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boss , mee vaniki koddiga digest chesukovatam kastam ga undi.  US lo dating 3-4 yrs chesi inkokani pelli chesukuntaru. picha lite , ippudu mee vadini happy ga unchithe cool.  better to stay with her. otherwise life goes to assam . 

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1 hour ago, busstand_bathku said:

Yes, thokkalodi he is not kid to take anyone's suggestion. Baaalls unte intlo valatho discuss chesi fight cheso vadki nachindi cheyamanu, either divorce or kalsi undatam. Nv suggestion ichi tharvatha vadu divorce tiskonte, next aa ammayi emaina cheskonte nv responsibility  tiskontava. Entha close friend aina calm ga anni muskoni kurchovali, vadi mind marchaku kavalante make him happy by involving him in some activities or something. chala pedda decision, anavsram ga velu petti smell chudaku. Finally, Life is way too short to think abt some others at the expense of your happiness. Life is a bad ass, just fcuk that biaaatch...

good job baa

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problem relatives kadu anukunta ..antha me frnd mindset lo undi ..anni situations nachinatte vaste life enduku avutundi adi ..he has to deal with it!

pelli antene forever undali ..extreme stituations exception..

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3 minutes ago, Diana said:

problem relatives kadu anukunta ..antha me frnd mindset lo undi ..anni situations nachinatte vaste life enduku avutundi adi ..he has to deal with it!

pelli antene forever undali ..extreme stituations exception..

Lol akada ddlj movie LA varusuga 4 years shows padayi ante abbayi mindset prob aa?

 

Koncham time patachu adjust avaniki

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6 minutes ago, nandananditha said:

Lol akada ddlj movie LA varusuga 4 years shows padayi ante abbayi mindset prob aa?

 

Koncham time patachu adjust avaniki

ante?

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8 hours ago, kk_555 said:

Couple of days back mandhu sitting lo 1 year back pelli ayina naa close buddy gaadu open up ayyadu.

Aadidhi arranged marriage. Vellu city lo untaru and ammayidhi vallu vella home town. A hometown lone aa ammayi perigindhi & maa friend gaani most of the relatives aa town lone untaru.

Pelli taruvatha telisindhi aa ammayi ki iddaru BF's unde and one was long term serious relationship. Second daantlo limits kuuda daatesaru ani cheppi edchesaadu. Veedi family orthodox and veedu kuuda same. No bad habits, no relationships etc and relatives circle lo baa settle ayyaru, emi blackmarks levu ani peru undhi. Somehow, ishtamo kashtamo he has come to accept the reality and digest his wife's past but now one thing is bothering him.

Vella relatives lo chaala mandhi ki veedi wife past gurinchi telusu ani veediki telsindhi. veedi wife and aa ex-BF Kalisi tirigevaru, vere state lo job chese tappudu kalisi holidays, kalisi unnaru ani vallallo rumors(Idhi fact ani veediki telusu. She accepted). Andulo kondaru relatives ante vellaki padadhu like jealousy, prestige etc.. Plus aa ammayi gaani ex-BF vella baabayi valla galli lone undedhi. They too know ani eedi gatti doubt. Plus maa odiki vaadi mardhalu meedha crush undedhi. But pelli workout kaaledhu as both family's have some issues. But aa mardhalu veedi wife college(Different dept but same batch) She too knows. Ippudu aa baabayi valla koduku & his wife, ee mardalu & her husband vella city or daggarlo undedhi. They keep insisting to meet him anta.

Ippudu, maa vaadu asal valla hometown ki velladaniki or aa relatives ni kalavadaniki ishta padatledhu. He thinks everyone will laugh at his back, think of him as bakra. Inka relatives pina kopam penchukunnadu that telisi kuuda kavalane ee sambandham antakattarani.

Veedini ee thoughts nunchi bayataki techedhi ela. One side, vaadi wife past & physical relationship truth(Pics dorikayanta maa vadiki), inko side ee relatives/prestige gola, inko end ivanni mingesi, lopala unchukoni parents ki cheppakunda bayatiki happy la act chesi suffer aye gola. He is dying from inside bhayya.

Veedu one of my best buddy from college. I really want to help him in some way or other. How ?

 

mee odi situation lo...ipudu divorce ichi inka racha cheskukovatam waste...

ammai marriage aaiyaka ela untundi?? if she is changing give her a chance and move on... once they have kids they will forget everything...

wife inka extralu chesutunte.. better to cut it here even before going to kids..

Relatives-- pich li8...ivala mee odi topic.. repu inko topic..ipudu mee odu divorce ichina mee odide tappu antaru.. apudu em chestaru.. so pakka valla gurinchi kakunda.. first mee odini personal life ela undo chuskomanu..

 

edo maradalu crush antunav kada.. ame ee gap lo inkokadini goki.. nuvvu matram divorce ee ga.. nenu gokite tapu vachinda ante em chestadu chepu mee odu..

 

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5 hours ago, tennisluvr said:

Mee friend ki emotional maturity ledu. Marriage ki mundu relationship undatamu tappani evaru chepparu. Is he still living in 16th century AD? Relationship annaka appudappudu physical avvachu that's very common and also acceptable. Mee vaadiki vishayam leka evvaru ammayi padakapothey leka mee vaadu adedo tappu annattu bellam kottina raayi la koorchunnantha maatranna ammayi kooda ala undalani rule emi ledu. 

Ask him to focus on the person that she is now, and her past relationships have got nothing to do with it unless she still hangs on to them. as far as relatives are concerned picchi picchi ga matladithey poyi rendu peekamanu moosukuni paduntaru. Or just cut off such regressive mofos from his circle problem solved. Anthe kaani parvu, pratishtha ani non existent things meeda focus chesthey he will end up unhappy and make the girl unhappy as well. Might even commit suicide if he is so depressed. Divorce cheyyamani cheppinollantha ikkada 16th century thinking tho bratukutunnolle

nee lanti broad minded fellows rare ba... your wife is lucky..

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Mee friend ni kuda oka 2,3 ammayilatho tirigi chex cheyamanu wife ki telisela, appudu mee vaadi ego kuda happy kada nenu kuda pathith kaadu ani,appudu wife reaction ela undo chusi move on anthe,

just my 2 cents.

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14 hours ago, DaleSteyn1 said:

mee oodiki e sambandham settle chesina pedha manishi ni pattukelli naalugu uthakandi

car ammetapudu evadu sottalu unai ani cheppi ammadu.......ithanu kakunte inkokadu cheskunevadu........pelli..........apudu vala friend ochi db lo vesey vadu  Brahmi-8.gif

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