Estory1 : Na Mogudu Na Mataa Vinatledhu

[ARYA]

1 minute ago, rapchik said:

 neeku alla anipisthundha

[Spartan]

19 minutes ago, rapchik said:

oka mogudu side badha ni emyana clean ga chepinava...sahoo Chitti saho 

[rapchik]

17 hours ago, Spartan said:

nuvu maga jathi ani muthyanivi 

[lazybugger]

18 hours ago, Myth1 said:

Get a job or hobby ... happiness pakkanollalo vethukunte inthe vuntadhi 

intha matraniki pelli cheskodam enduku aithey? total waste.

[Yuvatha]

18 hours ago, Spartan said:

a pilla apice ki velli stress out avudam ani ela feel avutado..

 

mogadu kuda intlo stressout avvadaniki computer or mobile meeda untad.

tease him seduce him.... role play... Easter Bunny, House Maid, etc lantivi .

iddaru pillalu ayyaru..khel khtama dukan band laga adollu act seste..alage untadi.. mogolla side nunchi behaviour.

[Spartan]

5 hours ago, rapchik said:

nuvu maga jathi ani muthyanivi 

.Risk cheyaka pothe sakalodiki software vodiki theda em untadhi dude.

[Bulletproof]

23 hours ago, rapchik said:

Dear friends,
Living in a nuclear family with 2 young kids, when I get back from work, my husband is the only adult I have around to share my day experiences, my thoughts etc. with. However, he does not like to listen to me. He prefers to just come home and be on the computer, or watch TV, or his phone. This has been a constant issue of stress between us in the last 5 years of marriage, and leads to a fight also every now and then. 
I have tried different things, taking out 30 mins block of time to talk, or talking during dinner. But whatever I try, I always find him disinterested. He either closes his eyes, and tells me "I am listening", or starts asking a totally unrelated thing of his own in between. Some things he does listen to with interest, but it is rare and sporadic in between.
Our lives are good otherwise, and there are no other problems between us. However, this one thing is very hurting to me, as I feel this is the only thing I want from my husband, is to be able to share, and companionship. He doesn't do anything else for me ever, as in never give gifts on anniversary/birthdays. He is not romantic, or say anything loving, and no loving gestures. He is practical, a great father, and keeps up all his responsibilties towards the home and family. But personally, does nothing for me. I am used to all of that now, but I will not be able to talk to him and share, I will go into loneliness and depression. Neither do I want to keep forcing my talks on him, if he is not interested, and clearly tells me he doesnt like to listen to me.
What should I do?

ee problem neekena or you posting these questions on behalf of others

[rapchik]

18 minutes ago, Spartan said:

.Risk cheyaka pothe sakalodiki software vodiki theda em untadhi dude.

11 minutes ago, Bulletproof said:

ee problem neekena or you posting these questions on behalf of others

Nak ayithe em chesthav ? vachi vodharutsvaa   bhayya

[all_cinema_abhimani]

mogudiki em kavalo adhi bharya iste.. inka em problems undavuu... koncham out of box velli think cheyaliii mariii..... 

[crazymatta]

23 hours ago, Spartan said:

a pilla apice ki velli stress out avudam ani ela feel avutado..

 

mogadu kuda intlo stressout avvadaniki computer or mobile meeda untad.

tease him seduce him.... role play... Easter Bunny, House Maid, etc lantivi .

iddaru pillalu ayyaru..khel khtama dukan band laga adollu act seste..alage untadi.. mogolla side nunchi behaviour.

[Feelingbad]

Everywhere same probs... i can't listen to my gf's sollu... find it silly... i don't blame her either.. thats a stress reliever for her... 

Andukey pelli ayithey india ki jump kottina tharvaatha ani tolded...

nuclear families suck... 

[Spartan]

48 minutes ago, crazymatta said:

[Myth1]

[ICANWIN]

1 hour ago, Feelingbad said:

Everywhere same probs... i can't listen to my gf's sollu... find it silly... i don't blame her either.. thats a stress reliever for her... 

Andukey pelli ayithey india ki jump kottina tharvaatha ani tolded...

nuclear families suck... 

[shankara]

On 3/7/2017 at 4:04 PM, rapchik said:

Dear friends,
Living in a nuclear family with 2 young kids, when I get back from work, my husband is the only adult I have around to share my day experiences, my thoughts etc. with. However, he does not like to listen to me. He prefers to just come home and be on the computer, or watch TV, or his phone. This has been a constant issue of stress between us in the last 5 years of marriage, and leads to a fight also every now and then. 
I have tried different things, taking out 30 mins block of time to talk, or talking during dinner. But whatever I try, I always find him disinterested. He either closes his eyes, and tells me "I am listening", or starts asking a totally unrelated thing of his own in between. Some things he does listen to with interest, but it is rare and sporadic in between.
Our lives are good otherwise, and there are no other problems between us. However, this one thing is very hurting to me, as I feel this is the only thing I want from my husband, is to be able to share, and companionship. He doesn't do anything else for me ever, as in never give gifts on anniversary/birthdays. He is not romantic, or say anything loving, and no loving gestures. He is practical, a great father, and keeps up all his responsibilties towards the home and family. But personally, does nothing for me. I am used to all of that now, but I will not be able to talk to him and share, I will go into loneliness and depression. Neither do I want to keep forcing my talks on him, if he is not interested, and clearly tells me he doesnt like to listen to me.
What should I do?

You should take him and see a family counsellor