Sincere Advice To Bachelors

[Water_Bottle]

My sincere suggestion to all bachelors who are trying to get married is...don't make hasty decisions. Regardless of whether you are dating someone or arranged...make sure you spend some time knowing each other...even then there is no guarantee that personality will not change after wedding but at least you will be happy that it was both of your choices to get married not because you got to know each other from a third person

[Water_Bottle]

If it is my sister and is a major, she can legally take her decisions about her marriage. Not even parents have a right to stop her from doing what she wants. 

If my sister mentions about her marriahe plan to me, I would have assumed that she has a decision in her mind. However, our brotherly love wants to make sure that our sisters don't make wrong decisions. So, yes, I would get in touch with her boyfriend just to find out what kind of a man he is. This is however, just because of my brotherly love. 

If I find the guy is ok, then forget about caste blah blah...I would tell my sister that I will stand by her side but she is the one who needs to talk to her parents. 

There are several couples of the same caste who are divorced...who are facing family issues...etc...it depends upon the nature of the couple and how well they care about family attachment rather than caste ######... 

[Water_Bottle]

I think I would focus on whether she is the girl who I love and whether she is the one I cannot live without...my priority would be to know the girl better than whether she could have a good career and earn money etc... 

[Water_Bottle]

Please see my other post...again when the beneficiary has an advanced degree but chosen not to use it towards applying in the advance degree then that's a choice either made by the beneficiary...

Again, before the lottery the beneficiary using advance degree was NOT eligible to apply with the 65,000 applications...however with the lottery, the draw is also most likely another lottery with the 65,000 so it's a chance they could be picked up or not, it's a chance. 

[Water_Bottle]

Ok since this topic came up anyways...I have a couple of questions:

1) Certain group of people were not given equal rights if not treated as slaves in this country till very last century, so why did they fight for EQUAL rights but not for reservations? 

2) If there is a politician/party who can bring into effect strict policies of equality in education, housing, employment, etc... and against discrimination of individuals based on race religion caste color state etc etc...will all people who are enjoying privilege's give it up and bring them to power? 

[Water_Bottle]

People with wisdom has to start spreading the truth and put effort to make this happen.. It will never happen if We sit home and just comment..one generation has to sacrifice few things to acheive this.. But every one is busy looking after their own interests 

[Water_Bottle]

This is my personal opinion...

MLK said "I am not a leader by choice, if you like the principles of equality and you can lead me through achieving it, I will be your greatest follower and you will be my greatest leader"

I think people who feel themselves and their near and dear are being oppressed or were oppressed should fight for equality. 

Fighting for new reservations or with holding their current reservations are equally oppressing certain other individuals and their near and dear...then their bubble will burst some day and they will fight for reservations if not now may be 200 years later...

This will never stop if no one fights for equality...

[icecreamZ]

asalku thaggodhu...... ne 10gudu needhe

[Water_Bottle]

As Gandhiji once said "An eye for an eye makes everyone blind". 

May be it was better if there were several countries not states...probably its better to part ways than fighting amongst brothers in the same home... 

[BhaiJaan]

My sincere suggestion to all bachelors who are trying to get married is...don't make hasty decisions. Regardless of whether you are dating someone or arranged...make sure you spend some time knowing each other...even then there is no guarantee that personality will not change after wedding but at least you will be happy that it was both of your choices to get married not because you got to know each other from a third person

Ee font vaadav ante....yevatho neeku rod lagake gayi kya?

[Water_Bottle]

asalku thaggodhu...... ne 10gudu needhe

I don't think there are different varieties of equality...and Gandhiji was atleast in a way better because he tried to unite the nation to fight for independence...you may not have respect for him but the world does...anyways...wait for our next 10 generations...because when people are oppressed they will fight back again...great grand kids of individuals who are not getting reservations will fight back when they will have nothing to lose... 

[Water_Bottle]

Ee font vaadav ante....yevatho neeku rod lagake gayi kya?

Bhayya Nivu a generation lo unnavo naku thelidu..Nivu cheppina concept work avtunda? Alochinchi cheppu reservations more than 60 yrs nundi unnayi Em results techayi? Ippatki adey lolli mammalni thokkestunnaru aniinstead educate both upper and lower caste that their way of caste system is totally wrong it does not have any basis ani.. It was created by ill people so that they can rule...

let me give couple examples,
Na fnds lo manchiga chusadivi doctors ayina both upper and lower caste vallu unnaru Inka vere Manchi high positions lo unnaru.. Lower caste unna fnds parents are financially very well off still taking advantage of reservation now tell me who is going to loose for this exploitation and my Fnd doesn't give a ###### about caste at all but still reservation matram use chesukuntunnadu... Ippudu vadi pillalu kuda use chesukuntaru so evarki loss? Inka entha mandu untaro alochinchu ..once his parents are benefited they should be stripped of special benefits and should be considered as upper caste other wise his future generations will keep taking it.. 

[afdbzindabad]

My sincere suggestion to all bachelors who are trying to get married is...don't make hasty decisions. Regardless of whether you are dating someone or arranged...make sure you spend some time knowing each other...even then there is no guarantee that personality will not change after wedding but at least you will be happy that it was both of your choices to get married not because you got to know each other from a third person

areyyyy .... madyanam opt ftee annav ni8 ayyesariki eee pravachanalenti ra 

[Water_Bottle]

areyyyy .... madyanam opt ftee annav ni8 ayyesariki eee pravachanalenti ra 

People with wisdom has to start spreading the truth and put effort to make this happen.. It will never happen if We sit home and just comment..one generation has to sacrifice few things to acheive this.. But every one is busy looking after their own interests

[afdbzindabad]

People with wisdom has to start spreading the truth and put effort to make this happen.. It will never happen if We sit home and just comment..one generation has to sacrifice few things to acheive this.. But every one is busy looking after their own interests

ok alright .... alaage antava .....sare kani