A True Story: That Burns My Heart Whenever I Remember

[samantha.]

Neeraja said - engagement okalatho Pelli okalatho idhemanna cinema na ani..

Ee line enti..ardam avaledu
Story ki vasthe...she is very sensitive and emotional..she need to say her husband to eff off and live on her own. kastame kotha place lo but you need to take a step.. you need to fight..take a stand..antha chaduvukoni em labam...cheppinantha easy kadu idi ala ani impossible kuda kadu.

[k2s]

[quote name='samantha.' timestamp='1382134416' post='1304436484']
Neeraja said - engagement okalatho Pelli okalatho idhemanna cinema na ani..

Ee line enti..ardam avaledu
Story ki vasthe...she is very sensitive and emotional..she need to say her husband to eff off and live on her own. kastame kotha place lo but you need to take a step.. you need to fight..take a stand..antha chaduvukoni em labam...cheppinantha easy kadu idi ala ani impossible kuda kadu.
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i saiden same.... but no one listening here

[samantha.]

[quote name='Scrooge' timestamp='1382134481' post='1304436486']

i saiden same.... but no one listening here
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em chestham... Papam aa ammai

[iamlegend]

[quote name='priya789' timestamp='1382128636' post='1304436078']

andharu meela alochisthe chala baguntadi... ee world ........
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aina kottadam darunam bayata gelavaleka bharya ni sadhinchatam papam

[kiraaaak]

[quote name='samantha.' timestamp='1382134416' post='1304436484']
Neeraja said - engagement okalatho Pelli okalatho idhemanna cinema na ani..

Ee line enti..ardam avaledu
Story ki vasthe...she is very sensitive and emotional..she need to say her husband to eff off and live on her own. kastame kotha place lo but you need to take a step.. you need to fight..take a stand..antha chaduvukoni em labam...cheppinantha easy kadu idi ala ani impossible kuda kadu.
[/quote]valla parents ee Pelli apestham annaru kada eme edvadam chusi .. Kani already engagement aipoindi kada ... So ippud engagement aipoindi itanitho ippud apesi vere vadini cheskovadaniki idi cinema na ani ame ardam sammu

[samantha.]

[quote name='kiraaaak' timestamp='1382134925' post='1304436509']
valla parents ee Pelli apestham annaru kada eme edvadam chusi .. Kani already engagement aipoindi kada ... So ippud engagement aipoindi itanitho ippud apesi vere vadini cheskovadaniki idi cinema na ani ame ardam sammu
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Thanks kiraak..chaala rojulaindi ninnu chusi Db lo..ela unnav?

[powerstar02]

[powerstar02]

[quote name='samantha.' timestamp='1382134416' post='1304436484']
Neeraja said - engagement okalatho Pelli okalatho idhemanna cinema na ani..

Ee line enti..ardam avaledu
Story ki vasthe...she is very sensitive and emotional..she need to say her husband to eff off and live on her own. kastame kotha place lo but you need to take a step.. you need to fight..take a stand..antha chaduvukoni em labam...cheppinantha easy kadu idi ala ani impossible kuda kadu.
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[paampachak]

Court summons icchaka 1 yr absconding unte divorce istaranta check it out

[Aadya]

[quote name='Picha lite' timestamp='1382110708' post='1304434045']
ento pichi ammayilu, vadu antha psycho l abehave chestunte chustu endkuku undi...
Picha lite tesukoni, divorce iste podadi kani.. ee mentality epudu potado manlollaki
[/quote]reason cheppindi kada....valla sisters mrg kosam ala cheyalekapotundi ani [size=4] [/size]

[quaysideGuy]

[quote name='Brad1' timestamp='1382129918' post='1304436218']
its very hard to believe some can treat others this way... eppudo oka sari.. mata viantledu ante edo kopam lo oka debba esadu ante... parledu kani mari ila ante nammetattu ledu...[b]aina ammailu kuda ivvani erojulo kuda baristunaru namma sakyanga ledu..[/b]
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adhe kadaa.. emi anaka mundhe husband meeda thappudu caselu petti blackmail chestunna ee rojullo ilantivi kuda jaruguthunnai ante unbelievable .. TV-llo vache stories lo more than 80% of them are dramas by the girls side...Nijamga aa ammai ivanni bharinchindi ante I am horrified at her plight and so for her.

[Aadya]

[quote name='Sitara_' timestamp='1382110212' post='1304433989']
This is a genuine story and I hope to find some help over here..
help as asked in the thread:

[url="http://www.andhrafriends.com/topic/452209-does-anyone/"]http://www.andhrafri...09-does-anyone/[/url]

Chala brief ga chepataniki try chesthanu.. Na colleague Valla sister dhi ee story and Valla family kuda naku baaga thelsu.... Ne ikkada cheppaboye incidents anni genuine but yes I used my own flow to connect the events occurred...

fake anukunevalu.. donn bother to read or comment over here..

Here's the story :

Ammayi Peru neeraja (fake name). Thanaki 2006 lo marriage ayindhi with HReddy (short form of his real name). Athanu USA lo work chesthadu .. Deloitte Atlanta.. (hopefully now too!)

Neeraja only girls college lo chadhivindhi all the time till PG and she never spoke to a boy closely before.. Valla parents Chala strict.. Education avagane immediate ga job vachindhi and she joined.. But ee lopu marriage bureau through HReddy match vachindhi and that's the first ever Pelli chupulu for her..

She looks very beautiful and Immediate ga match Ok ayindhi and she developed deep feelings for him as he is the first ever boy she spoke closely to, in her life ..

Engagement ki marriage ki 6 months gap adigaru abhayi vallu .. And neerajas family agreed.. And roju calls lo matladukunevallu.. But ekkuva times neeraja edchedhi after call ..
Endhuku ani adigithe chepedhi kaadhu .. HReddy promise theeskunnaduta neeraja dhagira that neeraja intlo em jarigina aa abhayiki cheppali but neeraja n HReddy madhya conversations mathram secret vunchali ani...

Neeraja family got tensed and told her.. Kavalante Pelli aapesthamu.. Y r u crying and taking so much pressure ani.. Neeraja said - engagement okalatho Pelli okalatho idhemanna cinema na ani..

Abhayi valladhi kadapa and Pelli lo vallu Chala Godava chesaru..
One example : bhojanalu cheyandi ani neeraja Valla dad HReddy family ni pilisthe - enti antha pogaru meeku.. Mee wife kuda vachi pilavali ani.. Asalu padhathulu thelsa meeku ani And vallu evaru bhojanam cheyaledhu kuda...
Aa roje HReddy neeraja ni vallintiki theeskelldu.. And aa roju neeraja mundhe HReddy mother n relatives neeraja family ni thittaru ... Vallaku main nachani vishayam neeraja kaaliki HReddy mettelu pettatam .. They told HReddy that" nuvvu magadivi.. Antha siggu vadhilesi aa pilla kaalu pattukuntava.. Mana family lo ledhu kadha ee acharam .. Ante aa pilla kosam mamalni vadhilesthava " ani etc etc...

And HReddy neeraja ni USA theeskelladu after marriage..
And he started beating neeraja a lot.. He used to beat her like a sadist.. Pelli lo meeru maryadhalu cheyaledhu ani cheppi..
Neeraja asked him to forgive her n her family ..

Infact nenu aa marriage ki vellanu ... Baane chesaru papam .. But vadu aa vanka petti ammayiki torture chupinchevadu but actual reasons inka vunnayi ani slow ga thelsindhi maaku...

And neeraja hall lo padukunedhi n he used to sleep in his bedroom .. He never allowed her to be his wife ...

Here are few things he said and did to neeraja -..

"Ma vadhina ki pogaru . Amma ni chuskonu ani cheppesindhi... Nenu ninnu cheskotam ki only reason nuvvu ma Amma ni chuskovali.." Ala ani cheppi devudi Meedha promise veyinchukunnaduta

"Naku --- (physical intimacy) kavali ante baita dabbu paresthe vastharu .. U r to look after my mom"

"Nuvvu job lo join ayyaka nakante Andham ga evarana kanipisthe vaditho vellipothava"

"Nuvvu job lo Join ayyaka née cards anni na dhagire vuntayi .. I will give you money for your needs"

Okasari he acted as if kallu thirigi padipoyinatu.. And neeraja got frightened and ran to apartment security for help.. But malla apartment kochi chusthe he is fine anta.. Endhukila chesavu ante "naku emana aithe née reaction ela vuntadho chudham ani " annaduta

Okasari neeraja black Saree kattukundhi when she was doing
Job in India and andharu compliment chesaruta that she is looking beautiful ani.. Same thing HReddy tho chepindhi Pelli ki mundhu phone lo..
Later USA lo okasari baitiki vellepudu kattukundhita and in the middle of the drive HReddy sudden ga intiki return theesuku vachi Saree chinigedhaka kottaduta saying "Neeku ee Saree bagundhi ani chepparante baita magadiki nuvvu Andham ga kanipinchavu and u njoyed their compliments aa ani"

HReddy roju morning 6 ki vellipoyi night 11 ki vachevaduta and door lock chesukuni vellevadu.. Intlo no Internet connection , no Phone and hardly 2,3 dollars vundevita.. He never shares his laptop with her too..

Neeraja Valla family call chesina kuda he used to put phone on speaker and happy ga vunatu matladu anevaduta..

Neeraja infact found some other girl's personal stuff in his room while cleaning but already koduthunnadu malla question chesthe inkastha kodathadu ani bhayam vesi adagaledhuta...

Paina chepindhi just examples .. Inka tortures chesevadu but Avi rayataniki chethulu ravatledhu.. Only animals can do such stuff ...

And one month went on like this and finally one day she got a chance to talk to her sister alone on phone and she told her that Her husband is beating her and Chala noppi ga vuntundhi.. Even snanam cheyataniki kuda kastam ga vundhi.. Body antha pains coz he is beating her ani..

After knowing what was happening Neeraja's dad called HReddy and shouted at him.. Endhuku koduthunvu ma ammayi ni ani..

HReddy became furious and neeraja ni malla kotti .. Née family na kaali gotiki kuda saripodhu .. Mee nanna naku lecture peekuthada ani he sent her back to India ..

Neeraja ki inka Pelli kavalsina sisters idharu vunnaru and thanaki HReddy tho vidipotam istam ledhu coz thana sister marriages ki problem avuthundhi Ani and more over neeraja dhi middle class family

HReddy ni request chesedhi often - nuvvu nannu kottanu ani promise chesthe ne vachestha USA ani
He used to say - nuvu akkade 3,4 gents ni Pelli chesukuni kaapuram cheyi ani ..

And neeraja relatives ki kuda cheppukoledhu idhantha coz chepukunte paruvu pothundhi and HReddy entha aina thana hubby and future lo athaniki vallu value ivaru ani


-- story continues later....
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[quaysideGuy]

[quote name='thecrazyguy' timestamp='1382129011' post='1304436131']
ee case lo ammayi meda sympathy undi abbayi meda kopam undi but ammayi is equally responsible for her situation..this is what happens when women take decisions in marriage through their emotions rather than thinking clearly..abuse chese vadiki consequences emi undav ani telisinapudu vadu enduku agutadu..pyscho gadu kabatti inka rechipoyadu..ammayi parents di tappu undi ala independent thought process lekunda penchinanduku..abbayi parents di kuda tappu undi alanti mruganni tayaruchesinanduku..finally mana justice system ala undataniki responsibile ayina mana andari tappu kuda undi..we all share the collective responsibility for the plight of this girl
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Mana justice system problem emi undi indulo? Women protection ki chala tough laws unnai India lo. Problem vachesi girls' parents greed to marry her off to a guy from the same caste (sub-castes also in brahmins) who settled down in US..Anthaku minchi emi alochincharaa? Dabbu unte saripodda??

[rakshakudu]

[quote name='paampachak' timestamp='1382138058' post='1304436593']
Court summons icchaka 1 yr absconding unte divorce istaranta check it out
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GP

[innovative]

Very sad to read this...

She should step up and fight for her own life ...
As samantha said, itz as easy as we say but not impossible.

evaro post chesaru .. inka ee kalam lo ila bharinche ammailu vunnara nammaleka pothunna ani ... vunnaru. Naa frnds lo ne vundhi ilantivi face chesthu...
Oka ammai relationship lo nunchi bayataki ravali ante chala ne alochisthadhi. mainly about family and society.