How many here interested in Russian mail order bride?

[tennisluvr]

Not necessarily Russian alone but Eastern European including Ukrainian, Estonian, Georgian and Latvian. 

Naa friend okadu went to a European trip and found a girl that is very interested in him. He knows a company that organizes these tours, and even introduced me to this person. He lives around Chicago metropolitan area. 

I am planning to go on a month long Eastern European tour next year, if anyone's interested you can join me. This is only for those that are interested in having a long term relationship possibly including marriage and to bring these women over to the US to live with you. 

Let me know if you are interested via PM. 

[Chamak_Chandra]

3 minutes ago, tennisluvr said:

Not necessarily Russian alone but Eastern European including Ukrainian, Estonian, Georgian and Latvian. 

Naa friend okadu went to a European trip and found a girl that is very interested in him. He knows a company that organizes these tours, and even introduced me to this person. He lives around Chicago metropolitan area. 

I am planning to go on a month long Eastern European tour next year, if anyone's interested you can join me. This is only for those that are interested in having a long term relationship possibly including marriage and to bring these women over to the US to live with you. 

Let me know if you are interested via PM. 

Bhaiya nuvvu inka married kadaa.. ?  Ante nuvvu europe lo pori ni kuda pelli chesukunte, intlo vallu ok naa ..... ?

[aatadista]

Naku alantivi kastam anduke, Oka idharini US rapincha. 4 days 5K pay chesa + tickets. Total hotel inka shopping and price ki 6K vadilincha. most memorable days. 

http://www.theelitecompanions.com/escort-elite-companions

[tennisluvr]

Just now, Chamak_Chandra said:

Bhaiya nuvvu inka married kadaa.. ?  Ante nuvvu europe lo pori ni kuda pelli chesukunte, intlo vallu ok naa ..... ?

Not married man. Desi ammayilu oddu ani decide ayipoya bro, too many issues with the ones I have seen. Ivanni leni issues lenollu naaku dorakaru inka I know. 

Intlo okay man, vallu decide ayipoyaru edo okati nee isthamochindi cheyi ani. They are mostly open minded so they will be okay although not jubilant. 

[tennisluvr]

1 minute ago, aatadista said:

Naku alantivi kastam anduke, Oka idhanrini US rapincha. 4 days 5K pay chesa + tickets. Total hotel inka shopping and price ki 6K vadilincha. most memorable days. 

http://www.theelitecompanions.com/escort-elite-companions

Bro 10k ki neeku wife osthundi man akkada. Atleast aame GC oche varakayina she's going to be with you which means 2-3 years. 

After that if she says divorce give her some good money and get rid of her. Then repeat the cycle. 

I am also thinking of adopting a kid within the next 2 years or so. 

[tennisluvr]

I want to keep batting like Hugh Hefner till his 80s man, athanantha dabbu sampayincha leka povachu but in my own way I just want to have good times with lots of women. No drama and all that in life. 

Also want to keep myself fit even till later in life. Sylvester Stallone, Arnold, Jackie chan veella laaga

[aatadista]

3 minutes ago, tennisluvr said:

Bro 10k ki neeku wife osthundi man akkada. Atleast aame GC oche varakayina she's going to be with you which means 2-3 years. 

After that if she says divorce give her some good money and get rid of her. Then repeat the cycle. 

I am also thinking of adopting a kid within the next 2 years or so. 

evarana chepi sasate ga apudu. 

but 4K tho start ayi adi 10K agindi le beram. 

[tennisluvr]

Just now, aatadista said:

evarana chepi sasate ga apudu. 

but 4K tho start ayi adi 10K agindi le beram. 

It's okay ba paisaldemundi malli osthundi. 

Sare nuvvu gitla join ayithava seppu Russian world tour ki

[ParmQ]

She spoke about sex like it was housework': Confessions of the men who paid thousands to marry mail-order brides... but who lived to regret it

• A new Reddit thread asked users to submit their experiences
• Many men were disappointed with their mail-order brides
• Meeting a woman this way can cost up to $50,000 (£32,700) or more

 

A new Reddit thread is offering some fascinating insights into the strange lives of men who have purchased mail-order brides.

The discussion, which focuses on brides from Russia and the Philippines and has so far garnered more than 10,000 comments, asked users to spill the beans on what 'surprised' them the most when they started living with their spouses.

'[She] spoke about sex the same way she spoke about housework,' wrote one, while another confessed: 'I could always tell she was uncomfortable. It seemed like she was just doing a job.'

 

Ruse awakening: The Reddit thread asked users to spill the beans on what 'surprised' them the most when they started living with their spouses

One user described the process of 'ordering' a bride from Russia or the Philippines, where thousands of women are desperate to start a new life for themselves in Europe and the US. 

The fee to find a bride this way, according to this user, costs between $10,000 (£6,500) and $15,000 (£9,800), although others have said they paid as much as $50,000 (£32,700).

'Since a large amount of these foreign brides do not speak English, a person must hire a translator for phone and other forms of correspondence,' he explains.

'When a man becomes serious about a few women, he will want to purchase the girl’s address to send letters and gifts.

'Addresses usually will cost between $10 [£6.50] and $15 [£9.80}. A translator will also be needed for these letters which will normally add another $10 to $15 a letter.'

Several people submitted stories not about themselves but people they know, and almost all of them noted that the men ordered their brides because they struggled socially.

 

Booming: Russianbrides.com (pictured) now boasts an online community of more than one million hopefuls

 

Face value: Once a man has zeroed in on a woman he likes, he generally needs to hire a translator to communicate with her

'My father brought my mum at an auction in Thailand a LONG time ago, it's pretty weird and he was kinda a creepy guy so basically what you'd expect,' one stated.

'I mean there's a reason these kinds of guys end up getting mail-ordered brides. Sometimes they are just super awkward, other times they are total d-bags,' another wrote.

At least with a gold digger it isn’t painfully obvious 

Several men, who had presumably since split with their mail-order brides, noted that the sexual chemistry was lacking.

'She would cook, clean, offer sex, whatever,' one wrote. 'Pretty much what you want from your wife. But the passion, emotion, warmth, everything that makes a marriage actually work was lacking.

'You could liken it to a gold digger but it was much worse. At least with a gold digger it isn’t painfully obvious, and you might actually convince yourself she likes some aspect of you.'

Another found the opposite.

'The only thing I can think of is that she is very open about sexuality compared to most girls,' wrote one man, a 35-year-old who said he had cerebral palsy, and spent $22,000 [£14,395] to secure his bride.

 

Just a chore: '[She] spoke about sex the same way she spoke about housework,' wrote one submitter

One user wrote: 'She seemed under the impression that a man was to be kept like a king and she was there for food and sex.'

But then added: 'The biggest surprise was finding out that when his "wife" was sending money "back home to her family", it was to her husband (not "ex") and kids in the Philippines.'

Amid all the stories about disappointed grooms, there were a few sad accounts regarding the brides.

She seemed under the impression that a man was to be kept like a king and she was there for food and sex 

One user wrote of a friend's mail-order wife: '[She] had a ridiculous amount of humidifiers in the home so that it could be more like where she came from. All she did was to sit in a chair staring at the wall looking very depressed.'

Another commented: 'There's way too many cases in which those girls looking for a better life end up in bad stories of domestic abuse and even murder when those guys start realizing that the girls are way out of their league and they start to meet new people and making friends.' 

Regardless of where you stand, the mail-order business is booming - Russianbrides.com now boasts an online community of more than one million hopefuls -  and shows no sign of slowing down.

 

[tennisluvr]

2 minutes ago, ParmQ said:

She spoke about sex like it was housework': Confessions of the men who paid thousands to marry mail-order brides... but who lived to regret it

• A new Reddit thread asked users to submit their experiences
• Many men were disappointed with their mail-order brides
• Meeting a woman this way can cost up to $50,000 (£32,700) or more

 

A new Reddit thread is offering some fascinating insights into the strange lives of men who have purchased mail-order brides.

The discussion, which focuses on brides from Russia and the Philippines and has so far garnered more than 10,000 comments, asked users to spill the beans on what 'surprised' them the most when they started living with their spouses.

'[She] spoke about sex the same way she spoke about housework,' wrote one, while another confessed: 'I could always tell she was uncomfortable. It seemed like she was just doing a job.'

 

Ruse awakening: The Reddit thread asked users to spill the beans on what 'surprised' them the most when they started living with their spouses

One user described the process of 'ordering' a bride from Russia or the Philippines, where thousands of women are desperate to start a new life for themselves in Europe and the US. 

The fee to find a bride this way, according to this user, costs between $10,000 (£6,500) and $15,000 (£9,800), although others have said they paid as much as $50,000 (£32,700).

'Since a large amount of these foreign brides do not speak English, a person must hire a translator for phone and other forms of correspondence,' he explains.

'When a man becomes serious about a few women, he will want to purchase the girl’s address to send letters and gifts.

'Addresses usually will cost between $10 [£6.50] and $15 [£9.80}. A translator will also be needed for these letters which will normally add another $10 to $15 a letter.'

Several people submitted stories not about themselves but people they know, and almost all of them noted that the men ordered their brides because they struggled socially.

 

Booming: Russianbrides.com (pictured) now boasts an online community of more than one million hopefuls

 

Face value: Once a man has zeroed in on a woman he likes, he generally needs to hire a translator to communicate with her

'My father brought my mum at an auction in Thailand a LONG time ago, it's pretty weird and he was kinda a creepy guy so basically what you'd expect,' one stated.

'I mean there's a reason these kinds of guys end up getting mail-ordered brides. Sometimes they are just super awkward, other times they are total d-bags,' another wrote.

At least with a gold digger it isn’t painfully obvious 

Several men, who had presumably since split with their mail-order brides, noted that the sexual chemistry was lacking.

'She would cook, clean, offer sex, whatever,' one wrote. 'Pretty much what you want from your wife. But the passion, emotion, warmth, everything that makes a marriage actually work was lacking.

'You could liken it to a gold digger but it was much worse. At least with a gold digger it isn’t painfully obvious, and you might actually convince yourself she likes some aspect of you.'

Another found the opposite.

'The only thing I can think of is that she is very open about sexuality compared to most girls,' wrote one man, a 35-year-old who said he had cerebral palsy, and spent $22,000 [£14,395] to secure his bride.

 

Just a chore: '[She] spoke about sex the same way she spoke about housework,' wrote one submitter

One user wrote: 'She seemed under the impression that a man was to be kept like a king and she was there for food and sex.'

But then added: 'The biggest surprise was finding out that when his "wife" was sending money "back home to her family", it was to her husband (not "ex") and kids in the Philippines.'

Amid all the stories about disappointed grooms, there were a few sad accounts regarding the brides.

She seemed under the impression that a man was to be kept like a king and she was there for food and sex 

One user wrote of a friend's mail-order wife: '[She] had a ridiculous amount of humidifiers in the home so that it could be more like where she came from. All she did was to sit in a chair staring at the wall looking very depressed.'

Another commented: 'There's way too many cases in which those girls looking for a better life end up in bad stories of domestic abuse and even murder when those guys start realizing that the girls are way out of their league and they start to meet new people and making friends.' 

Regardless of where you stand, the mail-order business is booming - Russianbrides.com now boasts an online community of more than one million hopefuls -  and shows no sign of slowing down.

 

Bottomline. Period. 

[ParmQ]

1 minute ago, tennisluvr said:

Bottomline. Period. 

Okadi comment

I know an American who taught English in Russia. He met a young thing with a 10 year old son. Soon they were 'in love', and the guy came home to tell his wife and 3 kids he was leaving them. After he married the woman, and she and her son moved here, things started to go south. After 2 years she and the son left, and now the man has nothing. Let the buyer beware.

 

[tennisluvr]

Just now, ParmQ said:

Okadi comment

I know an American who taught English in Russia. He met a young thing with a 10 year old son. Soon they were 'in love', and the guy came home to tell his wife and 3 kids he was leaving them. After he married the woman, and she and her son moved here, things started to go south. After 2 years she and the son left, and now the man has nothing. Let the buyer beware.

 

Yes anduke choosi chesukovali. 

[Hercules]

tennis babu endi idi? why this kolaverri? local ga meetups lo try chey first dorkutaru. First meetups lo try chey man, enduk ilanti mail order brides risky business. 

Spoil cheskuntav life unless you are a millionaire dont make hasty decisions which you will regret later in life.

dating is the way, local ga dorakani draksha pandu ekkado europe ki poyi vethakala? manchiga local ga us lo try chey! 

[aatadista]

23 minutes ago, tennisluvr said:

It's okay ba paisaldemundi malli osthundi. 

Sare nuvvu gitla join ayithava seppu Russian world tour ki

kastam ipudu. gf tho marriage set chesaru. oka 1 yr back ayite rechipoyevadini. You proceed I say

[tennisluvr]

Just now, Hercules said:

tennis babu endi idi? why this kolaverri? local ga meetups lo try chey first dorkutaru. First meetups lo try chey man, enduk ilanti mail order brides risky business. 

Spoil cheskuntav life unless you are a millionaire dont make hasty decisions which you will regret later in life.

dating is the way, local ga dorakani draksha pandu ekkado europe ki poyi vethakala? manchiga local ga us lo try chey! 

Meetups mostly ugly washed up single moms or divorced ones with issues. ledu ante usually the women that no one wants to go for here. Nenunde place lo meetups undavu asala, unna kooda mostly 50+ crowd attend avutharu. 

American women ni dating cheyatamu waste man, firstly you won't get quality women for the most part because a desi guy isn't the most peferred one for them. Then you get those that might prefer a desi but mostly only for your money, later on you have to fight them for divorce etc. Enduku cheppu ivanni, Russian bride language raani ammayi ayithey she will be dependent on you and if you can take good care of her, she will be with you forever.