IL lo oak story chusa. Naa ex pettindha ani doubt !!!

[NityaNandhaSwamy]

On 5/13/2016 at 11:12 AM, kk_555 said:

Matter motham chadivaava bhayya akkada? Pelli ayina kothalo contact lo unde but aame husband ki motham telisaka, valla married life lo godavalu avutunnayi ani telisaka motham cut chesesa. I thought they were OK now. But looks like aame husband aame meedha revenge teesukovadaniki 'NO KIDS' antunnadu anta. Idhi entha varaku fair ? I feel bad that na valla ala life spoil ayyindhi ani.

reppuu nneeeku dorkedhi ilaney affair case  ayyitthhe eem chesthav .Neekki familly vunddi kadaraaa, gokudu peduthe nee akka, cheelli ni ** but don't fingure married laddyyy.Neekuu aakka cheelli annayya evarroo okarru vuntarru kada, history repeats same thing will hapen to your family wait for somedays .Nuvvyyu US looo vunav kavacchu inkkaa bathikee vunav ledaa nuvvvu indiaa looo vundddi vunteey nee father and ninnu champesavadu..good luck when you go to india.

[kk_555]

On ‎5‎/‎14‎/‎2016 at 7:05 PM, NityaNandhaSwamy said:

reppuu nneeeku dorkedhi ilaney affair case  ayyitthhe eem chesthav .Neekki familly vunddi kadaraaa, gokudu peduthe nee akka, cheelli ni ** but don't fingure married laddyyy.Neekuu aakka cheelli annayya evarroo okarru vuntarru kada, history repeats same thing will hapen to your family wait for somedays .Nuvvyyu US looo vunav kavacchu inkkaa bathikee vunav ledaa nuvvvu indiaa looo vundddi vunteey nee father and ninnu champesavadu..good luck when you go to india.

Maryadhaga maatlada vayya. Asalu manishivena nuvvu ? I regret the decisions that I have taken. justify cheyyadam kaadhu kaani  we always thought we would get married. But oka time taruvatha preferences maaraayi. She wanted to get married immediately and I wanted 1-2 years. Nenemi balvantham cheyyaledhu and after marriage Naadi nene contact cheyyaledhu.

[GunturGongura]

2 minutes ago, kk_555 said:

Maryadhaga maatlada vayya. Asalu manishivena nuvvu ? I regret the decisions that I have taken. justify cheyyadam kaadhu kaani  we always thought we would get married. But oka time taruvatha preferences maaraayi. She wanted to get married immediately and I wanted 1-2 years. Nenemi balvantham cheyyaledhu and after marriage Naadi nene contact cheyyaledhu.

ipdu aa ammay ni pelli cheskuntunava leda?

[GunturGongura]

On May 13, 2016 at 2:00 PM, kk_555 said:

Bhayya's nenu intake mundhu oka post vesa naa story gurinchi. Naa ex, aame husband etc etc ani. Nenu appudappudu IL follow avutha. Akka oka story chusi naa ex dhi ani doubt vastundhi. Story chusi baadha vesindhi that I might have spoiled her life ani. What should I do ? Below is the story from IL that I think my ex posted:

 

Hi,

I have a serious issue for which I need some opinions.

I have been married for 3 years(Arranged marriage). We thought of having kids after 3 years and when I raised this topic with my husband recently, he said that he is not interested in having kids with me. He says that ours is not a healthy relationship and he is in this marriage for his parents and out of sympathy for me and nothing more. He refuses to have kids and he feels it is not fair for kids when either of the parents is not inclided to do so. This is the reason for his behaviour:

I lied to my husband about my past relationship. Before marriage when the topic of affairs came, I told him that I do not have any relationships. He did not have any and has a mindset where he believes it's OK to love someone but wrong to have physical relationships before marriage. I was still in relationship with my BF when the marriage was getting fixed and did not want to get married to my current husband. But my ex-BF's parents wanted us to wait until my ex's elder brother gets married and my parents were in no mood to wait any longer(They waited for 1 year)

After marriage, my husband came to know about the affair through some other sources. There was no fight but he was upset. At that time, I did one more mistake and told him that I & my ex-BF never got physical. I told him that we just held hands and nothing else happened. But later, he found out with proof about our intimate physical relationship and found out that I was still in contact through emails, chats during our courtship period after engagement and even after marriage. Contact was through mails only. This time he was really upset and he went into depression for couple of months. But he didn't tell anyone about this. Finally, he became normal with occasional mood swings but overall life was really happy and I felt really lucky.

Before marriage itself, he said that we will plan kids 3 years after marriage. But now, he is saying that he does not want to have kids as he lost all love not just on me but on human relations and it is not healthy for a kid to have a father like him. He said I'm open to divorce him but there is no way he will have kids. He says he is married to me just for his parents sake and out of concern for me and nothing else. He says he tried really hard all these years to forget my past and did put up a fake happy face but inside he never forgot what I did to his life. He is saying that if I chose to leave him or tell this to our parents, then I should be prepared to tell the actual reason for it. He says I can do whatever I want in this marriage other than having kids.

I shared this my best friend and she is saying that my husband is taking revenge in this way. She is asking me to give him ultimatum and if he still does not listen, leave him as I have atleast some hope to re-marry and settle. But if I delay for couple of more years, I will have no options.
 

vammo  for previous comments

em manushulu man asalu ethics lekunda, aa abbay papam man

iddaru pelli cheskondi  and give life to him

[kk_555]

1 minute ago, GunturGongura said:

ipdu aa ammay ni pelli cheskuntunava leda?

Not sure what she wants. Contact cheste malli penta avudhi emo ani doubt. Chesukunna kuuda intha jarigaaka  ee emotional baggage tho happy ga untaama ani doubt. Naa ex maa common friend tho anidanta "Ippudu nenu divorce teesukoni malli vaadine(nannu ex) ni pelli chesukunte naa antha bad character evaru undaru. Andaru nannu, naa family ni blame chestaru. Divorce teesukunna ex ni maatram pelli chesukonu" anindanta.

[GunturGongura]

On May 13, 2016 at 2:12 PM, kk_555 said:

Matter motham chadivaava bhayya akkada? Pelli ayina kothalo contact lo unde but aame husband ki motham telisaka, valla married life lo godavalu avutunnayi ani telisaka motham cut chesesa. I thought they were OK now. But looks like aame husband aame meedha revenge teesukovadaniki 'NO KIDS' antunnadu anta. Idhi entha varaku fair ? I feel bad that na valla ala life spoil ayyindhi ani.

ni moham , asalu ame enduku cheskundi atanni pelli

iddaru kalsi dukandi endulonaina leda iddaru pelli cheskondi

[kk_555]

1 minute ago, GunturGongura said:

aa abbay sick ankunta, mee iddaru pelli cheskundam ankunnaru but cheskoledu  n later friends laga undipoyaru

so he should accept her and happyga life lead cheyali

identi , may be aa husband intentions veru unay emo..ne freind ki teliyandi edo undi  and atanemo me before marriage relation ni oka saaku laga petkunademo aa ammay ni vadilinchukodaniki anpistundi 

ayna mee madhya emi ledu ga just pelli cheskundam ane ankunaru but kudarledu , dantlo emundi

motham post chadivara ? Memu limits daatamu(but tana pelli ki mundhe) and marriage taruvatha emails, chats(nothing bad but emotional content) Aa chats, pics, videos proof anni vaadi daggara unnayi.

[Puchakai]

3 minutes ago, GunturGongura said:

totally unfair ,  idi kadu man reason.something vere edo undi 

nuvvena enti antala idhi aipotunnav...matlade dammu leka siggu lekunda ban lu cheypinche gajji

[GunturGongura]

1 minute ago, kk_555 said:

Not sure what she wants. Contact cheste malli penta avudhi emo ani doubt. Chesukunna kuuda intha jarigaaka  ee emotional baggage tho happy ga untaama ani doubt. Naa ex maa common friend tho anidanta "Ippudu nenu divorce teesukoni malli vaadine(nannu ex) ni pelli chesukunte naa antha bad character evaru undaru. Andaru nannu, naa family ni blame chestaru. Divorce teesukunna ex ni maatram pelli chesukonu" anindanta.

evaro emo ankodam enti, prapancham chala peddadi.once divorce ayyaka, evari istam valladi , evaro edo ankuntarani life spoil cheskuntara

mee iddarki sync avtadanapistundi, mee iddaru pelli cheskodam best . 

[GunturGongura]

6 minutes ago, kk_555 said:

motham post chadivara ? Memu limits daatamu(but tana pelli ki mundhe) and marriage taruvatha emails, chats(nothing bad but emotional content) Aa chats, pics, videos proof anni vaadi daggara unnayi.

oh thats bad man, chadivanu but e limits datadam kanpiyaledu….thats really bad man

inta attachment unapdu iddaru pelli cheskovalsindi, papam aa abbay life spoil chesindi nee ex

[Kalam_Youtheman]

On 5/13/2016 at 2:00 PM, kk_555 said:

Bhayya's nenu intake mundhu oka post vesa naa story gurinchi. Naa ex, aame husband etc etc ani. Nenu appudappudu IL follow avutha. Akka oka story chusi naa ex dhi ani doubt vastundhi. Story chusi baadha vesindhi that I might have spoiled her life ani. What should I do ? Below is the story from IL that I think my ex posted:

 

Hi,

I have a serious issue for which I need some opinions.

I have been married for 3 years(Arranged marriage). We thought of having kids after 3 years and when I raised this topic with my husband recently, he said that he is not interested in having kids with me. He says that ours is not a healthy relationship and he is in this marriage for his parents and out of sympathy for me and nothing more. He refuses to have kids and he feels it is not fair for kids when either of the parents is not inclided to do so. This is the reason for his behaviour:

I lied to my husband about my past relationship. Before marriage when the topic of affairs came, I told him that I do not have any relationships. He did not have any and has a mindset where he believes it's OK to love someone but wrong to have physical relationships before marriage. I was still in relationship with my BF when the marriage was getting fixed and did not want to get married to my current husband. But my ex-BF's parents wanted us to wait until my ex's elder brother gets married and my parents were in no mood to wait any longer(They waited for 1 year)

After marriage, my husband came to know about the affair through some other sources. There was no fight but he was upset. At that time, I did one more mistake and told him that I & my ex-BF never got physical. I told him that we just held hands and nothing else happened. But later, he found out with proof about our intimate physical relationship and found out that I was still in contact through emails, chats during our courtship period after engagement and even after marriage. Contact was through mails only. This time he was really upset and he went into depression for couple of months. But he didn't tell anyone about this. Finally, he became normal with occasional mood swings but overall life was really happy and I felt really lucky.

Before marriage itself, he said that we will plan kids 3 years after marriage. But now, he is saying that he does not want to have kids as he lost all love not just on me but on human relations and it is not healthy for a kid to have a father like him. He said I'm open to divorce him but there is no way he will have kids. He says he is married to me just for his parents sake and out of concern for me and nothing else. He says he tried really hard all these years to forget my past and did put up a fake happy face but inside he never forgot what I did to his life. He is saying that if I chose to leave him or tell this to our parents, then I should be prepared to tell the actual reason for it. He says I can do whatever I want in this marriage other than having kids.

I shared this my best friend and she is saying that my husband is taking revenge in this way. She is asking me to give him ultimatum and if he still does not listen, leave him as I have atleast some hope to re-marry and settle. But if I delay for couple of more years, I will have no options.
 

 

 

dont worry..Nee Ex story kaaadhu le... iviiii chaala common story....nuvvu okkadive kaaadhu chaala mandhii same past same current....khaali peeeli feel avvvakuuu... lite theeesko

but if you r in touch with her..slowly avoid her..neee pellam ki thelisthee appudu nuvvu IL lo post start cheyyalsi vasthundhi adhi choosi nee pellam ikkada post vesthaadhii looks like my husband posted ani..

[Kalam_Youtheman]

10 minutes ago, kk_555 said:

motham post chadivara ? Memu limits daatamu(but tana pelli ki mundhe) and marriage taruvatha emails, chats(nothing bad but emotional content) Aa chats, pics, videos proof anni vaadi daggara unnayi.

aina edhemi maaaya rogam vayyaaa meeeku...videos n all... cheskunte cheskunnaru kaaani aaa video shoooting endhii... future lo manam making plan chesaavaa online videos lo upload cheyyadam ala.. siggu unddaaali vaayyaaa ala preminchiii aaa premani video theyyadam...malli ippudu em thelvaaani vaaadilaaa behaving sesthunnnaruuu...

looks like nuvvu edho timepass gaaadivi aaame jeeevitham  tho ippudu aadaukunnavvuu...neeeku aaame oooosuuurruu thagalakundaa chooosko if possible

[GunturGongura]

4 minutes ago, Kalam_Youtheman said:

 

 

dont worry..Nee Ex story kaaadhu le... iviiii chaala common story....nuvvu okkadive kaaadhu chaala mandhii same past same current....khaali peeeli feel avvvakuuu... lite theeesko

but if you r in touch with her..slowly avoid her..neee pellam ki thelisthee appudu nuvvu IL lo post start cheyyalsi vasthundhi adhi choosi nee pellam ikkada post vesthaadhii looks like my husband posted ani..

oh ts ki pelli kuda ayinda? 

ento veellu veella lives toh patu , nammukochina valla lives spoil chestaru . 

[Puchakai]

 nuvvu chesinattu madhavan ni

[Kalam_Youtheman]

1 minute ago, GunturGongura said:

oh ts ki pelli kuda ayinda? 

ento veellu veella lives toh patu , nammukochina valla lives spoil chestaru . 

thelidhuu pelli ayyindho ledhoo... oka vela avthe athaani paristhithi chepthunna future lo