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only 1 working person tho US lo family life ela vuntundhi,, em pblms vundochu future lo

what do you suggest if other person needs to work in this present scenario?

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5 minutes ago, babai1234 said:

only 1 working person tho US lo family life ela vuntundhi,, em pblms vundochu future lo

what do you suggest if other person needs to work in this present scenario?

 

I assume you meant to say both earning vs just one earning. If that is the case, there is no answer. I have seen people living happily with just single earning, but at the same time I have also seen the kids enjoying the benefits of both parents earning. Best scenario is both earning with one of them working from home. 

Read this..

https://www.healthychildren.org/English/family-life/work-play/Pages/How-do-the-Kids-Fare-When-Both-Parents-Work.aspx

 

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57 minutes ago, babai1234 said:

only 1 working person tho US lo family life ela vuntundhi,, em pblms vundochu future lo

what do you suggest if other person needs to work in this present scenario?

No prob 

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3 scenarios bro 

1. Single income, u both need to make lot of compromises in life, if ur wife is Enjoyment type, don't expect any savings at all. I have seen 80% of our desi people very happily living in this life style with kids, before H4 EAD case. Not sure now. 

2. if both are working in different states, (Remote support Lekapothe) then forget about savings, life will be gone, and no fun at all. Monthly once kalavatam and looking for cheap flight tickets and eee sodhi antha untadhi. At the end it will not work out and u will be tired of all this crap and want to be happy by staying together. Forget about kids in this situation, its impossible to manage, unless u have inlaws came here and ur wife is very active person. 

3. Both are working at same location and you will save good money for future and life will he happy. But its all luck getting projects for both of u at the same location is purely luck. 

Inka many cases unnayyi different scenarios .....

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Choodu babai, single earner vunna life happy ga vunna vallu vunnaru. If wife cooks, take care of kids then paisal takkuvunna happy.

2 earners vundi, everyday hotel/pizza thinevallu vunnaru. Vellu, pillala day care ani, extra curricular activity ani (daniki reason iddariki time dorakka), pillalu 'AYA' ni mom anukuni day lo 16 hrs parents ni miss avutharu. migitha 8 hours parents tho vunna, papam sleeping. 

Maa aapeece lo both wife and husband panichese vallunnaru. Husbands eppudu choosina bars/soda/bayata pizzas thini pakkanodi meeda padi edusthuntaru, your wife cooks so no worries man, you are lucky gatra cheppi savadobbuthuntaru. Mari nuvvu maaney ra pani, intlo vundhi nee istam vachindhi thinu antey ...NOOOOOOOOOOO antar!!!

 

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