Telugu Toddler with speech delay-Please help

[infoseeker786]

Hi friends,ma cousin ki oka 2 year old son unnadu.he was born in US.Last week 2 years complete ayyayi.2 years checkup appudu pedatrician found that the toddler is speaking few words (6 words)compared to what he should speak at this age(about 30 words) and form sentences with more than two words and suggested speech/hearing evaluation."Babies can't wait" program value evaluate chesi he needs speech therapy  and hearing test and decide chesaru.Also my cousin is going to join his kid in preschool soon.My cousin and his wife are worried a late about this development delay.Do you know anyone in similar stuation and was there any improvement after speech therapy.Please share your thoughts

[Doola]

[Suhaas]

Help. 

 

[summer27]

It's pretty common now a days..send him to school and speech and occupational therapy classes

[Mango]

oka noka roommate son ki same ayindi. Chennai lo edo clinic lo treatment chesaru 6 months. details telivu. Tharuvatha baane improve ayindi ani vinna. 

[Paddy]

Yes bro i have seen my frnds baby boy, they sent him to speech therapy school and within 6 months he is able to speak fluently. Now he keeps on blabbering . Tell them not to worry

[KATHRI]

India lo untey ammamalu tatalu , inti pakkana venkala vallotho matladataru... ikkada roju mottam amma ayya....

have seen few cases like this, one of my ex collegue has to send his kid for speech therapy as well... nothing to worry konta mandiki late vastayi matalu

speech therapy ki pampadam ante surgery ala emi kadu they just make his speak some words... nothing to worry just send him they will take care...

 

[gunturodu1]

22 minutes ago, infoseeker786 said:

Hi friends,ma cousin ki oka 2 year old son unnadu.he was born in US.Last week 2 years complete ayyayi.2 years checkup appudu pedatrician found that the toddler is speaking few words (6 words)compared to what he should speak at this age(about 30 words) and form sentences with more than two words and suggested speech/hearing evaluation."Babies can't wait" program value evaluate chesi he needs speech therapy  and hearing test and decide chesaru.Also my cousin is going to join his kid in preschool soon.My cousin and his wife are worried a late about this development delay.Do you know anyone in similar stuation and was there any improvement after speech therapy.Please share your thoughts

USA lo almost 70% indian kids ki idey chepthunnaru.. Since its very sensitive issue, i will explain more and your friend no need to worry much.

 

Naa elder son ni preschool lo vesaka vaala teacher idey cheppindhi..he tells all alphabets and numbers.. kani social ga vundadu.. he cant form senternce annadhi.. and requested us for speech theraphy(This happened in november 2016)..

 

SPeech theraphy is costly here just to evaluate a kid in atlanta, they are charging 1200$. i booked an appointment. They gave appointment in feb 3rd week(its really hard to get appointment)

From November last week :-

then we started talking with him more.. TV lo rhymes cut down chesam .. Thanatho paint games ,daily night story reading, play dough and whatsapp lo voice messages petticchatam start chesa, saradaga maa naanna daily night "Thata i had my dinner..so and so ani nenu cheppatam vaditho repeat cheyyichatam.. intial ga chese vadu kadu.. play back lo mana voice vini vallaki interest vasthundhi..

 

Believe me i saw a huge change in 4 weeks.. December lo vadiki yearly checkup vundi.. we said the speech therapy recommendation to Pediatrician.. Avasaram ledu.. annadu.. but still am going with evaluation as i dont want miss anything if really required.

 

Jan 1st week , maa vadi school mid report ani iccharu.. his teacher asked us.. what you guys are doing.. he improved a lot ani..

 

First we need to change our life style.. manam kids ki IPADS, mobiles or TVlo rhymes pettesi mana pani manam chesukuntam.. thats wrong.. evening time antha mee freind ni thana kid to spend cheyyi manu..it will be good. One more imp thing.. evaro okkallani only english and okkalu only telugu matladamanu..dont ever switch languages.. so that they will learn both with out confusion..

[SNOW_MEGA]

idhi asalu issue kaadu india lo 2 months pettu debbaki set avutharu 

[SNOW_MEGA]

or irving (gnadhi park ) lanti area lo unte friends ships untayi

[infoseeker786]

thanks friends for your replies.another observation enti ante "kid name piliste 4-5 times varaku he won't respond.sometimes he just ignores when he is busy with toys or tv"

[KaadhulaKaajaalu]

31 minutes ago, infoseeker786 said:

Hi friends,ma cousin ki oka 2 year old son unnadu.he was born in US.Last week 2 years complete ayyayi.2 years checkup appudu pedatrician found that the toddler is speaking few words (6 words)compared to what he should speak at this age(about 30 words) and form sentences with more than two words and suggested speech/hearing evaluation."Babies can't wait" program value evaluate chesi he needs speech therapy  and hearing test and decide chesaru.Also my cousin is going to join his kid in preschool soon.My cousin and his wife are worried a late about this development delay.Do you know anyone in similar stuation and was there any improvement after speech therapy.Please share your thoughts

US lo perigey kids lo idi chaala common. Mimmalni bhaya pettalani kadu but can you please check these symptoms : 1) Extremely hyper 2) No eye contact and not responding to his name when called 3) Walking on toes 4) Flapping hands....ee symptoms lekapothe assalu tension padakandi....just speech lag....ivi unte matram immediately consult a physchiatrist.. these are symptoms of Autism...I hope he is free from these....but edi emaina please act immediately..school lo immediate ga join cheyyandi...put him in 5 full days....take him to shopping malls....neighbors ...make sure he is interacting with a lot of people especially with kids of his age....best thing is to send India for 6 months....

[MrDexter]

I heard similar issues and mostly its because Our Indian parents want the KID to learn too much of stuff right from birth so they are starting feeding the kid all kinds of information rather than giving the kid his/her own time to pick up things..... picking up information on their own is very important... if you force it then the brain rjects most fo the stuff and the links dont form correctly inside the kids brain. This might have temporary relief but the kid will have lot of problems later in life....

[mybabyboy]

45 minutes ago, infoseeker786 said:

Hi friends,ma cousin ki oka 2 year old son unnadu.he was born in US.Last week 2 years complete ayyayi.2 years checkup appudu pedatrician found that the toddler is speaking few words (6 words)compared to what he should speak at this age(about 30 words) and form sentences with more than two words and suggested speech/hearing evaluation."Babies can't wait" program value evaluate chesi he needs speech therapy  and hearing test and decide chesaru.Also my cousin is going to join his kid in preschool soon.My cousin and his wife are worried a late about this development delay.Do you know anyone in similar stuation and was there any improvement after speech therapy.Please share your thoughts

idhi pretty common bhayya with desi kids...naa son kuda 2 years complete ayyaka very words use chese vadu....problem is i talk to him in english and telugu and my wife talks to him in spanish....i thought we were giving more pressure for the kid but slowly when he turned 2 years 3 months, he started speaking only english with me and used to understand spanish but couldn't speak and he started preschool at 3 years of age and i put him in english instead of bilingual and wife was little mad at me....my son is 3 years 5 months now and talks fluently both in english and spanish and also understands both...6 months back i used to say my wife when he will talk ani and now i say to him not to talk and stay silent but he wont stop talking....he has become a translator for me now...

ikkadi doctors koncham OA chestharu...dont worry the kid will start talking.....mostly girls start talking early than boys...

[MrDexter]

5 minutes ago, KaadhulaKaajaalu said:

US lo perigey kids lo idi chaala common. Mimmalni bhaya pettalani kadu but can you please check these symptoms : 1) Extremely hyper 2) No eye contact and not responding to his name when called 3) Walking on toes 4) Flapping hands....ee symptoms lekapothe assalu tension padakandi....just speech lag....ivi unte matram immediately consult a physchiatrist.. these are symptoms of Autism...I hope he is free from these....but edi emaina please act immediately..school lo immediate ga join cheyyandi...put him in 5 full days....take him to shopping malls....neighbors ...make sure he is interacting with a lot of people especially with kids of his age....best thing is to send India for 6 months....

 

Parents first neighbors and shopping malls lo people tho mingle ayithey... kids ki baguntadh.......but parents only same midnset unna desi coomunity families tho kalisi.....open atmosphere kakunda.....avoiding eye-contact conversations and ....false celebrations for name sake chesthunte... kids ki kuda avve habits pick up chestharu.....let them free... let then do mistakes..... except for taking care of their health and well being....parents should not try to control any of the other activities of kids......they will learn stuff on their own and they will become on what they are capable of..... forceful feeding on information will only break their minds and lead to extreme psychological issues......

espcially Indian parents feel that their kids should by default be registered in honors class (special trianing in schools for intelligent kids).......this is done for kids who show excpetional abilities...and teachers will identify these skills...... mana desi parents feel like getting into honors class is like EAMCET training..... more the kids works hard at home in reciting numbers, alphabets etc.... more the teachers will recognize him..... but thats not the way it works.... also desi parents fight with teachers saying he is intelligent you are just not observing him... pleaee put him in the honors class ani sava10gutharu.....itlantivi chesthey results itlanbe untayi......they are kids man.... let them run on the grass and chase butteflies and have some good childhood.... forget about thei adulthood its fked up anyways.....they will take careof themselves....