Suggestion needed

[cyndrilla]

Guys I have a problem

At times, might be due to lack of attention or perfect ga cheyyalenemo ane bhayam tho

konni sarlu asal ela start cheyyalo kuda idea lekapovadam valla (studies, job) chala anxiety ochi I procastinate

then oka guilt ochi I try to avoid it. (chala sarlu nene ekkuva anxiety penchukoni simple ga handle cheyyalsina matters ni complicate cheskuntanu)

Reasons: (I am hypersensitive) chinna embarrassment kuda sariga handle cheyyalenu

But ee qualities valla life lo chala pedda debbalu thinnanu...

Now its high time I have to consider this behavior seriously...

Do I need counseling?

Honest suggestions needed

Note: Please troll chesevallu stay away

[uncertainty]

1 minute ago, cyndrilla said:

Guys I have a problem

At times, might be due to lack of attention or perfect ga cheyyalenemo ane bhayam tho

konni sarlu asal ela start cheyyalo kuda idea lekapovadam valla (studies, job) chala anxiety ochi I procastinate

then oka guilt ochi I try to avoid it. (chala sarlu nene ekkuva anxiety penchukoni simple ga handle cheyyalsina matters ni complicate cheskuntanu)

Reasons: (I am hypersensitive) chinna embarrassment kuda sariga handle cheyyalenu

But ee qualities valla life lo chala pedda debbalu thinnanu...

Now its high time I have to consider this behavior seriously...

Do I need counseling?

Honest suggestions needed

Note: Please troll chesevallu stay away

First thing is to SLOW DOWN.

One Week em issue ochina...just observe how ur reacting for anything any issue,  but u shdnot speak(this is the rule).

TRY THIS EXCERCISE.

[k2s]

2 minutes ago, cyndrilla said:

Guys I have a problem

At times, might be due to lack of attention or perfect ga cheyyalenemo ane bhayam tho

konni sarlu asal ela start cheyyalo kuda idea lekapovadam valla (studies, job) chala anxiety ochi I procastinate

then oka guilt ochi I try to avoid it. (chala sarlu nene ekkuva anxiety penchukoni simple ga handle cheyyalsina matters ni complicate cheskuntanu)

Reasons: (I am hypersensitive) chinna embarrassment kuda sariga handle cheyyalenu

But ee qualities valla life lo chala pedda debbalu thinnanu...

Now its high time I have to consider this behavior seriously...

Do I need counseling?

Honest suggestions needed

Note: Please troll chesevallu stay away

how serious will you take suggestions? 

my 1st and last suggestion is read/watch bhagavath geetha.. 

[Batman_fan]

5 minutes ago, cyndrilla said:

Guys I have a problem

At times, might be due to lack of attention or perfect ga cheyyalenemo ane bhayam tho

konni sarlu asal ela start cheyyalo kuda idea lekapovadam valla (studies, job) chala anxiety ochi I procastinate

then oka guilt ochi I try to avoid it. (chala sarlu nene ekkuva anxiety penchukoni simple ga handle cheyyalsina matters ni complicate cheskuntanu)

Reasons: (I am hypersensitive) chinna embarrassment kuda sariga handle cheyyalenu

But ee qualities valla life lo chala pedda debbalu thinnanu...

Now its high time I have to consider this behavior seriously...

Do I need counseling?

Honest suggestions needed

Note: Please troll chesevallu stay away

clarify this. embarrassed ayinapudu, you feel more motivated, angry or you take it easy?

[sarvamangalam]

4 minutes ago, k2s said:

how serious will you take suggestions? 

my 1st and last suggestion is read/watch bhagavath geetha.. 

abbo @k2s grand pa em seppinave...

@cyndrilla ee db neeku maree antha laffoot laaga kanipisthunda

[LordOfMud]

there is nothing wrong with u......lack of motivation

ASAP get married.....if already married.....just boost u r confidence level by reading books

In fact, all are sensitive in nature

u need fun & joy in ur daily activities....

[cyndrilla]

1 minute ago, Batman_fan said:

clarify this. embarrassed ayinapudu, you feel more motivated, angry or you take it easy?

I feel very sad (guilty)..I don't take it easy as well..

but I don't handle it positively..I try to run away from embarrassment (which is not correct)

[LordOfMud]

6 minutes ago, k2s said:

how serious will you take suggestions? 

my 1st and last suggestion is read         /watch bhagavath geetha.. 

+1

[Batman_fan]

2 minutes ago, cyndrilla said:

I feel very sad (guilty)..I don't take it easy as well..

but I don't handle it positively..I try to run away from embarrassment (which is not correct)

okay. when do you get embarrassed? when you are with people?

[Ruskyy]

14 minutes ago, cyndrilla said:

Guys I have a problem

At times, might be due to lack of attention or perfect ga cheyyalenemo ane bhayam tho

konni sarlu asal ela start cheyyalo kuda idea lekapovadam valla (studies, job) chala anxiety ochi I procastinate

then oka guilt ochi I try to avoid it. (chala sarlu nene ekkuva anxiety penchukoni simple ga handle cheyyalsina matters ni complicate cheskuntanu)

Reasons: (I am hypersensitive) chinna embarrassment kuda sariga handle cheyyalenu

But ee qualities valla life lo chala pedda debbalu thinnanu...

Now its high time I have to consider this behavior seriously...

Do I need counseling?

Honest suggestions needed

Note: Please troll chesevallu stay away

Vuu post some pics baa 

[cyndrilla]

1 minute ago, Batman_fan said:

okay. when do you get embarrassed? when you are with people?

At work with fabricated experience

[dasara_bullodu]

12 minutes ago, cyndrilla said:

Guys I have a problem

At times, might be due to lack of attention or perfect ga cheyyalenemo ane bhayam tho

konni sarlu asal ela start cheyyalo kuda idea lekapovadam valla (studies, job) chala anxiety ochi I procastinate

then oka guilt ochi I try to avoid it. (chala sarlu nene ekkuva anxiety penchukoni simple ga handle cheyyalsina matters ni complicate cheskuntanu)

Reasons: (I am hypersensitive) chinna embarrassment kuda sariga handle cheyyalenu

But ee qualities valla life lo chala pedda debbalu thinnanu...

Now its high time I have to consider this behavior seriously...

Do I need counseling?

Honest suggestions needed

Note: Please troll chesevallu stay away

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Start watching Mogali rekulu ... all problems phat ... atleast 1 year timepass... by that time decide that one thing you want to do in life

[Android_Halwa]

16 minutes ago, cyndrilla said:

Guys I have a problem

At times, might be due to lack of attention or perfect ga cheyyalenemo ane bhayam tho

konni sarlu asal ela start cheyyalo kuda idea lekapovadam valla (studies, job) chala anxiety ochi I procastinate

then oka guilt ochi I try to avoid it. (chala sarlu nene ekkuva anxiety penchukoni simple ga handle cheyyalsina matters ni complicate cheskuntanu)

Reasons: (I am hypersensitive) chinna embarrassment kuda sariga handle cheyyalenu

But ee qualities valla life lo chala pedda debbalu thinnanu...

Now its high time I have to consider this behavior seriously...

Do I need counseling?

Honest suggestions needed

Note: Please troll chesevallu stay away

@cyndrilla aat, naa asonti personality duniya la nenu okkadine anukunna...i wonder naa lantollu inkokalu vunnara ani...

simple solution okate....

MATLADADAM. 

ela start cheyalo telvanapudu,manam emi chestham try chesthu vuntam, kani evarino okarini adagali anna sangati marchipotuntam...

edaina problem lo struck avuthe, we will try our best to avoid that problem rather than solving the problem, eventually chata chirigi chapa aitadi...reverse pachkad kodtadi..

avutali vallu mana gurinchi emanna anukuntaro ane feeling chala dangerous feeling, narakam anubhavistam..again deeniki kuda okate oka solution, dhairyanga face cheyadam...mokam mida adagatam..arey emi bhai, emanukuntunnav asalu ani...

Seriously, Few years back I was exactly like you...shy,calm,sit in corner type...ipudu cheelchi chendadu type..

[Android_Halwa]

we need to go out and talk...that will solve 90% of the problems...we need to find solution but not to run away from the problem..

embarassment feel avakudadu ante situation ni control lo petukovali, ante ae mata ki mata set right cheyali..ante matladali..

simple solution...gotto be strong and outgoing when we talk to people..

[cyndrilla]

1 minute ago, Android_Halwa said:

@cyndrilla aat, naa asonti personality duniya la nenu okkadine anukunna...i wonder naa lantollu inkokalu vunnara ani...

simple solution okate....

MATLADADAM. 

ela start cheyalo telvanapudu,manam emi chestham try chesthu vuntam, kani evarino okarini adagali anna sangati marchipotuntam...

edaina problem lo struck avuthe, we will try our best to avoid that problem rather than solving the problem, eventually chata chirigi chapa aitadi...reverse pachkad kodtadi..

avutali vallu mana gurinchi emanna anukuntaro ane feeling chala dangerous feeling, narakam anubhavistam..again deeniki kuda okate oka solution, dhairyanga face cheyadam...mokam mida adagatam..arey emi bhai, emanukuntunnav asalu ani...

Seriously, Few years back I was exactly like you...shy,calm,sit in corner type...ipudu cheelchi chendadu type..

thanks for your words..will try