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Am married for 18 years and he's a very successful guy with a good character. Until now i never ever had any doubts about him regarding anything. There was this girl in his workplace (USA)who is a divorcee who looks upto him(i dont know her in person , what ever said is what i heard from my DH) and asks for his opinion about career this and that in his room. She's an above average looking girl(have seen fb pic). She recently moved back to india and before she left my DH took her for lunch(which is usual in his place), then he said she asked a lot about you(thats me). what made you take the decision to marry me...you know kinda personal drilling q's to figure what he saw in me and what he liked about me this and that. I could sense from my DH's body language and tone that there was a wee bit more than just two colleagues. After moving from the company also , she sent him an article that she wrote - which i found ok. Later she sent him a message through whatsapp and they chatted for a while. I never check his phone and came across it couple of days later and made a big deal of it. I literally dont want any uncessary drama or not in a position to take any chance with my life. Though the conversation was normal(no sex talk or anything) i could sense the enthu in his tone and how fast he was replying to her messages. Its clearly written in his face that he knows that she's attracted to him. Anyhoo,i made a big cry about that and after that day i thought he understood how i felt and left it at that. Fast forward 2 months, just now when he was in another country for work, they chatted and again the girl initiated the chat making comment about his profile picture and even after knowing how i felt my DH chatted with the same enthu. My DH is a very intelligent person , if i confront him i fear that he'll start removing all evidence for sure in the future. We have a good family and i used to tell people that i love my husband more than my parents or kids,...may be am being punished for that now...I strongly feel he shouldnt be trusted blindly anymore...I have no clue on what to do...feeling extremely low.

Do people in IT industry talk to men in whatsapp even when they were not best of friends or anything?He was not her boss /best friend or anything. Both cases I worked in IT but i never had relationship with any guys to this extend.

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Am married for 18 years and he's a very successful guy with a good character. Until now i never ever had any doubts about him regarding anything. There was this girl in his workplace (USA)who is a divorcee who looks upto him(i dont know her in person , what ever said is what i heard from my DH) and asks for his opinion about career this and that in his room. She's an above average looking girl(have seen fb pic). She recently moved back to india and before she left my DH took her for lunch(which is usual in his place), then he said she asked a lot about you(thats me). what made you take the decision to marry me...you know kinda personal drilling q's to figure what he saw in me and what he liked about me this and that. I could sense from my DH's body language and tone that there was a wee bit more than just two colleagues. After moving from the company also , she sent him an article that she wrote - which i found ok. Later she sent him a message through whatsapp and they chatted for a while. I never check his phone and came across it couple of days later and made a big deal of it. I literally dont want any uncessary drama or not in a position to take any chance with my life. Though the conversation was normal(no sex talk or anything) i could sense the enthu in his tone and how fast he was replying to her messages. Its clearly written in his face that he knows that she's attracted to him. Anyhoo,i made a big cry about that and after that day i thought he understood how i felt and left it at that. Fast forward 2 months, just now when he was in another country for work, they chatted and again the girl initiated the chat making comment about his profile picture and even after knowing how i felt my DH chatted with the same enthu. My DH is a very intelligent person , if i confront him i fear that he'll start removing all evidence for sure in the future. We have a good family and i used to tell people that i love my husband more than my parents or kids,...may be am being punished for that now...I strongly feel he shouldnt be trusted blindly anymore...I have no clue on what to do...feeling extremely low.

Do people in IT industry talk to men in whatsapp even when they were not best of friends or anything?He was not her boss /best friend or anything. Both cases I worked in IT but i never had relationship with any guys to this extend.

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