Gee pillani pendli seskovocha? Genuine opinion cheppurri bhayya mee banchan..

[BongaralaLingaraju]

5 minutes ago, Cool Dude said:

My 2 cents - lengthy, just my opinion - no offense, please ignore if you don`t like my reply

bro..I was in similar situation, not exact but similar. first thing 6 months is too early to decide on a person brother. Initially few months is like honeymoon period, any flaws you see in a person you try to deny/ignore it. Ammayi enta chinnadi ayina 22 or 23 ayina, however outgoing or social person ayina they know their boundaries. ex - enta mandi tho ayina matladtaru ila extrovert ammayilu, long calls and all...valla perception lo they don`t have any feelings for other and treat them as friends, sometimes they do it to overcome boredom or for fun. enta outgoing ammayi ayina enta mandi tho matladina, believe me they will cut a guy when others cross the line. abbayilandaru ammayi matladte chaalu, timepass, flirt if possible try chedam ani chustaru more than 90% of guys. when a guy is flirting or making advances in conversation, girl will definitely know

enta innocent ammayi ayina, abbayila vishayam lo they know what other guys intention is, if she is responding back and talking to them she enjoys it. she enjoys attention and being pampered. nee pilla going out with guys for a whole day for a movie/restaurants and all is not normal bro. if it is a group its totally fine. when she is spending lone time with someone whole day they build a rapport. May be she is showing her love to you more than anyone else as you guys are physically involved.

Mana age lo unna gusy (assuming you are 27-30) will have a fear we might not get a better girl, matches chuddam ammayini kalvadam kashtam anna feeling lo untam, most of them. But I think you are living in Denial, you are just thinking about the affection she is showing and ignoring everything else out of insecurity. Pelli aite idi set kaadu, peddaga aitayi. as long as you are completely open with each other and completely fine with each of your expectations things won`t work. pelli aite anni set aitayi ani anukoku. they will become worse. you cannot share your grief with anyone. cancer debbalaki band aid eskoni ignore chesinattu untadi. 

your decission is right bro. First of all, explain everything to her, say your expections that you wont restrict her on anything but you don`t like her hanging out alone with other guys(which she should know without you telling  ), tell her you want to take a break for 2 months, lets think about each our expectations if we are fine with it and inko 1 year things are good ante we`ll think about marriage. at this time I cannot commit to you on anything, we`ll decide our relationship after an year ani chepu. she will seriously think about it and change if she really values you and will be ready to wait for you for 1 year. If not she`s not worth, konni rojulu mandu taagi marchipoy nuvve set aitavu.

forget everything about her status and all, tell her in a way that you mean it and are serious about it. if you see her changing few months lo set aipo

length ekkuvaina... masthu cheppinav bro.... 

[shamsher_007]

5 minutes ago, Cool Dude said:

My 2 cents - lengthy, just my opinion - no offense, please ignore if you don`t like my reply

bro..I was in similar situation, not exact but similar. first thing 6 months is too early to decide on a person brother. Initially few months is like honeymoon period, any flaws you see in a person you try to deny/ignore it. Ammayi enta chinnadi ayina 22 or 23 ayina, however outgoing or social person ayina they know their boundaries. ex - enta mandi tho ayina matladtaru ila extrovert ammayilu, long calls and all...valla perception lo they don`t have any feelings for other and treat them as friends, sometimes they do it to overcome boredom or for fun. enta outgoing ammayi ayina enta mandi tho matladina, believe me they will cut a guy when others cross the line. abbayilandaru ammayi matladte chaalu, timepass, flirt if possible try chedam ani chustaru more than 90% of guys. when a guy is flirting or making advances in conversation, girl will definitely know

enta innocent ammayi ayina, abbayila vishayam lo they know what other guys intention is, if she is responding back and talking to them she enjoys it. she enjoys attention and being pampered. nee pilla going out with guys for a whole day for a movie/restaurants and all is not normal bro. if it is a group its totally fine. when she is spending lone time with someone whole day they build a rapport. May be she is showing her love to you more than anyone else as you guys are physically involved.

Mana age lo unna gusy (assuming you are 27-30) will have a fear we might not get a better girl, matches chuddam ammayini kalvadam kashtam anna feeling lo untam, most of them. But I think you are living in Denial, you are just thinking about the affection she is showing and ignoring everything else out of insecurity. Pelli aite idi set kaadu, peddaga aitayi. as long as you are completely open with each other and completely fine with each of your expectations things won`t work. pelli aite anni set aitayi ani anukoku. they will become worse. you cannot share your grief with anyone. cancer debbalaki band aid eskoni ignore chesinattu untadi. 

your decission is right bro. First of all, explain everything to her, say your expections that you wont restrict her on anything but you don`t like her hanging out alone with other guys(which she should know without you telling  ), tell her you want to take a break for 2 months, lets think about each our expectations if we are fine with it and inko 1 year things are good ante we`ll think about marriage. at this time I cannot commit to you on anything, we`ll decide our relationship after an year ani chepu. she will seriously think about it and change if she really values you and will be ready to wait for you for 1 year. If not she`s not worth, konni rojulu mandu taagi marchipoy nuvve set aitavu.

forget everything about her status and all, tell her in a way that you mean it and are serious about it. if you see her changing few months lo set aipo

akkada TS ki time ledu byi, nxt month shadi anta. inka vere options unte cheppu TS ki 

[jaffadaffa007]

11 hours ago, Feelingbad said:

America culture kuda nee GF verey vaallatho single ga date/cinema ki velley antha socialise avvaledu..... pelli ani fix ayina tharuvaatha assal vellakudadhu.... more over, her entertaining others to flirt.... definitely a big "NO". Its definitely not innocence. 

Vadhili thengu.... Don't feel bad for being rude.... coz you are not the reason...let her find a bakra with a "broader mind". Ignore her and move on... 

[MAYURI_BPO]

14 hours ago, psycopk said:

trust is what runs a marriage.. 6months nundi unnav ame tho.. you should know by now if she is trustworthy..

nuvvu endhi bhayya eppudu choosina diplomatic answers thappa em undav ... sariga answer ivvavu . asalu nijanga situation feel avuthaava nuvvu .. edho oka answer ivvalani isthaava .... annitiki negative touch untai .. cheyyaleni solutions isthaav .... BTW neeku appatlo fan ni .. ninnu choosey ee DB ki vachina ... 

[MAYURI_BPO]

14 hours ago, psycopk said:

trust is what runs a marriage.. 6months nundi unnav ame tho.. you should know by now if she is trustworthy..

nuvvu endhi bhayya eppudu choosina diplomatic answers thappa em undav ... sariga answer ivvavu . asalu nijanga situation feel avuthaava nuvvu .. edho oka answer ivvalani isthaava .... annitiki negative touch untai .. cheyyaleni solutions isthaav .... BTW neeku appatlo fan ni .. ninnu choosey ee DB ki vachina ... 

[MAYURI_BPO]

14 hours ago, psycopk said:

trust is what runs a marriage.. 6months nundi unnav ame tho.. you should know by now if she is trustworthy..

nuvvu endhi bhayya eppudu choosina diplomatic answers thappa em undav ... sariga answer ivvavu . asalu nijanga situation feel avuthaava nuvvu .. edho oka answer ivvalani isthaava .... annitiki negative touch untai .. cheyyaleni solutions isthaav .... BTW neeku appatlo fan ni .. ninnu choosey ee DB ki vachina ... 

[MAYURI_BPO]

14 hours ago, psycopk said:

trust is what runs a marriage.. 6months nundi unnav ame tho.. you should know by now if she is trustworthy..

nuvvu endhi bhayya eppudu choosina diplomatic answers thappa em undav ... sariga answer ivvavu . asalu nijanga situation feel avuthaava nuvvu .. edho oka answer ivvalani isthaava .... annitiki negative touch untai .. cheyyaleni solutions isthaav .... BTW neeku appatlo fan ni .. ninnu choosey ee DB ki vachina ...