An American girl's tip to Indian men on social media

[akldfjalsdk]

A frequent traveler to India posted this answer to the question: "Why do Americans girls disconnect the chat immediately if I tell them that I'm an Indian? What is their perception about Indian guys?" asked a user on Quora, and got a no-holds-barred answer.

Oh, man. I really want to avoid the truth here. You have a real answer coming. Are you sure you want it? It's not comfortable for any of us. Please continue to remind yourself of one thing while reading; not everyone falls into the behaviour I'm going to address below.

If any of you care to look at my social media pages, you'll notice it's primarily Indian guys. All ages. All states. All religions. All educations. All jobs. I have very solid experience in how you behave when an American woman replies via social media. Let me give a sincere thank you to all the Indian men who have protected me, defended me and literally kicked the ass of guys harassing me. (I don't condone this, but sometimes it's all they understand.)
    
Unlike western guys, Indian guys immediately ask very personal questions. Here are some classic questions and comments from Indian guys:

Q: What are you wearing?

Q: Is your husband home?

Q: Do you get along well with your husband?

Q: Are you laying in bed?

Q: When did you lose your virginity?

These are innocent enough questions. But, to most women if the guy is Indian, she stops there. Why? Because if she answers those questions, the next series goes like this:
    
Q: Do you enjoy the sex?

Q: Can I see a photo of your face with your hair loose?

Q: I have one doubt... is masturbation bad for health?
    
Q: Can I see one photo of you in jeans?

Rarely will an American woman not block you at this point. It's very offensive to us to be asked these questions.

If we are still allowing messages, next comes:

Q: Can I see your breast? Side view and front view. Cleavage is fine for first photo.
    
(Keep in mind, no need to have responded to previous sexual type questions. You can change the subject with each reply and they still do this!)
    
It gets worse from there. Why do I put up with this offensive behaviour? Because you are better than this. All of you. So am I. So is every American woman who you think is worthless enough to engage in casual sex with you. You'll never realize your error if no one is willing to patiently teach you. I have blocked some, but 99.9% eventually get it. Over time I see their English improve, their mind open and their intelligence about culture expand. It's worth the effort. I see men who start to see me, a woman (white!) as a friend and a confidant. Not some bimbo to do wrong things with. That's worth it!
    
I have been told: "Why can't you do the sex? You're white. White women can have abortions." Do I even need to explain how wrong this is? I once asked a guy why Indian women aren't asked the same questions. I was told "because they are like pillar. Goddess. Most respect to them." As if somehow I'm lesser. Wow. It takes every ounce of love I can muster up to help these naive guys realize the errors in their thinking. Yes, I called them naive. They are clueless about women and western culture.

Guys, they block you because your countrymen have made it known that they think a white girl in jeans and a T-shirt will have "the sex" with anyone. They think you're a racist pig. Yes, they judge you and it isn't fair, is it? It sucks to be judged by a few cultural impressions of the worst behaved. It sucks to be on our end, the end that is treated like a worthless person, too.

Guys, my girlfriends tell me to make sure my Indian friends can't see them. As recently as last Saturday, a friend told me Indian guys that know me keep trying to send her wrong messages.

Please stop. You're better than this.

[akldfjalsdk]

The above article was posted in times of india.

top comment:

I think this is a correct portrayal for the average illiterate Indian.... The ones who are really well educated and have come from a cultured background wouldn't even dare to think this way. It is a misconception and maybe even a racist misconception. Many white males ask white females lots of obscene disgusting questions which I wouldn't endorse anyone to ask and not treat women this way. But white females I have seen them take those comments casually... They give it a label like "oh its flirting, or foreplaying". But as soon as a brown guy does the same thing the white guy did.. "Oh you guys are so filthy. Dirty minded. Have no civic manners." To be honest white females are more racist than any Indian will ever be.

[GunturGongura]

[akldfjalsdk]

 

Comment: That photo ... LOL. Like salivating dogs looking at a piece of chicken...

[LivingLegend]

Rofl. Racism gurinchi thellolle matladali Inka. Very funny 

[kiladi bullodu]

bongu yemi kaadu all men are same.

bring that girl to strip club she will know how much desi guys spend.

[kiladi bullodu]

51 minutes ago, akldfjalsdk said:

 

Comment: That photo ... LOL. Like salivating dogs looking at a piece of chicken...

samething if u go to strip club girls will be staring at us

[Rocky143]

1 minute ago, kiladi bullodu said:

samething if u go to strip club girls will be staring at us

[LadiesTailor]

6 minutes ago, kiladi bullodu said:

bongu yemi kaadu all men are same.

bring that girl to strip club she will know how much desi guys spend.

Lol... Inka tella porilaki msg chesi venakapade vallu vunnara.... Ippudu antha cash down carry on ee kada ??

[Neutral]

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