Gee pillani pendli seskovocha? Genuine opinion cheppurri bhayya mee banchan..

[kiran000]

4 hours ago, nenesuperni said:

yeah time tho thelusthundi. at the same time , if u dont say. she may not realize her mistake. prathi ulfa baby bangaru antunte, encourage cheyadhu ani chepu. kakapothe melaga chepu ardam ayela.  and also chepu , nuv feel ayav ani apatla unda lekapothunav ani. bayata pathivrathalu rare , so think before u do anything

Yeah bro...

[nenesuperni]

4 minutes ago, VizagRocks said:

'mellaga' cheppalsina avasaram enti? aa ammayi emanna chinna pilla na? normal ga ney cheppachu.

ey vishayam ayna there is a way to say , so that opposite person understands the issue instead of emotions. sariga chepaledu anuko, na messages chusav ah ani egirnattu, matter biscuit avudi

[BongaralaLingaraju]

26 minutes ago, kiran000 said:

Thanks Bhaiyya..

nuvvu ilage vere vallatho close ga unte aa ammai eppudaina objection cheppinda vayya?? cheppaka pothe inka tha na behaviour anthe anukovali / lekapothe ne meeda antha serious opinion ledanukovali.. test chey...

[kiran000]

1 minute ago, BongaralaLingaraju said:

nuvvu ilage vere vallatho close ga unte aa ammai eppudaina objection cheppinda vayya?? cheppaka pothe inka tha na behaviour anthe anukovali / lekapothe ne meeda antha serious opinion ledanukovali.. test chey...

okka saari kuda cheppale bhayya..

Andulo aithe question ee ledu - nenu club laki poyyina, taagi tirigi ochina, eppudu nannu restrict cheyyale - but again, nenu eppudu vere valla toh close ga lenu eeme enter ainappati nunchi, may be u r right - appudu ela untado telidu so far.

[nenesuperni]

6 minutes ago, kiran000 said:

Yeah bro...cheppina chaala neat ga cheppina that nuvvu neeku telukunda ninnu nuvvu kindaki dinchesukuntunnavu naa view lo, chusuko mari nenu dull ga unna emadhya serious ga untunna ..gitlantivati meeda focus cheyyadam kaadu. Naa reaction nuvvu chese panulu meeda untadi ani...pori chala guilty feeling toh undi, inkeppudu cheyyanu inkeppudu ponu atla lying cheyyanu and all. But, again time will say just like u said bro. Endukante gaame entha cheppina oka saari face meeda lie chesinanka kashtam bhayya manaki ade feeling undadam ante....lets see over time - thanks bhayya

face midha lie ani feel avaku. its nothing. intlo amma valaki kuda anukokunda chala sarlu chinna chinna vatilo abadham chebutham. its not like she lieing to u every time ga. that moment ala chepesindhi , anthe kani plan chesi chepina abadham kadhu kadha

[nenesuperni]

6 minutes ago, kiran000 said:

Yeah bro...cheppina chaala neat ga cheppina that nuvvu neeku telukunda ninnu nuvvu kindaki dinchesukuntunnavu naa view lo, chusuko mari nenu dull ga unna emadhya serious ga untunna ..gitlantivati meeda focus cheyyadam kaadu. Naa reaction nuvvu chese panulu meeda untadi ani...pori chala guilty feeling toh undi, inkeppudu cheyyanu inkeppudu ponu atla lying cheyyanu and all. But, again time will say just like u said bro. Endukante gaame entha cheppina oka saari face meeda lie chesinanka kashtam bhayya manaki ade feeling undadam ante....lets see over time - thanks bhayya

face midha lie ani feel avaku. its nothing. intlo amma valaki kuda anukokunda chala sarlu chinna chinna vatilo abadham chebutham. its not like she lieing to u every time ga. that moment ala chepesindhi , anthe kani plan chesi chepina abadham kadhu kadha

[BongaralaLingaraju]

5 minutes ago, kiran000 said:

okka saari kuda cheppale bhayya..

Andulo aithe question ee ledu - nenu club laki poyyina, taagi tirigi ochina, eppudu nannu restrict cheyyale - but again, nenu eppudu vere valla toh close ga lenu eeme enter ainappati nunchi, may be u r right - appudu ela untado telidu so far.

apudappudu ilanti jhalaklu isthe set avtharu bhayya, try chey,...thappem ledu.. daily nuvve edvaala enti.. oka roju dannii kuda edvani ne gurinchi insecurity tho..

[kiran000]

2 minutes ago, nenesuperni said:

face midha lie ani feel avaku. its nothing. intlo amma valaki kuda anukokunda chala sarlu chinna chinna vatilo abadham chebutham. its not like she lieing to u every time ga. that moment ala chepesindhi , anthe kani plan chesi chepina abadham kadhu kadha

Thanks bhaisaab,

koncham relaxing ga undi nuvvu chepthunte

[Popkatapetapotapulti]

inthaki db boys ki papu annam epudu pedutunavu ani @samaja_varagamana adagamanadu 

[TOM_BHAYYA]

1 minute ago, Popkatapetapotapulti said:

inthaki db boys ki papu annam epudu pedutunavu ani @samaja_varagamana adagamanadu 

Boyfriends ki  cheppagaane Ani cheppu

[KrishnaDevaRaya]

annam udikindha ledha ani okka methuku chuste chalu... aa ammaiki yentha dooramga unte antha manchidhi bro...

lekapothe ne jeevithamantha torture paduthuntavu. evening late ga vachindhante neeku doubt vasthundhi..

phone lo evarathi matladina anumanamga chusthavu....

veetinannitini roju barinchaadam chala kastam bro..

mari antha socialize ayina ammayitho life share chesukovadam ante.kastam ...

lite thesuko....

[krishna0125]

8 minutes ago, kiran000 said:

Yeah bro...cheppina chaala neat ga cheppina that nuvvu neeku telukunda ninnu nuvvu kindaki dinchesukuntunnavu naa view lo, chusuko mari nenu dull ga unna emadhya serious ga untunna ..gitlantivati meeda focus cheyyadam kaadu. Naa reaction nuvvu chese panulu meeda untadi ani...pori chala guilty feeling toh undi, inkeppudu cheyyanu inkeppudu ponu atla lying cheyyanu and all. But, again time will say just like u said bro. Endukante gaame entha cheppina oka saari face meeda lie chesinanka kashtam bhayya manaki ade feeling undadam ante....lets see over time - thanks bhayya

nuvvu describe chesa dhani batti chustunta, immature laga undhi...enka mana kama kurrollu gurinchi telusuga...message, calls, flirting tho pedasadhaka enka vera pani pettukoru. So its natural to lean towards them with immature thinking...

ekkaditho relation appadham, idhariki machindhi ani chala cool ga and chala convincing ga cheppi, reaction chudu..if she really dont wont to leave you at any cost and get paniced then you can trust her in future..if she get convinced and either agreed or stay clam then doubt aa.

mattallo petti affairs gurinchi ki open cha cheppamani cheppu, if she opens up, she may be trust worthy in future too. em ledhu, em jaragaledhu ani vankay kaburlu chebitha..she is also playing the game..

take the issue to peaks and then accept her, then she will remember the lesson for lifetime and next time tappu cheiyataniki 10 times allochistundhi..

[nenesuperni]

kiran : krishna suggestion bagundi. and anumanam tho chusthu unte kastam , ee pilla tho inni omnths taravta niku doubt undi clairfy chesukokunda vere pilla ni cheskunav anuko 1 year tarvatha , malli same scene repeat aaythe?

[kiran000]

4 hours ago, krishna0125 said:

nuvvu describe chesa dhani batti chustunta, immature laga undhi...enka mana kama kurrollu gurinchi telusuga...message, calls, flirting tho pedasadhaka enka vera pani pettukoru. So its natural to lean towards them with immature thinking...

ekkaditho relation appadham, idhariki machindhi ani chala cool ga and chala convincing ga cheppi, reaction chudu..if she really dont wont to leave you at any cost and get paniced then you can trust her in future..if she get convinced and either agreed or stay clam then doubt aa.

mattallo petti affairs gurinchi ki open cha cheppamani cheppu, if she opens up, she may be trust worthy in future too. em ledhu, em jaragaledhu ani vankay kaburlu chebitha..she is also playing the game..

take the issue to peaks and then accept her, then she will remember the lesson for lifetime and next time tappu cheiyataniki 10 times allochistundhi..

Thanks Bhayya...manchi expirience unattu undi meeku - liked it

Adi exactly true bhayya koncham immature ee. Naake anipisthadi idendi ra bhai intha pichida ani, nenu edi chepte adi nammesthadi ani.

 

[samaja_varagamana]

3 hours ago, VizagRocks said:

thala noppi ochhesindi 4 lines kay. full ga chadivey opika ledhu. I think the essence is she is flirty and outgoing.

Okati maatram gurthu pettuko. don't marry because you love someone. life lo nee goals ento aalochinchuko.  marriage is one step to achieve it, not the only step. Only stupid people marry for love.

set boundaries on what you expect out of marriage. Talk to her. This is more like a business arrangement.

It is almost impossible for someone to fall in love with a person, and remain in love with the same person forever, unless both are utterly boring, and have zero social life beyond cultural peers.

Also when you discuss arrangements of marriage, don't forget that you will probably be tempted to look at other women after a few yrs, and so will she. If you want her to stay faithful to you, its a reasonable cultural expectation, but don't paint it as her character flaw. Talk to her about how you can find ways to work around that.

In short, you don't own her, even if you get married to her. She'll always be her own person. Do not listen to fcuking Men's rights activists.

 

3 hours ago, VizagRocks said:

1. asalu neeku marriage avasarama ani gettiga aalochinchu.

2. elanti ammayi kaavaali ani second aalochinchu. its okay even if you want a subservient girl for wife. Fcuk those who judge you, as long as you treat her with respect.

3. life lo nee goals important. nee wife goals neeku align aithey manchidi. But don't force it.

4. Oka ammayi fix ayyi. Ee ammaye awesome, incredible. pelli cheskunte eema ney cheskovaali ani fix avvatam moorkhatvam.

 

3 hours ago, VizagRocks said:

opportunity to say outrageous stuff. nuvvu kooda vaadesko.

 

3 hours ago, VizagRocks said:

I'm s0rry brother. though you ask a nice question, I don't think people here are mature enough to understand the response I'll give to it. So I'll let it pass.

The basic point is that, marriage is mostly useless institution. It places constraints on both the man and the woman.

 

2 hours ago, VizagRocks said:

friendship can exist. That's not the problem. The problem is unrealistic expectations in a marriage.

The guy thinks he's giving 'freedom', and then is shocked at the consequences. If you want your wife to be in a particular way, you have to be bold enough to say it. Not hide behind 'I am liberal', and hope everything works out fine.

Ofcourse, the options get narrow, and you'll only attract women who are comfortable with your stance on marriage. But isn't that what marriage is all about? A social contract for the benefit of both the man and the woman?

To have an emotional connect to one person, you don't really have to be married.

I think the guy who wrote this story wants to have the cake and eat it too.

 

1 hour ago, VizagRocks said:

When you are discussing something serious as marriage, and by extension, your life, it is better to avoid pilla p phrases like 'I love you so much'.

You are literally handing over the keys to your life to the other person, so they can walk all over you, if they chose to.

aripinchav po.................u and me share almost same kind of views..................thats reality..................... Love u my boy......u r my clone brother