and why @Spartan @tom bhayya and @alpachinao may be among the most awesomest people in this db. @BUDDY is another budding star of awesomeness. concrete proof of why that is so is here ----> http://www.wsj.com/articles/the-perils-of-empathy-1480689513 The Perils of Empathy In politics and policy, trying to feel the pain of others is a bad idea. Empathy distorts our reasoning and makes us biased, tribal and often cruel