mom...gurthu vastundi.....

[Novak_Djokovic]

US vachi....almost 5+ years avtundi...

dad leru.....so mom India lo undi....her health issues chala unnai...

like fatty liver...stones in gal bladder...diabetes....low bp....inka chala side effects vastunai....

she is 55 years now... twarga US ki thisku ravali ani undi...and ikkada doctor's check-up ki thiskuni velali ani undi....

but feeling kind of home sick....and missing my mom's affection....

US lo...every day...tensions and stress perigi potundi....

like imm igration issues...eeh1b process....stam pings...GC process payments and delays...cost of living....dull job market...

India vadali ...ikkadaki vachi...edo thappu chesanu ani...anipistundi....feeling guitly....

daily phone chesi...hurry burry ga,....10-15 mins...matladadame kaani....not able to speak to her...properly....

 

money unte...month ki...10k-30k rupees per month ...xxom lo transfer cheyadame anthe....edo koncham financial help...and recent times lo adi kuda thagi poyindi...

melo evarina ila feel avtunarra ??

[Novak_Djokovic]

she is 55 years now... twarga US ki thisku ravali ani undi...and ikkada doctor's check-up ki thiskuni velali ani undi....

but feeling kind of home sick....and missing my mom's affection....

[Balibabu]

Ayitey ippudu nuvvu em chestunav ikkada? me mom teskoni ravachu kada oka 6 months ke.... inka badhaga vuntey India lo job vethukovachu kada

[Novak_Djokovic]

US lo...every day...tensions and stress perigi potundi....

like imm igration issues...eeh1b process....stam pings...GC process payments and delays...cost of living....dull job market...

India vadali ...ikkadaki vachi...edo thappu chesanu ani...anipistundi....feeling guitly....

 

melo evarina ila feel avtunarra ??

[afdbzindabad]

3 minutes ago, Novak_Djokovic said:

US vachi....almost 5+ years avtundi...

dada leru.....so mom India lo undi....her health issues chala unnai...

like fatty liver...stones in gal bladder...diebetes....low bp....inka chala side effects vastunai....

 i know u r pain bro ...veelu cheskoni india vellu ... My suggestion is  if u r still single go to india and come back after an year h1 lu eee status la gola eppudu undedee...kudaradu anukuntey bring her here .... Eee time lo vallaki kavaalasindi intlo sandadi and mana anukunna valla deggara undatame 

[Biskot]

1 minute ago, Novak_Djokovic said:

she is 55 years now... twarga US ki thisku ravali ani undi...and ikkada doctor's check-up ki thiskuni velali ani undi....

but feeling kind of home sick....and missing my mom's affection....

inka thiskaravali ani undha. endhuku late chesinau.

we dont know your position, thread asavu kanaka nenu cheptha. 

if you well settled , appudo thiskaraval si undey.  

[kakatiya]

Get your mom visiting visa first

[Novak_Djokovic]

2 minutes ago, Balibabu said:

Ayitey ippudu nuvvu em chestunav ikkada? me mom teskoni ravachu kada oka 6 months ke.... inka badhaga vuntey India lo job vethukovachu kada

yaa...planning to bring here here...in next 6 months or so...

Ikkada 6 years genuine experience pettukuni....India lo low billing IT jobs cheyadam istham ledu....\

 

moreover nenu married...ikkada chala commitments unnai...so India move anedi....not feasable plan for me .....

 

[bongu_balraj]

Either you go back and come after H1, or get your mom here ... bongulo status lu, tensions eppudu undedhi... amma kantey ekuva edhi kadhu ... first phone chesi kodhi sepu matladu you will feel better ...

[Novak_Djokovic]

2 minutes ago, afdbzindabad said:

 i know u r pain bro ...veelu cheskoni india vellu ... My suggestion is  if u r still single go to india and come back after an year h1 lu eee status la gola eppudu undedee...kudaradu anukuntey bring her here .... Eee time lo vallaki kavaalasindi intlo sandadi and mana anukunna valla deggara undatame 

yaa...bro....nenu marr ied....

thanks for your suggestion....

parents ki manam good life lead cheyadame kaavalai....vaala kalla mundu manam thiragadam kaavali....long distance lo manam unte...vaalaki mentally chala pain untundi....

[Biskot]

evari kosam oo ee jeevitham lo parugulu. appudappudu appudappudu ani pisthadhi, endhuku manollaki duram ga undadam ani.

peeki sampadhinchedhi ledhu, ikkada karchulu ala ney unai. 

happy ga KF thaguthu , lights kodthuntey  manolla tho.... aa life missing po

[na pheeling ]

[Novak_Djokovic]

Just now, Biskot said:

evari kosam oo ee jeevitham lo parugulu. appudappudu appudappudu ani pisthadhi, endhuku manollaki duram ga undadam ani.

peeki sampadhinchedhi ledhu, ikkada karchulu ala ney unai. 

happy ga KF thaguthu , lights kodthuntey  manolla tho.... aa life missing po

[na pheeling ]

yaa same feeling man...

dollar dreams....luxury life style ani vastam US ki....leaving all important things in life behind....

life mechanical ayipoindi...just 8-5 jobs anthe....

life motham...ilage undi US lo...if we observe our seniors....and fellow old desis....

 

 

[Novak_Djokovic]

4 minutes ago, bongu_balraj said:

Either you go back and come after H1, or get your mom here ... bongulo status lu, tensions eppudu undedhi... amma kantey ekuva edhi kadhu ... first phone chesi kodhi sepu matladu you will feel better ...

thanks bro....

 

yaa bro...life motham ee eh1b status maintain cheyyali ante....dum aithadi...past lo intha issues luevu...immigra tion lo...EB2 ki 10 years avtundi...i140 vachina emi cheyyalem....

[Feelingbad]

I understand your pain. Chaala problems laaga kanipisthaayi... but be balanced.. solve one by one. Be patient and proactive. You are the best person to find a solution. 

[Novak_Djokovic]

Just now, Feelingbad said:

I understand your pain. Chaala problems laaga kanipisthaayi... but be balanced.. solve one by one. Be patient and proactive. You are the best person to find a solution. 

thanks for your suggestion...

yaa...one by one...issues resolve cheyali....but still life is stressful....in every way....