newwlife Posted July 7, 2016 Report Share Posted July 7, 2016 Hello guys, This is my 1st post , in fact I created the account to post this. I've known this forum for a long time so straight to the point , i'm married for 8 months now & we decided to have a child after 2,3 yrs but you know ..unplanned things happen all the time...came to know my wife is pregnant so we've to deal with it no matter what we planned earlier....so just want to know how things will turn in life or what to expect from it...............bottom line is I just want to convince/console myself from ur replies that its Ok to have kids early.....Thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BaabuBangaram Posted July 7, 2016 Popular Post Report Share Posted July 7, 2016 kids vunte life enjoy cheyochhu 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LivingLegend Posted July 7, 2016 Report Share Posted July 7, 2016 inka Nee Pani ayipoyindi po. Ninnu aa devude kapadali 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newwlife Posted July 7, 2016 Author Report Share Posted July 7, 2016 2 minutes ago, BaabuBangaram said: kids vunte life enjoy cheyochhu Ok thanks...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psycopk Posted July 7, 2016 Report Share Posted July 7, 2016 5 minutes ago, newwlife said: Hello guys, This is my 1st post , in fact I created the account to post this. I've known this forum for a long time so straight to the point , i'm married for 8 months now & we decided to have a child after 2,3 yrs but you know ..unplanned things happen all the time...came to know my wife is pregnant so we've to deal with it no matter what we planned earlier....so just want to know how things will turn in life or what to expect from it...............bottom line is I just want to convince/console myself from ur replies that its Ok to have kids early.....Thanks there is nothing to be worried about... things you need to be plan 1)Have 10k cash readily available.. 2)parents /inlaws ki visa tepinchu ... tickets konu .. 3)office lo manager ki 5-6th moths appudu reveal cheyi... expecting ani.. 4)intlo koncham help cheyi.. doc appoints ani regular ga set chesko.. evaru aaina US Lo married with kids unna vallatho koncham touch lo undi emana questions unte mohamatam padakunda adugu.. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bairagi From Bapatla Posted July 7, 2016 Report Share Posted July 7, 2016 Flow lo follow avvatame em cheyalev nidananga every month baby stuff konuko anni okesari konalante burden ayyidi manchi insurance undela chusuko so that nee pocket nunchi takkuva kattachu. Inka settle avvaledu and dabbulu tensions unnai career consistency ledu anukunte aborsion cheyinchukondi (idhi worst case option)... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BommaliNinnodhala Posted July 7, 2016 Report Share Posted July 7, 2016 6 minutes ago, newwlife said: Hello guys, This is my 1st post , in fact I created the account to post this. I've known this forum for a long time so straight to the point , i'm married for 8 months now & we decided to have a child after 2,3 yrs but you know ..unplanned things happen all the time...came to know my wife is pregnant so we've to deal with it no matter what we planned earlier....so just want to know how things will turn in life or what to expect from it...............bottom line is I just want to convince/console myself from ur replies that its Ok to have kids early.....Thanks chill....all happies...ee going fwd..nothing to worry..just have good insurance coverage and good ob/gyn and hospital....money oka 5k petuko balance always Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psycopk Posted July 7, 2016 Report Share Posted July 7, 2016 1 minute ago, Bairagi From Bapatla said: Flow lo follow avvatame em cheyalev nidananga every month baby stuff konuko anni okesari konalante burden ayyidi manchi insurance undela chusuko so that nee pocket nunchi takkuva kattachu. Inka settle avvaledu and dabbulu tensions unnai career consistency ledu anukunte aborsion cheyinchukondi (idhi worst case option)... settlement eppatiki radu... take things as they come... perlu reveal cheyakudadu kabati chepatam ledu... mana forum lo iddariki first2-3months lone kid ani telisindi.. and they went for it and they are happy with their decision.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khan_Dada_ Posted July 7, 2016 Report Share Posted July 7, 2016 1 minute ago, Bairagi From Bapatla said: Flow lo follow avvatame em cheyalev nidananga every month baby stuff konuko anni okesari konalante burden ayyidi manchi insurance undela chusuko so that nee pocket nunchi takkuva kattachu. Inka settle avvaledu and dabbulu tensions unnai career consistency ledu anukunte aborsion cheyinchukondi (idhi worst case option)... endhi man nee suggestions. Abortion enduku.. pregnancy anedhi oka gift from God. enni situations unna, you should go with it.. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gunturodu1 Posted July 7, 2016 Report Share Posted July 7, 2016 Ala pannings ani 2 -3 years wait chesina, tarvatha kids leka chala mandhi badha pade vallani chusa.. Kids valla mana life lo complete change vasthundhi , You will see a different prespective about life and will become more serious about your goals. Pleasant ga aithey - oka 3 years trips/weeekend outings/ campings lantivi vellalem.. Congrats and All the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prabhas_Fan Posted July 7, 2016 Report Share Posted July 7, 2016 boy or girl puttaka ye peru pettalo kuda ippati nunche start chey...my 2 cents Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balibabu Posted July 7, 2016 Report Share Posted July 7, 2016 Don't go for abortion...deeni valla future lo impact ayey chances vuntayi like you may not get baby in future...ma relatives lo okariki ilagey ayyindi but ippudu vallu chaala badhapadutunaru....entha money karchu pettina enni doctors ne consult chesina vallaki pillalu kavatam ledu mothaniki valu family full depression ke veltaru verey valla kids birthday ke pilustey ippudu kastamina nastamaina kanesi malli 2nd ke plan chestaru anukuntey after 4 yrs plan cheskondi mee life ke kuda easy avutadi caring teskovatam lo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bairagi From Bapatla Posted July 7, 2016 Report Share Posted July 7, 2016 Just now, psycopk said: settlement eppatiki radu... take things as they come... perlu reveal cheyakudadu kabati chepatam ledu... mana forum lo iddariki first2-3months lone kid ani telisindi.. and they went for it and they are happy with their decision.. Yeah i agree especially us lo settlement undadhu... But andharu dare ga step thesukoleru andhuke worst case anna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rao_Garu Posted July 7, 2016 Report Share Posted July 7, 2016 be prepared for the future...em kaadu adoka different experience....but freedom undadu iga neek edi kaavalante adi cheyalev but life will be good Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
posanikrishnamurali Posted July 7, 2016 Report Share Posted July 7, 2016 11 minutes ago, newwlife said: Hello guys, This is my 1st post , in fact I created the account to post this. I've known this forum for a long time so straight to the point , i'm married for 8 months now & we decided to have a child after 2,3 yrs but you know ..unplanned things happen all the time...came to know my wife is pregnant so we've to deal with it no matter what we planned earlier....so just want to know how things will turn in life or what to expect from it...............bottom line is I just want to convince/console myself from ur replies that its Ok to have kids early.....Thanks you can be a happy man for your kid. Did you save monnnney, >30K if not go to india. family kids is tough if you don't have money Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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