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26 minutes ago, VadaGaali said:

Try rehab and/or alcoholics anonymous. US lo bane sampadistuna antunaru kabati rehad lo petina, you can bare the expenses. They will take care of everything. Me ooru lo kakunda vere edina place lo rehad select chesi join him. Hope things get better for you. :)

Thank you. I am looking into Rehabs in Hyd. What is this alcoholic anonymous?

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45 minutes ago, pravinyudu said:

Thank you all for your replies. My biggest problem is my inability to say NO and my soft nature.  People that helped are my In laws. Valu emantaru ante na life ma parents vala chala padayindi. Inka vala gurinchi think chesi na career ni podu chesukoku. Valani lite tesuko anaru. Plus vale na hegher education ki money sponsor chesaru. 

India velalenu iptikipudu. ikada nunche emana cheyali.

its absolutely absurd that you pay attention to others above your parents..,,

that has to change first before even trying anything else

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1 hour ago, LordOfMud said:

How old is he? Take him to Bihar without his knowledge....join him in a rehabilitation center...provided if u care for his long life

He is 55. Bihar may be too far

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21 minutes ago, Imperial said:

its absolutely absurd that you pay attention to others above your parents..,,

that has to change first before even trying anything else

Yes, in normal scenarios.  What if that others sponsored you for your higher education and helped to become what you are now when your parents didn't have enough money to do that?

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6 minutes ago, pravinyudu said:

Yes, in normal scenarios.  What if that others sponsored you for your higher education and helped to become what you are now when your parents didn't have enough money to do that?

just appu tirchesey ……vaddi toh saha,….parents mida bad ga cheppevallu..parents ni dooram pettamanevallu they r really bad people.

but valla daughter ni pelli cheskuni runam tirchukunav kada man…..lekapote telsindega india lo……dowry properties ani gola untundi

 

parents first then evaraina …..ala ani couple madyaloki evarni raniyakudadu.

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Karnataka lo Gadag ani dristict lo medicine untadi ...Edi 100% results istadi I have seen some of my far relatives cured they were so addicted to alcohol now they are completely ancho free over past 10 years .. If u want I will get details

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10 minutes ago, GunturGongura said:

just appu tirchesey ……vaddi toh saha,….parents mida bad ga cheppevallu..parents ni dooram pettamanevallu they r really bad people.

but valla daughter ni pelli cheskuni runam tirchukunav kada man…..lekapote telsindega india lo……dowry properties ani gola untundi

 

parents first then evaraina …..ala ani couple madyaloki evarni raniyakudadu.

My mistake. I didn't marry their daughter. But they are close relatives. 

I tried repaying and even gave them some gifts almost equivalent to money I was provided for my education. Valu ichina money kinda matram tesukoru. Ipudu money return icheste nenu valani leka cheyanu ani valaki telusu. But lifelong gifts kavali na nunchi. Valu oka dialogue tho nanu vadukutunaru. Na life lo crucial moments lo help chesaru ani valu lekapote nenu ikada vunde vadini kadu ani. 

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1 minute ago, pravinyudu said:

My mistake. I didn't marry their daughter. But they are close relatives. 

I tried repaying and even gave them some gifts almost equivalent to money I was provided for my education. Valu ichina money kinda matram tesukoru. Ipudu money return icheste nenu valani leka cheyanu ani valaki telusu. But lifelong gifts kavali na nunchi. Valu oka dialogue tho nanu vadukutunaru. Na life lo crucial moments lo help chesaru ani valu lekapote nenu ikada vunde vadini kadu ani. 

its good that u didn't marry their daughter…sarele me mom ki istam ledu  us radam antunav..chalamandi parents alage untaru istapadaru usa radaniki…..but oppinchu me mom ni….nuvu oka 3 week leave petkuni india velli…visa panulu daggara  undi chuskuni…..iddarni tiskochesey …ikda treatment ippinchu ..

i think u r only child ankunta kada

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1 hour ago, pravinyudu said:

Thank you. I am looking into Rehabs in Hyd. What is this alcoholic anonymous?

Bhayya ... Nenu cheppina hospital ku vellu ... Akkada doctors chala exp unna valu ... 

I have worked in that hospital for 2 months as a receptionist ( parttimer in 2006 summer) .. Chala mandi same cases nenu Chusaa . 

Oka sari velli maatladu .. 4 weeks In-patient ga treat chestharu ... 

 

Asha hospital

Rd 14 banjara hills 

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Rama Subbareddy I (Dr)
Doctor
 
Address: Prasanthi Psychiatric Hospital, Devi Oil Mill Road, Suryaraopeth, Suryaraopeth, Vijayawada, Andhra Pradesh 520002, India
Phone:+91 866 243 2040
E num contact avvu man problem cheppu alrdy telisina uncle ikkade treatment tesukunnadu tagudu manesadu 
Btw dr maa cousin branches chala unnai gud luck :)

 

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baa, Nuvvu clarity maintain cheyatledhu nee prblms ki ....Chudu neeku relaltives help chesaru annav , baagane undhi - nuvvu vallaki runa padi unnav ani antunnav -idhi bagaane undhi - kaaani mee dad treatment ki ,amma ni baaga chusukovadaniki -  Nee relatives ni enduku madhyalo tesukosni vocchi  etu kaakunda alochistunnavo ardam kavatledhu...

Mee relatives ki -Mee parents ni tisukuoni ravadam istam ledhu ani antunnav? - Bhaa okkati alochinchu - idhi nee family, amma ni happy gaa chuskovalani ani anukuntnav, tappu ledhu ,USA ki process start cheyi -simple, ila cheyadam valla -me ee relatives hurt avutaru ante - India ki poi -gifts tisukelli (edo antunnav ga life long treatemtn ani ) oka 10 min kurchopteeti , ila anukuntnna - em cheyamantaru ani adugu- mee opinion kavalani ani adugu.Meeku istsam aite ne nenu proceeed avutaa anu, 

Ala oppukokaa pothe, neeko clarity vastadhi -vallu elanti vallo, dn u can decide wat to do ? Ila cheste -Nee relaatives neeku imprtance icchi natu untundhi as well repu valu kooda happy gaa feel avutaru --mamalni adige chesadu ani .

So far so positive gaa alcohincham kada - Lets do some negative anayslis here:

Nee family ni nuvvu chuskovadanni evvadu tappu pattadu - Mee relatvies help chesara kadha ani .nee life mottham rasi istava enti ? alochinchukooo ?? mee relatives families ki pillal avaraina unte, valla responsibility tiskooo---- Chinna vallau aite education sponsor cheyi ,ammayi aite pelli cheyyi .. varanaki oka call cheyi .. 

Ika vallu nee family ni USA ki tisukelloddhu adhi maaku istsam ledhu ante, there is nothing u can do if u dont want to hurt them -In contrary make reasons to get them here - Meee amma ko nannako vontlo baagaledhu(Touch wood -Not an intention ,hope all is well) ani get some reports and USA lo treate ment bagunthadhi ani cheppi process shuru cheyyi . SHATAKOTI DARIDARALAKI ANANTHA KOTI MARGAMS- Jst follow dm anthe 

 

Issue cheppinantha veasy kadhu ani telsu, but overall u wanna have a nice family and nothing beats that :)

 

 

 

 

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1 hour ago, BARFl said:

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Rama Subbareddy I (Dr)
Doctor
 
Address: Prasanthi Psychiatric Hospital, Devi Oil Mill Road, Suryaraopeth, Suryaraopeth, Vijayawada, Andhra Pradesh 520002, India
Phone:+91 866 243 2040
E num contact avvu man problem cheppu alrdy telisina uncle ikkade treatment tesukunnadu tagudu manesadu 
Btw dr maa cousin branches chala unnai gud luck :)

 

Thank you. 

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Nature cure ani vundi anta bhayya.. Ippudu naa current roommate okappudu 2 months vunnadu anta.. ninna night ee cheppadu story.. Doctors run chestharanta.. I will message you the details.. emanna use aithutundemo..

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46 minutes ago, ilakatamaflia said:

baa, Nuvvu clarity maintain cheyatledhu nee prblms ki ....Chudu neeku relaltives help chesaru annav , baagane undhi - nuvvu vallaki runa padi unnav ani antunnav -idhi bagaane undhi - kaaani mee dad treatment ki ,amma ni baaga chusukovadaniki -  Nee relatives ni enduku madhyalo tesukosni vocchi  etu kaakunda alochistunnavo ardam kavatledhu...

Mee relatives ki -Mee parents ni tisukuoni ravadam istam ledhu ani antunnav? - Bhaa okkati alochinchu - idhi nee family, amma ni happy gaa chuskovalani ani anukuntnav, tappu ledhu ,USA ki process start cheyi -simple, ila cheyadam valla -me ee relatives hurt avutaru ante - India ki poi -gifts tisukelli (edo antunnav ga life long treatemtn ani ) oka 10 min kurchopteeti , ila anukuntnna - em cheyamantaru ani adugu- mee opinion kavalani ani adugu.Meeku istsam aite ne nenu proceeed avutaa anu, 

Ala oppukokaa pothe, neeko clarity vastadhi -vallu elanti vallo, dn u can decide wat to do ? Ila cheste -Nee relaatives neeku imprtance icchi natu untundhi as well repu valu kooda happy gaa feel avutaru --mamalni adige chesadu ani .

So far so positive gaa alcohincham kada - Lets do some negative anayslis here:

Nee family ni nuvvu chuskovadanni evvadu tappu pattadu - Mee relatvies help chesara kadha ani .nee life mottham rasi istava enti ? alochinchukooo ?? mee relatives families ki pillal avaraina unte, valla responsibility tiskooo---- Chinna vallau aite education sponsor cheyi ,ammayi aite pelli cheyyi .. varanaki oka call cheyi .. 

Ika vallu nee family ni USA ki tisukelloddhu adhi maaku istsam ledhu ante, there is nothing u can do if u dont want to hurt them -In contrary make reasons to get them here - Meee amma ko nannako vontlo baagaledhu(Touch wood -Not an intention ,hope all is well) ani get some reports and USA lo treate ment bagunthadhi ani cheppi process shuru cheyyi . SHATAKOTI DARIDARALAKI ANANTHA KOTI MARGAMS- Jst follow dm anthe 

 

Issue cheppinantha veasy kadhu ani telsu, but overall u wanna have a nice family and nothing beats that :)

 

 

 

 

Thank you. Clarity vundi but bayam. Ma valani tesukuvaste ma relatives opukovatla. Wife ni kuda brain wash chesi parents gurinchi vunadi lenidi chepesaru. Daniki thodu ma nanna pelli roju drunk and created a scene. Ipudipude konchem strong ga answers iva galgutuna andariki. But sudden ga evarini cut cheyalenu. 

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