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mee frnd vaala wife still Ex tho thiruguthundhaaa ?   vere states lo untunnaraa couple if so  ask them to move together..vere states lo wife working ante ilantivii common ayipoyaayee evvado okkadu thagulkuntaaadu

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As lot of people suggested if you divorce what are the pros and cons

pros: can escape from the humiliation 

cons: if you remarry,what's the quaranty that you will find a better girl.believe me brother second marriage always you have to compromise on lot many things and second wife are always difficult to manage

 

my suggestion is forget the past and do not care about your relatives what they think.

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2 hours ago, kk_555 said:

Couple of days back mandhu sitting lo 1 year back pelli ayina naa close buddy gaadu open up ayyadu.

Aadidhi arranged marriage. Vellu city lo untaru and ammayidhi vallu vella home town. A hometown lone aa ammayi perigindhi & maa friend gaani most of the relatives aa town lone untaru.

Pelli taruvatha telisindhi aa ammayi ki iddaru BF's unde and one was long term serious relationship. Second daantlo limits kuuda daatesaru ani cheppi edchesaadu. Veedi family orthodox and veedu kuuda same. No bad habits, no relationships etc and relatives circle lo baa settle ayyaru, emi blackmarks levu ani peru undhi. Somehow, ishtamo kashtamo he has come to accept the reality and digest his wife's past but now one thing is bothering him.

Vella relatives lo chaala mandhi ki veedi wife past gurinchi telusu ani veediki telsindhi. veedi wife and aa ex-BF Kalisi tirigevaru, vere state lo job chese tappudu kalisi holidays, kalisi unnaru ani vallallo rumors(Idhi fact ani veediki telusu. She accepted). Andulo kondaru relatives ante vellaki padadhu like jealousy, prestige etc.. Plus aa ammayi gaani ex-BF vella baabayi valla galli lone undedhi. They too know ani eedi gatti doubt. Plus maa odiki vaadi mardhalu meedha crush undedhi. But pelli workout kaaledhu as both family's have some issues. But aa mardhalu veedi wife college(Different dept but same batch) She too knows. Ippudu aa baabayi valla koduku & his wife, ee mardalu & her husband vella city or daggarlo undedhi. They keep insisting to meet him anta.

Ippudu, maa vaadu asal valla hometown ki velladaniki or aa relatives ni kalavadaniki ishta padatledhu. He thinks everyone will laugh at his back, think of him as bakra. Inka relatives pina kopam penchukunnadu that telisi kuuda kavalane ee sambandham antakattarani.

Veedini ee thoughts nunchi bayataki techedhi ela. One side, vaadi wife past & physical relationship truth(Pics dorikayanta maa vadiki), inko side ee relatives/prestige gola, inko end ivanni mingesi, lopala unchukoni parents ki cheppakunda bayatiki happy la act chesi suffer aye gola. He is dying from inside bhayya.

Veedu one of my best buddy from college. I really want to help him in some way or other. How ?

idem buddi man..prathi okadu pics tiskovadam..malla dani locker lo gold lekka daachi pettukovadam.avi dorkadam..

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@3$% velee nee friend mindset n personality marchu inka 18th century lo ne vunnadu, vadi happiness kanna paruvu prathista anta bongu kadu asal relatives padakapothe inka enduku mind chesthunaru valakee thelisthe entha theliyakpothe entha

 

ammai epudu baga vunte continue lekapothe divorce iche padadobamanu vadu happy ga vuntadu............ento marriage kavalee pelli fail divorce teeskunte edho peda deal ayee natu 

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12 minutes ago, ronitreddy said:

idem buddi man..prathi okadu pics tiskovadam..malla dani locker lo gold lekka daachi pettukovadam.avi dorkadam..

kya uncle correct pt catch cheyavu asal antha chese dariyam vunte velee pelli chesukovachu ga antha kama pisachilu relationship ante joke ayeepoindhi _%~

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4 minutes ago, aragorn said:

@3$% velee nee friend mindset n personality marchu inka 18th century lo ne vunnadu, vadi happiness kanna paruvu prathista anta bongu kadu asal relatives padakapothe inka enduku mind chesthunaru valakee thelisthe entha theliyakpothe entha

 

ammai epudu baga vunte continue lekapothe divorce iche padadobamanu vadu happy ga vuntadu............ento marriage kavalee pelli fail divorce teeskunte edho peda deal ayee natu 

the real problem is this .... @3$% .. 

 

2 hours ago, kk_555 said:

Couple of days back mandhu sitting lo 1 year back pelli ayina naa close buddy gaadu open up ayyadu.

Aadidhi arranged marriage. Vellu city lo untaru and ammayidhi vallu vella home town. A hometown lone aa ammayi perigindhi & maa friend gaani most of the relatives aa town lone untaru.

Pelli taruvatha telisindhi aa ammayi ki iddaru BF's unde and one was long term serious relationship. Second daantlo limits kuuda daatesaru ani cheppi edchesaadu. Veedi family orthodox and veedu kuuda same. No bad habits, no relationships etc and relatives circle lo baa settle ayyaru, emi blackmarks levu ani peru undhi. Somehow, ishtamo kashtamo he has come to accept the reality and digest his wife's past but now one thing is bothering him.

Vella relatives lo chaala mandhi ki veedi wife past gurinchi telusu ani veediki telsindhi. veedi wife and aa ex-BF Kalisi tirigevaru, vere state lo job chese tappudu kalisi holidays, kalisi unnaru ani vallallo rumors(Idhi fact ani veediki telusu. She accepted). Andulo kondaru relatives ante vellaki padadhu like jealousy, prestige etc.. Plus aa ammayi gaani ex-BF vella baabayi valla galli lone undedhi. They too know ani eedi gatti doubt. Plus maa odiki vaadi mardhalu meedha crush undedhi. But pelli workout kaaledhu as both family's have some issues. But aa mardhalu veedi wife college(Different dept but same batch) She too knows. Ippudu aa baabayi valla koduku & his wife, ee mardalu & her husband vella city or daggarlo undedhi. They keep insisting to meet him anta.

Ippudu, maa vaadu asal valla hometown ki velladaniki or aa relatives ni kalavadaniki ishta padatledhu. He thinks everyone will laugh at his back, think of him as bakra. Inka relatives pina kopam penchukunnadu that telisi kuuda kavalane ee sambandham antakattarani.

Veedini ee thoughts nunchi bayataki techedhi ela. One side, vaadi wife past & physical relationship truth(Pics dorikayanta maa vadiki), inko side ee relatives/prestige gola, inko end ivanni mingesi, lopala unchukoni parents ki cheppakunda bayatiki happy la act chesi suffer aye gola. He is dying from inside bhayya.

Veedu one of my best buddy from college. I really want to help him in some way or other. How ?

 

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2 minutes ago, BUDDY said:

the real problem is this .... @3$% .. 

 

 

ento cig n alcohol bad habits antaru ento, alcoholic aithe bad habit just social drink cheyachu ento inka india reverse gear lo velthundhi ento 

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Divorce ani selavichina mahanubavulaki ive na joharlu.............

Baa divorce gani teesukunte nee friend gadi  brathuku koora lo karivepake.........avanni lite...........time will heal everything .......inkoka 5 years lo andaru marichipotaru lite ani cheppu nee friend lo

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5 minutes ago, aragorn said:

ento cig n alcohol bad habits antaru ento, alcoholic aithe bad habit just social drink cheyachu ento inka india reverse gear lo velthundhi ento 

ento entoo.

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