Estory1 : Na Mogudu Na Mataa Vinatledhu

[rapchik]

Dear friends,
Living in a nuclear family with 2 young kids, when I get back from work, my husband is the only adult I have around to share my day experiences, my thoughts etc. with. However, he does not like to listen to me. He prefers to just come home and be on the computer, or watch TV, or his phone. This has been a constant issue of stress between us in the last 5 years of marriage, and leads to a fight also every now and then. 
I have tried different things, taking out 30 mins block of time to talk, or talking during dinner. But whatever I try, I always find him disinterested. He either closes his eyes, and tells me "I am listening", or starts asking a totally unrelated thing of his own in between. Some things he does listen to with interest, but it is rare and sporadic in between.
Our lives are good otherwise, and there are no other problems between us. However, this one thing is very hurting to me, as I feel this is the only thing I want from my husband, is to be able to share, and companionship. He doesn't do anything else for me ever, as in never give gifts on anniversary/birthdays. He is not romantic, or say anything loving, and no loving gestures. He is practical, a great father, and keeps up all his responsibilties towards the home and family. But personally, does nothing for me. I am used to all of that now, but I will not be able to talk to him and share, I will go into loneliness and depression. Neither do I want to keep forcing my talks on him, if he is not interested, and clearly tells me he doesnt like to listen to me.
What should I do?

[LordOfMud]

file a rape case.......

[Myth1]

Get a job or hobby ... happiness pakkanollalo vethukunte inthe vuntadhi 

[Bangaruu]

[ICANWIN]

need to have a world for herself,pursue interests and divert on productive things...having two kids and keeping their future in mind..need to compromise and try to be happy

[rapchik]

4 minutes ago, LordOfMud said:

file rape case.......

  mogudu mata vintaledhu ante case antav endhi

[rapchik]

5 minutes ago, Myth1 said:

Get a job or hobby ... happiness pakkanollalo vethukunte inthe vuntadhi 

U r achiever  

[ARYA]

 enduku inatam ledu co operate seyyatam leda

[LordOfMud]

1 minute ago, rapchik said:

  mogudu mata vintaledhu ante case antav endhi

Naa...client ki ee suggestion tho anthaa set....happy ever after........

[rapchik]

Just now, LordOfMud said:

Naa...client ki ee suggestion tho anthaa set....happy ever after........

Papam ni client ninu namukundhi 

[Spartan]

a pilla apice ki velli stress out avudam ani ela feel avutado..

 

mogadu kuda intlo stressout avvadaniki computer or mobile meeda untad.

tease him seduce him.... role play... Easter Bunny, House Maid, etc lantivi .

iddaru pillalu ayyaru..khel khtama dukan band laga adollu act seste..alage untadi.. mogolla side nunchi behaviour.

[Myth1]

4 minutes ago, rapchik said:

U r achiever  

[rapchik]

7 minutes ago, ICANWIN said:

need to have a world for herself,pursue interests and divert on productive things...having two kids and keeping their future in mind..need to compromise and try to be happy

Not in this generation.. We need quick results... all 20-20 play

[rapchik]

1 minute ago, Spartan said:

a pilla apice ki velli stress out avudam ani ela feel avutado..

 

mogadu kuda intlo stressout avvadaniki computer or mobile meeda untad.

tease him seduce him.... role play... Easter Bunny, House Maid, etc lantivi .

iddaru pillalu ayyaru..khel khtama dukan band laga adollu act seste..alage untadi.. mogolla side nunchi behaviour.

oka mogudu side badha ni emyana clean ga chepinava...sahoo Chitti saho 

[rapchik]

5 minutes ago, ARYA said:

 enduku inatam ledu co operate seyyatam leda

 neeku alla anipisthundha