Any help appreciated!

[GunturGongura]

 na reply ipdu nee situation Ki appropriate kakapochu but first post chadavgane cheppalanpinchindi cheppanu

i wish u n ur family stay happy n healthy

[JAMBALHOT_RAJA]

5 minutes ago, GunturGongura said:

Ni higher education help chesnollu .. Y controlling ur life

 

r they ur inlaws? Emadya kadu yepatnundo daughters ekuvunte leda alludni illarikam cheskodaniki first planned ga Ila oka abbay in need vallaki help chesi then daughters ichi life control chestaru 

 

man ur well educated n independent 

so get ur parents to USA and treat chey .. Treatment ippiy 

 

leda Nuvu job USA Anni vadilesi .. Go back to ur ooru n set cheyyi

nuvu dagra undi chuskovali ilantivi

 

they r ur parents.. Vallabatte nuvipdu Ila unav.. Middle Lo vachinavalanta lite except ur wife n children

take care of them .. Then became old n they need u

Thanu life lo settle avvadaniki karanam Ayina vallani lite thiskomantava. Ala chese Vadu Ayite Ikkada post cheyadu. Kruthagnatha undali. Prob Ki solution adigite kotha prob create ayyela ideas ivvaku. Just saying. 

[Kool_SRG]

for the situation dear..

Manchi rehab center chusi mee father ni tesukoni vellandi, hope he comes out as a new man...Take off from US for month or two and look after him, once koncham set ayithe you can take him to US to be with you and he can change do change in surroundings..

 

 

 

[GunturGongura]

19 minutes ago, JAMBALHOT_RAJA said:

Thanu life lo settle avvadaniki karanam Ayina vallani lite thiskomantava. Ala chese Vadu Ayite Ikkada post cheyadu. Kruthagnatha undali. Prob Ki solution adigite kotha prob create ayyela ideas ivvaku. Just saying. 

Help chesnollu parents Ni USA tiskuravaddu antunnaru ante elantivallo ardam avtundi

 

life Lo settle chesinollakosam parents Ni Duram pettadam Enti man

 

jeevitam Lo chalamandi chalarakaluga help chestaru krutagnata bhavam undali Sahayam chesi runam tirchukovali antegani parents Ni tiskuravaddu Ane range Lo controls ivdam Enti ts..., dabbu , chaduvu unte sarpodu parents Ki highest priority yepdu ivvali

 

[icecreamZ]

bhayya... great to hear that you did not give a to your environment and came across to get on to a good life .

 

 

first of all, alcoholism anedhi oka addiction aithe.....public miss behavior anedhi oka psychological issue.

addict ayithe, silent ga intlo taagi padipotharu....lekapothe money kosam chillara panulu chestharu.

ee public misconduct anedhi .....vallu conscious ga chestharu.may be alavaatu ayipoyi....realize avvaru. just like anger issues.

 

you have 2 options:

1. voluntary ga oka psychiatrist daggaraki theskellu. complete personality management treatment ippinchu.

2. forced ga kallu chethulu viragakotti....bed meedha same treatment ippunchu

 

 

mandhu rehab picha lite...1-2 months lo thaggipoyidhi addiction.

 

nenu ilanti valani na life lo chaala mandhi ni choosa...close ga study chesa.....mandhu anedhi oka saaku mathrame ....public misconduct ki. nuvu oka manchi argument tho

provoke cheyyi....they will do the same even without alcohol. if you really need your dad and peace of life you have to think and go to a great length to change his personality

 

 

[JAMBALHOT_RAJA]

30 minutes ago, GunturGongura said:

Help chesnollu parents Ni USA tiskuravaddu antunnaru ante elantivallo ardam avtundi

 

life Lo settle chesinollakosam parents Ni Duram pettadam Enti man

 

jeevitam Lo chalamandi chalarakaluga help chestaru krutagnata bhavam undali Sahayam chesi runam tirchukovali antegani parents Ni tiskuravaddu Ane range Lo controls ivdam Enti ts..., dabbu , chaduvu unte sarpodu parents Ki highest priority yepdu ivvali

 

Parents ni us Ki thiskoste athani prob solve avutunda. Antha concern Unte india Ki Velli parents ni chuskovachu Kada. Come to reality. Ikkada unna Vallu Andaru parents Ki dooram ga untunaru though they have a choice. Valla father change Ayite athani problems Anni solve avutay. Daniki Emaina solution Unte cheppu. 

[GunturGongura]

3 minutes ago, JAMBALHOT_RAJA said:

Parents ni us Ki thiskoste athani prob solve avutunda. Antha concern Unte india Ki Velli parents ni chuskovachu Kada. Come to reality. Ikkada unna Vallu Andaru parents Ki dooram ga untunaru though they have a choice. Valla father change Ayite athani problems Anni solve avutay. Daniki Emaina solution Unte cheppu. 

Ade parents Ni USA techi .. Ikda best treatment ippiste chalu.. Valla dad Ki psychiatry treatment n rehab

ikda baga deal chestaruga 

[pravinyudu]

Thank you all for your replies. My biggest problem is my inability to say NO and my soft nature.  People that helped are my In laws. Valu emantaru ante na life ma parents vala chala padayindi. Inka vala gurinchi think chesi na career ni podu chesukoku. Valani lite tesuko anaru. Plus vale na hegher education ki money sponsor chesaru. 

India velalenu iptikipudu. ikada nunche emana cheyali.

[LordOfMud]

How old is he? Take him to Bihar without his knowledge....join him in a rehabilitation center...provided if u care for his long life

[LordOfMud]

23 minutes ago, JAMBALHOT_RAJA said:

Parents ni us Ki thiskoste athani prob solve avutunda. Antha concern Unte india Ki Velli parents ni chuskovachu Kada. Come to reality. Ikkada unna Vallu Andaru parents Ki dooram ga untunaru though they have a choice. Valla father change Ayite athani problems Anni solve avutay. Daniki Emaina solution Unte cheppu. 

alcohol addiction can be solved showing lots of affection and love......guarantee 100%

[VadaGaali]

Try rehab and/or alcoholics anonymous. US lo bane sampadistuna antunaru kabati rehad lo petina, you can bare the expenses. They will take care of everything. Me ooru lo kakunda vere edina place lo rehad select chesi join him. Hope things get better for you.

[GunturGongura]

2 minutes ago, pravinyudu said:

Thank you all for your replies. My biggest problem is my inability to say NO and my soft nature.  People that helped are my In laws. Valu emantaru ante na life ma parents vala chala padayindi. Inka vala gurinchi think chesi na career ni podu chesukoku. Valani lite tesuko anaru. Plus vale na hegher education ki money sponsor chesaru. 

India velalenu iptikipudu. ikada nunche emana cheyali.

Ok see atleast me mom gurinchi alochinchu, Wat did she do.. She just had miserable life .. Inni years chala paddaru me dad toh.. Avida korika teerchu

life yepdu okelaga undadu.. Nuvu puttadam penchadam me mom chesaru.. Nee genes Anta parents vi.. Me in laws Ni obey cheyi but have ur own individuality..I feel very bad for ur situation and ur mom situation 

ur capabilities n strongness is because of ur parents and me in laws just be talent recognize chesi sponser chesaru.. Ante

ur parents just need u and get ready to do anything for them

konni families chala swardamga alochistaru.. Kuturu ibbandi padakudadu Ani ilanti matalu cheptaru.. 

 

Inka nenem cheppanu.. Don't neglect ur parents n inlaws.. Balance them 

marriage is Union of two families in India 

[ParmQ]

13 hours ago, pravinyudu said:

Mamuluga nenu bayata padanu everi degara, but parsditulu nanu ikada thread veyanchindi. Oka 15 years back start ayindi na bad luck. Dad Alcoholic. Entha alcoholic ante every day intlo severe fighting vundedi. Ma nanna scooter sound vacchina ventane naku melkuva vachi vaniki poye vadini. Every minute think chesevadini night ela vuntundo ani. Taravata Inter/Btech vere vala intiki veli chadiva. Vala help tho US vachesa Public Ivy Univ lo admission vachesariki. Manchi job lo settle ayanu. Kani ipudu ipude telustundi ma vuri vala valla, ma nanna drinking banisa ayipoyadu ani. Ma amma severe measures tesukunta ani andi edo solution lekapote na nunchi. Naku emi ardam kavatla. Last ki na marriage lo kuda drink chesi vachi andarini titeseru. Nenu serious warning ichina workout avala. Ah roju naku jeevitam meda virakti vachindi. Eh torture chosi chosi na heart stone ayipoindi. Na problems na enemies kuda rakudadu. 

Ma amma ni nanna ni US ki tesukuralenu. Tesuku vaste naku higher education help chesina valu opukoru. Adi inko peda problem avutundi. India lone emana medicine kani or rehab centers kani suggest cheyandi or other ideas. Naku telsina valaku chepte nenu lokuva ayipota. Plus valaki nenu epudu postive energy ichevadini vala badalo. 2 Years back vesa same thread help kosam. Apudu US tesuku ramani suggest chesaru. Adi workout avadu. 

Simple ga 2 lines lo - Dad severe alcoholic. Nenu daniki edo okati cheyakapote ma amma severe measures tesukuntindi. 

Please help! I found this rehab center. This is my only hope. Now my biggest challenge is how can we take him to the center.

http://www.hopetrustindia.com/?utm_source=web&utm_medium=sponsorship&utm_content=featured_ad&utm_campaign=DeAddictionCentresIN

Try one of these. B'lore lo rehab centeres unnayi ani vinnna.

 

http://deaddictioncentres.in/city/bangalore/

[ParmQ]

Read this Hindu article.

NIMHANS treats most addicts

 

http://www.thehindu.com/todays-paper/tp-national/tp-karnataka/nimhans-treats-most-addicts/article213454.ece

[pravinyudu]

17 minutes ago, GunturGongura said:

Ok see atleast me mom gurinchi alochinchu, Wat did she do.. She just had miserable life .. Inni years chala paddaru me dad toh.. Avida korika teerchu

life yepdu okelaga undadu.. Nuvu puttadam penchadam me mom chesaru.. Nee genes Anta parents vi.. Me in laws Ni obey cheyi but have ur own individuality..I feel very bad for ur situation and ur mom situation 

ur capabilities n strongness is because of ur parents and me in laws just be talent recognize chesi sponser chesaru.. Ante

ur parents just need u and get ready to do anything for them

konni families chala swardamga alochistaru.. Kuturu ibbandi padakudadu Ani ilanti matalu cheptaru.. 

 

Inka nenem cheppanu.. Don't neglect ur parents n inlaws.. Balance them 

marriage is Union of two families in India 

Thank you. Eh thread vesindi Amma Kosam. Tanaki US ravali ani ledu. Idhi fix cheyali anthe. Inlaws ki ma parents ki padadu. Adi kuda oka reason decisions twaraga tesukolekapovadaniki.