A True Story: That Burns My Heart Whenever I Remember

[ILAQAT_MUFLIYA]

[quote name='mintu' timestamp='1382120452' post='1304435316']

Contact current DGP. Ask them to create a memorandum and get his initials on it. He will refer it to the same police station but the copy will be circulated to everyone in topdown fashion. DGP will initial the memorandum ask for stamp on it.

Jagan kaadu aadi amma mogudini kudaa vodalani officers AP loney vunnaru.

They might not fight with you but will show you all the legal ways to get around it. They will back you with the law, when you follow that CM kudaa emi cheyyadu....

DGP kudaa Chief secretary ki report chesthadu...so there are options...They will guide you through that. If they don't have the resources to go through this process contact POW Sandhya. She will walk with you.....You can do all this without bribing....not even a rupee..... They all have to give an appointment to the pubic and they will give their time....You dont need to know them or need any reference to meet them.....

Also it all depends on what you want to do with him....get him back to india? take divorce? most of the cases they wont divorce initially but when thier VISA is about to be revoked they will come to the table for discussions.

Also any deloitte guy will be able to pull up his details from their address book along with the phone number.
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Agreed gp..

[donganaaK]

[quote name='mintu' timestamp='1382120452' post='1304435316']

Contact current DGP. Ask them to create a memorandum and get his initials on it. He will refer it to the same police station but the copy will be circulated to everyone in topdown fashion. DGP will initial the memorandum ask for stamp on it.

Jagan kaadu aadi amma mogudini kudaa vodalani officers AP loney vunnaru.

They might not fight with you but will show you all the legal ways to get around it. They will back you with the law, when you follow that CM kudaa emi cheyyadu....

DGP kudaa Chief secretary ki report chesthadu...so there are options...They will guide you through that. If they don't have the resources to go through this process contact POW Sandhya. She will walk with you.....You can do all this without bribing....not even a rupee..... They all have to give an appointment to the pubic and they will give their time....You dont need to know them or need any reference to meet them.....

Also it all depends on what you want to do with him....get him back to india? take divorce? most of the cases they wont divorce initially but when thier VISA is about to be revoked they will come to the table for discussions.

Also any deloitte guy will be able to pull up his details from their address book along with the phone number.
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Awesome info..Good post..

[sitaraZahir]

[quote name='mintu' timestamp='1382120658' post='1304435355']



What is your friend looking for? What kind of justice is she looking for at this point?
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to know his whereabouts n his relationship status particulars.. if she knows her family can confront the same to his and get the divorce process fastened or atleast use the info in the judicial enquiry..

Vadu raatam ledhu India ki,. judge has not given divorce as he is not present in person...

[ICANWIN]

Ni story ayite raste ardham undi...how can ur write some others story on a public forum just because you know ? Think twice before u write stories of people u knw in person in DB...niku vallu trust chesi cheppachu but avi ila rayadam enta varaku correct antav?

[rapchik]

[quote name='Bongu..Boshanam' timestamp='1382119975' post='1304435228']
6ft..6pck kosam or min.Mahesh babu or atleast prabhas.....idhe concept lo tempt ayi...in-security tho bathike oka bafoon s/w gadiki OK cheptharu....girls r brain less. Same story in our nearest relatives. but both parties in India.
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[sitaraZahir]

[quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1382120784' post='1304435380']
Ni story ayite raste ardham undi...how can ur write some others story on a public forum just because you know ? Think twice before u write stories of people u knw in person in DB...niku vallu trust chesi cheppachu but avi ila rayadam enta varaku correct antav?
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ammayi details reveal cheyale,. abhayi info PM lo isthuna.. coz we need info .. her family is helpless now as they donno much about his current whereabouts n status..

[sitaraZahir]

[quote name='BumChikaBamBam' timestamp='1382120709' post='1304435367']
and why are u protect such a person's identity sita? aa abbayi fullname ikkada veyyi..
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am not sure entha varaku correct real name veyatam ani.. so help chedham anukuna vallaki PM lo details isthuna..!

[cinema pichodu]

[quote name='mintu' timestamp='1382120452' post='1304435316']

Contact current DGP. Ask them to create a memorandum and get his initials on it. He will refer it to the same police station but the copy will be circulated to everyone in topdown fashion. DGP will initial the memorandum ask for stamp on it.

Jagan kaadu aadi amma mogudini kudaa vodalani officers AP loney vunnaru.

They might not fight with you but will show you all the legal ways to get around it. They will back you with the law, when you follow that CM kudaa emi cheyyadu....

DGP kudaa Chief secretary ki report chesthadu...so there are options...They will guide you through that. If they don't have the resources to go through this process contact POW Sandhya. She will walk with you.....You can do all this without bribing....not even a rupee..... They all have to give an appointment to the pubic and they will give their time....You dont need to know them or need any reference to meet them.....

Also it all depends on what you want to do with him....get him back to india? take divorce? most of the cases they wont divorce initially but when thier VISA is about to be revoked they will come to the table for discussions.

Also any deloitte guy will be able to pull up his details from their address book along with the phone number.
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nice info bro...nuvvu cheppindi chusthunte mana system meedha konchem nammakam vasthundi...but it's not that easy to fight against system(against strong political leaders) for middle class family with out much money and influence. Hope it goes in the way you said.

So pity on that girl....andaru chepthunnattu case lu veyadam, meedia ki cheppadam not that easy...she is thinking about her sisters and family. We must understand the pain she is going through....the biggest blunder she did is...pelliki munde vaadi gurinchi telisi kuda pelli chesukovadam........

[shakesmarty]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3][background=rgb(247, 247, 247)]vaadi motham peru enti send PM..i can find out[/background][/size][/font][/color]

[ICANWIN]

[quote name='Sitara_' timestamp='1382121002' post='1304435411']
ammayi details reveal cheyale,. abhayi info PM lo isthuna.. coz we need info .. her family is helpless now as they donno much about his current whereabouts n status..
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I don't think this is right channel...public forum lo PM cheyadam enti asalu oka personal issue ki ? Stalking ani a abbayi case pedite emavutundi? think matured...this is not right way to deal things....does her family know u PM and ask his details? Dont complicate things...its not a small matter their family need to handle with care...telisinavallani adigina okay..strangers ki atani info ichi how are u asking and how do u expect they will really tell?

[sitaraZahir]

[quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1382121293' post='1304435462']



I don't think this is right channel...public forum lo PM cheyadam enti asalu oka personal issue ki ? Stalking ani a abbayi case pedite emavutundi? think matured...this is not right way to deal things....does her family know u PM and ask his details? Dont complicate things...its not a small matter their family need to handle with care...telisinavallani adigina okay..strangers ki atani info ichi how are u asking and how do u expect they will really tell?
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ee forum lo info thelsina vallu ekkuva vunde chance vundhi.. so..

[ICANWIN]

[quote name='Sitara_' timestamp='1382121355' post='1304435471']
ee forum lo info thelsina vallu ekkuva vunde chance vundhi.. so..
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police help tesukoni approach cheyali...mundu ammayivi u dont take ur own steps without consulting her family....this DB is not the right channel to find his info...

[sitaraZahir]

[quote name='shakesmarty' timestamp='1382121269' post='1304435457']
[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3][background=rgb(247, 247, 247)]vaadi motham peru enti send PM..i can find out[/background][/size][/font][/color]
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done

[salsa]

[quote name='Sitara_' timestamp='1382121086' post='1304435424']
am not sure entha varaku correct real name veyatam ani.. so help chedham anukuna vallaki PM lo details isthuna..!
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aa help cheddamnukonevallalone Nuvvetukutunna vadu unte? Appudu em chestavu ? vadu jaggrattha padipoda? Ilantivanni private detectives ki ivvalsi untundi.. not thru public forums...

[k2s]

[quote name='Sitara_' timestamp='1382110212' post='1304433989']
This is a genuine story and I hope to find some help over here..
help as asked in the thread:

[url="http://www.andhrafriends.com/topic/452209-does-anyone/"]http://www.andhrafri...09-does-anyone/[/url]

Chala brief ga chepataniki try chesthanu.. Na colleague Valla sister dhi ee story and Valla family kuda naku baaga thelsu.... Ne ikkada cheppaboye incidents anni genuine but yes I used my own flow to connect the events occurred...

fake anukunevalu.. donn bother to read or comment over here..

Here's the story :

Ammayi Peru neeraja (fake name). Thanaki 2006 lo marriage ayindhi with HReddy (short form of his real name). Athanu USA lo work chesthadu .. Deloitte Atlanta.. (hopefully now too!)

Neeraja only girls college lo chadhivindhi all the time till PG and she never spoke to a boy closely before.. Valla parents Chala strict.. Education avagane immediate ga job vachindhi and she joined.. But ee lopu marriage bureau through HReddy match vachindhi and that's the first ever Pelli chupulu for her..

She looks very beautiful and Immediate ga match Ok ayindhi and she developed deep feelings for him as he is the first ever boy she spoke closely to, in her life ..

Engagement ki marriage ki 6 months gap adigaru abhayi vallu .. And neerajas family agreed.. And roju calls lo matladukunevallu.. But ekkuva times neeraja edchedhi after call ..
Endhuku ani adigithe chepedhi kaadhu .. HReddy promise theeskunnaduta neeraja dhagira that neeraja intlo em jarigina aa abhayiki cheppali but neeraja n HReddy madhya conversations mathram secret vunchali ani...

Neeraja family got tensed and told her.. Kavalante Pelli aapesthamu.. Y r u crying and taking so much pressure ani.. Neeraja said - engagement okalatho Pelli okalatho idhemanna cinema na ani..

Abhayi valladhi kadapa and Pelli lo vallu Chala Godava chesaru..
One example : bhojanalu cheyandi ani neeraja Valla dad HReddy family ni pilisthe - enti antha pogaru meeku.. Mee wife kuda vachi pilavali ani.. Asalu padhathulu thelsa meeku ani And vallu evaru bhojanam cheyaledhu kuda...
Aa roje HReddy neeraja ni vallintiki theeskelldu.. And aa roju neeraja mundhe HReddy mother n relatives neeraja family ni thittaru ... Vallaku main nachani vishayam neeraja kaaliki HReddy mettelu pettatam .. They told HReddy that" nuvvu magadivi.. Antha siggu vadhilesi aa pilla kaalu pattukuntava.. Mana family lo ledhu kadha ee acharam .. Ante aa pilla kosam mamalni vadhilesthava " ani etc etc...

And HReddy neeraja ni USA theeskelladu after marriage..
And he started beating neeraja a lot.. He used to beat her like a sadist.. Pelli lo meeru maryadhalu cheyaledhu ani cheppi..
Neeraja asked him to forgive her n her family ..

Infact nenu aa marriage ki vellanu ... Baane chesaru papam .. But vadu aa vanka petti ammayiki torture chupinchevadu but actual reasons inka vunnayi ani slow ga thelsindhi maaku...

And neeraja hall lo padukunedhi n he used to sleep in his bedroom .. He never allowed her to be his wife ...

Here are few things he said and did to neeraja -..

"Ma vadhina ki pogaru . Amma ni chuskonu ani cheppesindhi... Nenu ninnu cheskotam ki only reason nuvvu ma Amma ni chuskovali.." Ala ani cheppi devudi Meedha promise veyinchukunnaduta

"Naku --- (physical intimacy) kavali ante baita dabbu paresthe vastharu .. U r to look after my mom"

"Nuvvu job lo join ayyaka nakante Andham ga evarana kanipisthe vaditho vellipothava"

"Nuvvu job lo Join ayyaka née cards anni na dhagire vuntayi .. I will give you money for your needs"

Okasari he acted as if kallu thirigi padipoyinatu.. And neeraja got frightened and ran to apartment security for help.. But malla apartment kochi chusthe he is fine anta.. Endhukila chesavu ante "naku emana aithe née reaction ela vuntadho chudham ani " annaduta

Okasari neeraja black Saree kattukundhi when she was doing
Job in India and andharu compliment chesaruta that she is looking beautiful ani.. Same thing HReddy tho chepindhi Pelli ki mundhu phone lo..
Later USA lo okasari baitiki vellepudu kattukundhita and in the middle of the drive HReddy sudden ga intiki return theesuku vachi Saree chinigedhaka kottaduta saying "Neeku ee Saree bagundhi ani chepparante baita magadiki nuvvu Andham ga kanipinchavu and u njoyed their compliments aa ani"

HReddy roju morning 6 ki vellipoyi night 11 ki vachevaduta and door lock chesukuni vellevadu.. Intlo no Internet connection , no Phone and hardly 2,3 dollars vundevita.. He never shares his laptop with her too..

Neeraja Valla family call chesina kuda he used to put phone on speaker and happy ga vunatu matladu anevaduta..

Neeraja infact found some other girl's personal stuff in his room while cleaning but already koduthunnadu malla question chesthe inkastha kodathadu ani bhayam vesi adagaledhuta...

Paina chepindhi just examples .. Inka tortures chesevadu but Avi rayataniki chethulu ravatledhu.. Only animals can do such stuff ...

And one month went on like this and finally one day she got a chance to talk to her sister alone on phone and she told her that Her husband is beating her and Chala noppi ga vuntundhi.. Even snanam cheyataniki kuda kastam ga vundhi.. Body antha pains coz he is beating her ani..

After knowing what was happening Neeraja's dad called HReddy and shouted at him.. Endhuku koduthunvu ma ammayi ni ani..

HReddy became furious and neeraja ni malla kotti .. Née family na kaali gotiki kuda saripodhu .. Mee nanna naku lecture peekuthada ani he sent her back to India ..

Neeraja ki inka Pelli kavalsina sisters idharu vunnaru and thanaki HReddy tho vidipotam istam ledhu coz thana sister marriages ki problem avuthundhi Ani and more over neeraja dhi middle class family

HReddy ni request chesedhi often - nuvvu nannu kottanu ani promise chesthe ne vachestha USA ani
He used to say - nuvu akkade 3,4 gents ni Pelli chesukuni kaapuram cheyi ani ..

And neeraja relatives ki kuda cheppukoledhu idhantha coz chepukunte paruvu pothundhi and HReddy entha aina thana hubby and future lo athaniki vallu value ivaru ani


-- story continues later....
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[quote name='Sitara_' timestamp='1382111193' post='1304434108']
well.. I didn't mention this incident as it is crude.. once while on drive to his brothers city.. he started an argument and car side park chesi neeraja ni physical torture chesadu .. neeraja started crying.. then one traffic lady came near the car and asked what happened..

athanu neeraja ni athani Vollo padukobetti.. her family member died andhuke edusthundhi ani cheppadu...
neeraja aa moment lo nijam cheppunte vadi life close ayedhi... and neeraja waited for more than 2 years for him to take her back to him.. divorce is not in her mind ... !

2006 lo vellindhi.. one month odd vundhi... !
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[quote name='Sitara_' timestamp='1382111397' post='1304434128']
she gotto know where he resides and whether he is married / living together with smone before she can think of smthing like that !
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[quote name='Sitara_' timestamp='1382111254' post='1304434115']
middle class family n inka 2 sisters vunnaru thanaki... that's what stopped her then !
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[quote name='Sitara_' timestamp='1382111330' post='1304434120']
champesthe 5 mins pain.. aa family 7 years nunchi living that pain.. I sometimes get a doubt if god is really watching all this !
[/quote]all i can say..... is ammai should have raised concern initially......... Hreddy lanti vallu chala mandi untaru.... Anni chaduvulu chadavatam waste aa....? she gotta b strong & fight back.. legal support is always recommended... & should have called 911 when she was in USA.....
ippudu india lo nyayam jaragatam chala kastam.....