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Maa friend gaani unique situation. Please HELP


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5 hours ago, kk_555 said:

Couple of days back mandhu sitting lo 1 year back pelli ayina naa close buddy gaadu open up ayyadu.

Aadidhi arranged marriage. Vellu city lo untaru and ammayidhi vallu vella home town. A hometown lone aa ammayi perigindhi & maa friend gaani most of the relatives aa town lone untaru.

Pelli taruvatha telisindhi aa ammayi ki iddaru BF's unde and one was long term serious relationship. Second daantlo limits kuuda daatesaru ani cheppi edchesaadu. Veedi family orthodox and veedu kuuda same. No bad habits, no relationships etc and relatives circle lo baa settle ayyaru, emi blackmarks levu ani peru undhi. Somehow, ishtamo kashtamo he has come to accept the reality and digest his wife's past but now one thing is bothering him.

Vella relatives lo chaala mandhi ki veedi wife past gurinchi telusu ani veediki telsindhi. veedi wife and aa ex-BF Kalisi tirigevaru, vere state lo job chese tappudu kalisi holidays, kalisi unnaru ani vallallo rumors(Idhi fact ani veediki telusu. She accepted). Andulo kondaru relatives ante vellaki padadhu like jealousy, prestige etc.. Plus aa ammayi gaani ex-BF vella baabayi valla galli lone undedhi. They too know ani eedi gatti doubt. Plus maa odiki vaadi mardhalu meedha crush undedhi. But pelli workout kaaledhu as both family's have some issues. But aa mardhalu veedi wife college(Different dept but same batch) She too knows. Ippudu aa baabayi valla koduku & his wife, ee mardalu & her husband vella city or daggarlo undedhi. They keep insisting to meet him anta.

Ippudu, maa vaadu asal valla hometown ki velladaniki or aa relatives ni kalavadaniki ishta padatledhu. He thinks everyone will laugh at his back, think of him as bakra. Inka relatives pina kopam penchukunnadu that telisi kuuda kavalane ee sambandham antakattarani.

Veedini ee thoughts nunchi bayataki techedhi ela. One side, vaadi wife past & physical relationship truth(Pics dorikayanta maa vadiki), inko side ee relatives/prestige gola, inko end ivanni mingesi, lopala unchukoni parents ki cheppakunda bayatiki happy la act chesi suffer aye gola. He is dying from inside bhayya.

Veedu one of my best buddy from college. I really want to help him in some way or other. How ?

mee odiki istam ochindi cheyyamanu man 

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46 minutes ago, tennisluvr said:

Yeah true in that case best for him to get a divroce. In a way the girl also deserves it because she lied to him and whatever his expectations may be she should have told the full story from her side and let him decide then. 

Ayina these days divorced whether girl or a guy isn't a big deal man. Plenty of people I know married divorced people so it's not a big issue to be honest. Looking for compatibility is much more important. 

So you presume that girls talk openly about their past rships to their would-be before their marriage?

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Just now, k2s said:

mee odiki istam ochindi cheyyamanu man 

Yes, thokkalodi he is not kid to take anyone's suggestion. Baaalls unte intlo valatho discuss chesi fight cheso vadki nachindi cheyamanu, either divorce or kalsi undatam. Nv suggestion ichi tharvatha vadu divorce tiskonte, next aa ammayi emaina cheskonte nv responsibility  tiskontava. Entha close friend aina calm ga anni muskoni kurchovali, vadi mind marchaku kavalante make him happy by involving him in some activities or something. chala pedda decision, anavsram ga velu petti smell chudaku. Finally, Life is way too short to think abt some others at the expense of your happiness. Life is a bad ass, just fcuk that biaaatch...

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2 minutes ago, busstand_bathku said:

Yes, thokkalodi he is not kid to take anyone's suggestion. Baaalls unte intlo valatho discuss chesi fight cheso vadki nachindi cheyamanu, either divorce or kalsi undatam. Nv suggestion ichi tharvatha vadu divorce tiskonte, next aa ammayi emaina cheskonte nv responsibility  tiskontava. Entha close friend aina calm ga anni muskoni kurchovali, vadi mind marchaku kavalante make him happy by involving him in some activities or something. chala pedda decision, anavsram ga velu petti smell chudaku. Finally, Life is way too short to think abt some others at the expense of your happiness. Life is a bad ass, just fcuk that biaaatch...

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