Hyderabad: More NRI Brides File Dowry Cases

[kiladi bullodu]

Hyderabad: More cases of dowry harassment involving NRI brides are being reported of late. Police attributes this to the lack of proper background check of grooms, and brides being unable to adjust with the cultural differences after after marriage.

According to the police, out of around 100 NRI marriages every year, at least 10 per cent are troubled. The CID issues look-out circulars against persons who are accused in dowry harassment cases, which enables them to nab the accused when he lands at any international airport.

As many as 27 LOCs were issued in Telangana till April this year. Officials from the Crime Investigation Department, who investigate NRI-related dowry harassment cases, say that in addition to demanding extra dowry, there are many others reasons leading to harassment. In most of the cases, lack of adjustment to the local situation and lack of family support act as triggers.

Parents of Indian brides accept NRI grooms without background checks on his education, job and other issues.  

“Many such grooms after marriage are found to be either jobless or have exaggerated facts to the bride’s family. A few people who are already married abroad marry a second time and take the girl to do household chores,” said and official from the CID.

For many parents, their son being abroad is an additional reason to demand more dowry. The education of the girl, caste and employment status also affect the amount of dowry demanded.

“Parents look at dowry as an option to recover  the money they have spent on their son’s education abroad. In the recent past, harassment cases have involved grooms who are highly educated,” he said.

Police says parents should not believe blindly in what the man or his family says, and should do a background check before accepting the proposal. Girls marrying NRI men also should be aware of the cultural and social differences between India and overseas, they said.

He said NRI men also face harassment when their wives fail to adapt to foreign lands and threaten them with police cases.

[alpachinao]

Yeah usa lo vundevalu money pichi ekuva 

[tom bhayya]

1 hour ago, alpachinao said:

Yeah usa lo vundevalu money pichi ekuva 

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[GunturGongura]

1 hour ago, alpachinao said:

Yeah usa lo vundevalu money pichi ekuva 

Parents look at dowry as an option to recover  the money they have spent on their son’s education abroad. In the recent past, harassment cases have involved grooms who are highly educated,”

 

idi true in some cases  and those type of parents look at their son as  investment 

[BaabuBangaram]

evade pelli chesukomannadu.....india lo nelaki 50000 sampadhinchevaadu saripora...

[kiladi bullodu]

51 minutes ago, GunturGongura said:

Parents look at dowry as an option to recover  the money they have spent on their son’s education abroad. In the recent past, harassment cases have involved grooms who are highly educated,”

 

idi true in some cases  and those type of parents look at their son as  investment 

bongu lo educartion abroad already gas stations lo nunchi kattesethunnaru

 

[GunturGongura]

57 minutes ago, kiladi bullodu said:

bongu lo educartion abroad already gas stations lo nunchi kattesethunnaru

 

aa sangati telsu …but real incident…my mother inlaw demanded cash during talks of marriage …. ma abbay chaduvuki inta ayndi ….inta icheyalli ani ma father ni asked …….actually tana masters karchu some x ayte …..eme 4x times ayndi ani cheppi demand chesindi……ma vallu ame adgina amount oppukunnaru ...engagement time ki ichesaru…..naku telsedi something fishy happpening dowry ani, but ma vallu avanni peddavalla matters…nuvu interfere avvaddu…epdu life lo aa topic yettoddu annaru…....naku e vishayalu oka 3 years varku telidu ……then telsay nemmadiga …..vallu adiginavatikanna ekuvichina sarpoledu ….asalu marriage ki ardam lekunda chesaru … chalamatuku disturbances anta inlaws create chesi padesaru from day 1 of marriage …inka kapuram anni ela sagutay …situation ila unte 

 

[Guest Kissmygudda]

Ma kcr gadi chalava

[BaabuBangaram]

4 minutes ago, GunturGongura said:

aa sangati telsu …but real incident…my mother inlaw demanded cash during talks of marriage …. ma abbay chaduvuki inta ayndi ….inta icheyalli ani ma father ni asked …….actually tana masters karchu some x ayte …..eme 4x times ayndi ani cheppi demand chesindi……ma vallu ame adgina amount oppukunnaru ...engagement time ki ichesaru…..naku telsedi something fishy happpening dowry ani, but ma vallu avanni peddavalla matters…nuvu interfere avvaddu…epdu life lo aa topic yettoddu annaru…....naku e vishayalu oka 3 years varku telidu ……then telsay nemmadiga …..vallu adiginavatikanna ekuvichina sarpoledu ….asalu marriage ki ardam lekunda chesaru … chalamatuku disturbances anta inlaws create chesi padesaru from day 1 of marriage …inka kapuram anni ela sagutay …situation ila unte 

anni ni life lone endhuku jarugithaayi

[GunturGongura]

1 minute ago, BaabuBangaram said:

anni ni life lone endhuku jarugithaayi

avanni jargaina tarvata konni years chusi chusi  chiraku vesi …then nenu dbing start chesa…..

[kiladi bullodu]

16 minutes ago, GunturGongura said:

aa sangati telsu …but real incident…my mother inlaw demanded cash during talks of marriage …. ma abbay chaduvuki inta ayndi ….inta icheyalli ani ma father ni asked …….actually tana masters karchu some x ayte …..eme 4x times ayndi ani cheppi demand chesindi……ma vallu ame adgina amount oppukunnaru ...engagement time ki ichesaru…..naku telsedi something fishy happpening dowry ani, but ma vallu avanni peddavalla matters…nuvu interfere avvaddu…epdu life lo aa topic yettoddu annaru…....naku e vishayalu oka 3 years varku telidu ……then telsay nemmadiga …..vallu adiginavatikanna ekuvichina sarpoledu ….asalu marriage ki ardam lekunda chesaru … chalamatuku disturbances anta inlaws create chesi padesaru from day 1 of marriage …inka kapuram anni ela sagutay …situation ila unte 

first mee vallu match cancell cheyyali 

pelli koduku side demand start chesinappudey valla gurinchi meeku ardham avvali .

 

[GunturGongura]

3 minutes ago, kiladi bullodu said:

first mee vallu match cancell cheyyali 

pelli koduku side demand start chesinappudey valla gurinchi meeku ardham avvali .

 

ma vallu cancel chestam annaru 1 week anaga,kastam alanti family lo ani …ma vallu baga soft and ankunnaru india lo undanu kada abbay istam ga cheskuntunnadu baga chuskuntadu ankunnaru ……...that guy bratilmadadu nannu and ma parents ni …then pellayna ventane started showing true colors…

[thanks]

yes we want this athi

[tom bhayya]

22 minutes ago, Kissmygudda said:

Ma kcr gadi chalava

idhi kuda development lo part antaava

[BaabuBangaram]

3 minutes ago, GunturGongura said:

ma vallu cancel chestam annaru 1 week anaga,kastam alanti family lo ani …ma vallu baga soft and ankunnaru india lo undanu kada abbay istam ga cheskuntunnadu baga chuskuntadu ankunnaru ……...that guy bratilmadadu nannu and ma parents ni …then pellayna ventane started showing true colors…

Mari vidakulu ichesava....