Married uncles & Aunties - advise

[Pichekkistha]

I have 3 year old boy. Is sibling needed for him ? Too many people advising for 2nd baby. 

Generation has changed a lot. Who plays with siblings these days? only ipads and phones. After 7-8 they are needing need privacy. !st kid was a lot of stress for both of us. I can't imagine to go through that crap again. 

More over, i hate kids. especially while weeping and doing tantrum.s Sorry, i know its rude but i am what i am... 

[Pichekkistha]

anni kids kosamey chesthey ela... ? mana life kuda important ey kada... 

[KathiRamdaas]

antha hate chesetodivi...enduku kannav? society kosam bathiketodivi nuvv....atuvanti appudu backpages tho saripettukunte ayipoyedi pelli kooda avasaram la....I pity your wife

[LivingLegend]

3 minutes ago, KathiRamdaas said:

antha hate chesetodivi...enduku kannav? society kosam bathiketodivi nuvv....atuvanti appudu backpages tho saripettukunte ayipoyedi pelli kooda avasaram la....I pity your wife

Sabhash Akkada valla wife side version telikunda conclusion ichesav ga. We need that athi anthe 

[Simple123]

13 minutes ago, Pichekkistha said:

I have 3 year old boy. Is sibling needed for him ? Too many people advising for 2nd baby. 

Generation has changed a lot. Who plays with siblings these days? only ipads and phones. After 7-8 they are needing need privacy. !st kid was a lot of stress for both of us. I can't imagine to go through that crap again. 

More over, i hate kids. especially while weeping and doing tantrum.s Sorry, i know its rude but i am what i am... 

don't plan for 2nd one re.  Be happy with one kid.   Enjoy life. 

[JANASENA]

ikkada DB lo janalu 2nd baby kanamantey kantava ? 

ledu vaddu antey manesthava ?

idi DB lo valla tho discuss cheyyalsina vishyam kaadu nee wife tho discuss cheyyalsina vishayam.  My Opinion 2nd baby is a must. okadey aithey vadiki bore kottesthundi. 

[KathiRamdaas]

4 minutes ago, LivingLegend said:

Sabhash Akkada valla wife side version telikunda conclusion ichesav ga. We need that athi anthe 

abbo ochindandi justice ramasundaram.....I said I pity his wife for having typical husband mindset but I did not pity her for the way she is...nen jaali padutundi vaala 3 year old son gurinchi...vaadini istam lekunda enduk kanadam...kanna tarvaata enduk kanna anukovadam...

[Pichekkistha]

21 minutes ago, KathiRamdaas said:

antha hate chesetodivi...enduku kannav? society kosam bathiketodivi nuvv....atuvanti appudu backpages tho saripettukunte ayipoyedi pelli kooda avasaram la....I pity your wife

baaga excite avuthunnav.... konchem thattuko.... nenu adigindhi enti nuvvu cheppedhi enti.. ? 1st vaadini kaney daaka evvariki artham kaadu what kids will bring for you ani... 

 

 

 

[Pichekkistha]

16 minutes ago, JANASENA said:

ikkada DB lo janalu 2nd baby kanamantey kantava ? 

ledu vaddu antey manesthava ?

idi DB lo valla tho discuss cheyyalsina vishyam kaadu nee wife tho discuss cheyyalsina vishayam.  My Opinion 2nd baby is a must. okadey aithey vadiki bore kottesthundi. 

relax uncle... already anni ayyaayi.... married uncles with 1 kid (older) experiences ela vunnayo adugudhaam ani theddu vesaa... 

[redwings]

Just now, Pichekkistha said:

baaga excite avuthunnav.... konchem thattuko.... nenu adigindhi enti nuvvu cheppedhi enti.. ? 1st vaadini kaney daaka evvariki artham kaadu what kids will bring for you ani... 

 

 

 

COOL BOSSU.............nuvve decide chesuko man..........

[Pichekkistha]

12 minutes ago, KathiRamdaas said:

abbo ochindandi justice ramasundaram.....I said I pity his wife for having typical husband mindset but I did not pity her for the way she is...nen jaali padutundi vaala 3 year old son gurinchi...vaadini istam lekunda enduk kanadam...kanna tarvaata enduk kanna anukovadam...

Nenu maa vaadini ela choosukuntunnano neeku thelusaa...? nuvvey oka conclusion ki vachi, nuvvey questions adigesi, nuvvey judge chesesthey ela ...? 

[Pichekkistha]

21 minutes ago, Simple123 said:

don't plan for 2nd one re.  Be happy with one kid.   Enjoy life. 

thanks uncle. How many you have ?

[ontariontari]

I am not married but as per my cousins experience 2-4 years gap between siblings is perfect.

I can't say whether you need one more kid or not, totally personal choice 

[Pichekkistha]

1 minute ago, ontariontari said:

I am not married but as per my cousins experience 2-4 years gap between siblings is perfect.

I can't say whether you need one more kid or not, totally personal choice 

Its not about what i need man.... Do THEY need. That is the question 

[Spartan]

repodduna..when they are in their 30's or so...iddaru parents lekapote..

they need some one blood related person whom they can share their happiness or sorrows. Siblings anduke kavali.. they should not feel they are Lonely..

we never know whom they will end up with and share future with..some may have a good understanding partner but still cannot beat the closeness of blood-relation..