guys a wonderful life ahead man. though you guys are normal people like the rest of us mee lo ni balam balaheenatha telsukoni okarini oakru ardham chesukoni wonderful life ni lead chesthunanduku aa story ikkada raasi future la maaku life ni ela lead cheyyalo/cheyyakudado oka example ichhinanduku hearty thanks.

[jamesbond]

bhayya okka chinna suggestion.... Mee mava ni oo round eskotam miss ayyav bhayya.....

Life lo eppudanna chance osthe odala maaka..... Ilanti Pithre fathers andariki telisila undali nee response....

I can understand his feelings as a Father.... Kaani vaadi Feeling lo naa Reeling (em anukoku)

Kummei cheptaa aadni

[ManOnFire]

congratulations

[CHANAKYA]

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I never said i was right dude. Asalu nenu e post chesindi to tell that i was wrong and rude and wanted to tell evey guy to think from a girl's angle as well. I think you missed out the whole purpose of this post.
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no bhayya... I think you misunderstood me..

I did not said you are wrong or right... I was just speechless after reading your whole story...
I did not know how far it is true.. but, I believe at least 90% of it is true. For that reason I am speechless.. and no comments...

Life mottham okka decade lo choosesavv.. Ne tappulu ento nuvvu poorthiga telusukunnav....
Hmm... Ne meeda comments chese eligibility kooda ikkada evariki ledu, as far as I know..

[pavan_613]

intha pedhha length ahh

[chingchangchow]

[quote name='CHANAKYA' timestamp='1338903370' post='1301912679']
no bhayya... I think you misunderstood me..

I did not said you are wrong or right... I was just speechless after reading your whole story...
I did not know how far it is true.. but, I believe at least 90% of it is true. For that reason I am speechless.. and no comments...

Life mottham okka decade lo choosesavv.. Ne tappulu ento nuvvu poorthiga telusukunnav....
Hmm... Ne meeda comments chese eligibility kooda ikkada evariki ledu, as far as I know..
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nenu kuda last extreme end lone realize ayyanu. God was great he gave me a second chance and she was out of danger and it is only at that peak extreme point that i left my own conclusions and started thinking from her view as pranam midiki vachesindi. Asaluu a stage varaku evvaru tekudadu situations. Eligibility emundi boss i made every possible mistakes like every other human being but experience tought me realization too but in a very hard way.

[chingchangchow]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][background=rgb(240, 244, 247)]LOVE is the most sweetest and also a very dangerous weapon.Small immature promises will become very big impossible tasks and create whirlpools in life due to obvious expectations and demands of the partner.Situations and parents influence might create problems at a particular point but situations should not break the commitments and promises we made in past.Men/Women has breaking points and i personally think women has higher threshold but can break up with uncontrollable intensity. One person domination can only worsen the relationship and Compromising is the KEY . Knowing and drawing a line, patience to think in others shoes , Effort on both sides for clear communication, understanding, character and taking responsibility ( Especially men ) for the situations created solves most problems.. Ego/ foolishness/temper will not come into picture in a truthful relationship and compromising them for partner doesn't make us any less but in fact strengthens love and happiness in life . Think before getting into situations than after you are stuck . It's being cruel if a partner wants withdraw as per their wish with a one sided decision as it could ruin families and even kill people. I didn't want to degrade my wife or my relationship for putting personal life on a forum but i just wrote them as this is a current problem in many lives and just wanted people to notice how complicated situations can get . i also wanted to make every one think how we can screw up ourselves and others for the fantasies we have unable to imagine the consequences. Love is a journey from proposal to end of life and people who cannot stand on promises and realize their responsibility has no right to screw up other's life. Situations can arise but Character lies in how you unfold them keeping in mind your partner's emotions and life with highest priority. Solving is always a better solution than switching people as we would be playing with integrity and sensitivity of a person but will end up no where as compromise is what we learned and which is basic pillar for any relationship. Selfishness and Love cannot co-exist. Love is about the other person being your priority. Hurting/Torturing/Punishing the person who trusted us for our inabilities can be the worst thing a human can do. It is possible for a person to unfold any kind of situations and i wish the couple stand united and solve them. Philosophy cheppanu kani simple thoughts can change our lifes. HERO movies lone untaru real life lo andaru ZERO's and we are after all human beings. Be nice to your partners and have a blissful life.Preminchedappudu parents last gurthukoni vastaru but pelli ante parents and personal ego's/foolishness/temper priority avvadam darunam and i really request guys /girls who are hurting their partners for parents/situations to understand each other. Once you are in commitment, one small attempt of communication and initiative to understand others point of view with love and concern can bridge even huge misunderstandings. Dont be foolish to end the communication and torture the other person and play with emotions . Break-up in 99% of times terribly shakes one person in the couple while compromise can bring happiness in both of their lifes. Be humane. Humanity first, society next .Experience lo ardhamayina philosophy edi. Immaturity pays a huge price in our lifes and also others. Loving a person is the easiest thing but marrying a person and handling pressure for situations is the most difficult thing in which most of us fail . Just felt like sharing these few lines. Na story chadivina vallaki story gurthulekapoyina nenu ippudu rasina post gurthunte i will be more happy. Good Night !! [/background][/font][/color]