Pelli inka avvani prasadlaku naa advice

[Prabhas_Fan]

Endo ee pellilla gola...where is our no marriage sangam president @aragorn

[aragorn]

5 hours ago, ForEverJava said:

Note: Ee forum lo evarina ammailu unte ..dont take my post offended..its only for awareness kosam rastunna..

 

1.india nundi kanuka ammayini arrange marriage chesukunte kanuka atleast follow few minimum checklist

 

Bank ki velli deposit or withdraw cheyyadam cheque rayatam atm card use cheyyadam ilanti minimum common sense things first criteria

Cycle bike car nadapatam proficient ga nadapadam..car license only name sake lacham ichi techukokunda proper road sense tho drive cheyyadam ..n very confident person life type ..minimum 

Atleast minimum social sense ..i mean when u go someones house what to talk n what not to talk and easy to mingle type with other women..maturity to behave chese ammayila undali..

Most important workplace lo politics ela cheyyalo telikapoina gangireddula tala oope type sincere ga just naa work nenu chesukunta type kakunda choosukovali..lekapote jeevitam mottam daani office lo politics nundi danni kapadutu chavali..

Alage too much ga kakapoina oka mostaru ga vanta vachi atleast willing to take care of your cooking needs anela undali..husband ki eppudu ela pocket cut cheddam ane type kakukbda family ni financial ga ela protect cheddam..unna money lo ela happy undalo telisina ammyi ayyi undali

Mostly pogarubotula kakunda..andaritho kalividi ga tirige aammayi ayyi undali..

 

Ivi anni edo life lo frustration tho rastunnavu anukokandi ..last few yrs lo nenu naa circle lo choosina experience tho rastrunna...

 

Ammayyi just erraga burraga unte saripodu..konchem manchi manasu. .buddi kaligi undali.. Ivi lekunda just srichitanya batch n electornics computers btech undi ..mnc lo job undi ..atm card nanna ki ichi use cheyyamani cheppi..office ki kooda nanna mmts lo dimpi akkada nundi kooda shared auto lo ammyilini ..kanisam car driving cycle kooda rani ammayini chesukunte jeevitam mottam daniki america lo things neripichadanike saripoddi....more over nerchukundam anukune vallaki atleast try cheyyochu..kani eppudu shopping n show off type ammayilaku nerpinchdam kastam...

 

Most importantly patience unna ammayilu and down to earth and konchem middle class background. And non metro citi area nundi vachinda ammayilu ite mattam better...

Again ivvi naa personal experiences ivvanni meeru follow avvalsina pani ledu but i see lot of tammullu pelli ki ready ani anipinchindi so posting it ..becuase marriage anedi okesari chesukovali konchem checklist unte better pick dorike chance untadi..tarvutha 30 or 40 years jeevitam haiga untadi lekapote naa laga naa friends laga sankanakipoddi..

 

I know lot of people are gonna troll me as well..let the trolls begin..

 

e gola antha enduku hai ga no marriage club lo cherepo anthe simple........already sagam db chereru 

 

a red lo vunnai ammai dokithe takna chesuko migatha emi lekapothe nee list lo inche but highly unlikely that they exist so chup chap ga no marriage club please 

 

PS: driving, banking, cooking lite........US lo settle avalee anthe life nerpichesthadhi.......ammaiki cooking rakapothe dishes cheyamanu nuvvu cooking chey lekapothe slow nerchukuntadhi nerpee......aina paina red lo vunnna ammai dorikithe evanaee lite thane nepeeyamantadhi 

[aragorn]

15 minutes ago, Prabhas_Fan said:

Endo ee pellilla gola...where is our no marriage sangam president @aragorn

counselling done vuncle 

[karthikn]

6 hours ago, ICANWIN said:

A guy should be prepared for marriage too. Min responsibility and stability undali  adi lekunda age vachindi ani pelli chesukunte life is narakam. He should be man enough to lead life no? They will be ani cheppakandi i have seen guys who are not.

Maturity kosam wait chesthe certificate lo age aage le ledhu    

[zombie]

6 hours ago, tom bhayya said:

ammayi dorakadamey kastam ga untey inka checklist antaavu enti bro, ila aithey pelli ayinattey

[zombie]

andariki ne mentality undalani ledu kada man, kondaru anni nerpinchadam nacchutundi. house wife ga undadam nacchutundi.. car driving rani ammay ni cheysukovaddu anadam 

[chicchara]

correct gaaney chepaav.

but nuv ila undaali..ala undaali antey..restriction type antaaaru

ee qualities anni already una ammailu kuda unaaru... but self reliant and self ga anni cheskodam valla vallaki talapogaru kuda undhi

they are telling @athcare to husband.

best is to have patience..treat her good...treat her with love and patience...you will get mutual respect and she will listen

sometimes she might...at those times you have to think ,,,if wat she is saying is correct? if yes then you shd respect her opinion and move on...

consider her thoughts/opinions and talk too

..you cant jus dictate everything...there is a first time for everything...not everything/everyone is perfect

[ICANWIN]

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[ICANWIN]

10 minutes ago, chicchara said:

correct gaaney chepaav.

but nuv ila undaali..ala undaali antey..restriction type antaaaru

ee qualities anni already una ammailu kuda unaaru... but self reliant and self ga anni cheskodam valla vallaki talapogaru kuda undhi

they are telling @athcare to husband.

best is to have patience..treat her good...treat her with love and patience...you will get mutual respect and she will listen

sometimes she might...at those times you have to think ,,,if wat she is saying is correct? if yes then you shd respect her opinion and move on...

consider her thoughts/opinions and talk too

..you cant jus dictate everything...there is a first time for everything...not everything/everyone is perfect

[lazybugger]

12 minutes ago, chicchara said:

correct gaaney chepaav.

but nuv ila undaali..ala undaali antey..restriction type antaaaru

ee qualities anni already una ammailu kuda unaaru... but self reliant and self ga anni cheskodam valla vallaki talapogaru kuda undhi

they are telling @athcare to husband.

best is to have patience..treat her good...treat her with love and patience...you will get mutual respect and she will listen

sometimes she might...at those times you have to think ,,,if wat she is saying is correct? if yes then you shd respect her opinion and move on...

consider her thoughts/opinions and talk too

..you cant jus dictate everything...there is a first time for everything...not everything/everyone is perfect

nuvvantha ee db lo undaalsina candidate vey kaadhu bossu.

[lazybugger]

pelli kaani prasad laku prathodu advice chesetodey.

pelli lekunda happy undatam ishtam ledha meeku?

[Peddayana]

7 hours ago, ForEverJava said:

Note: Ee forum lo evarina ammailu unte ..dont take my post offended..its only for awareness kosam rastunna..

 

1.india nundi kanuka ammayini arrange marriage chesukunte kanuka atleast follow few minimum checklist

 

Bank ki velli deposit or withdraw cheyyadam cheque rayatam atm card use cheyyadam ilanti minimum common sense things first criteria

It takes just 10 mins to learn this stuff , any one with basic education already knows this in India , US lo oka sari choosthe telisipotundi

Cycle bike car nadapatam proficient ga nadapadam..car license only name sake lacham ichi techukokunda proper road sense tho drive cheyyadam ..n very confident person life type ..minimum 

 Is this a job application for Driver Bhayya? Millions of people drive cars , whats the big deal about learning to drive? any one can and its not rocket science

Atleast minimum social sense ..i mean when u go someones house what to talk n what not to talk and easy to mingle type with other women..maturity to behave chese ammayila undali..

Hmm , no comments here , having common sense is very very important in all walks of life

Most important workplace lo politics ela cheyyalo telikapoina gangireddula tala oope type sincere ga just naa work nenu chesukunta type kakunda choosukovali..lekapote jeevitam mottam daani office lo politics nundi danni kapadutu chavali..

Not all offices have work place politics , trust me if you are a performer and add value , you rarely have to worry about work place politics and are you suggesting that one should get involved in these politics ? Doing politics is a bad idea , I know several people who steer clear of politics and do a stellar job in office

Alage too much ga kakapoina oka mostaru ga vanta vachi atleast willing to take care of your cooking needs anela undali..husband ki eppudu ela pocket cut cheddam ane type kakukbda family ni financial ga ela protect cheddam..unna money lo ela happy undalo telisina ammyi ayyi undali

Hmm , if you are expecting a working women , you should also be prepared to cook , clean etc too

No comments on being content though , good point , some people will never get peace no matter what they have 

Mostly pogarubotula kakunda..andaritho kalividi ga tirige aammayi ayyi undali..

Being social is good , but too much of anything is also not good 

Ivi anni edo life lo frustration tho rastunnavu anukokandi ..last few yrs lo nenu naa circle lo choosina experience tho rastrunna...

 

Ammayyi just erraga burraga unte saripodu..konchem manchi manasu. .buddi kaligi undali.. Ivi lekunda just srichitanya batch n electornics computers btech undi ..mnc lo job undi ..atm card nanna ki ichi use cheyyamani cheppi..office ki kooda nanna mmts lo dimpi akkada nundi kooda shared auto lo ammyilini ..kanisam car driving cycle kooda rani ammayini chesukunte jeevitam mottam daniki america lo things neripichadanike saripoddi....more over nerchukundam anukune vallaki atleast try cheyyochu..kani eppudu shopping n show off type ammayilaku nerpinchdam kastam...

Like some one mentioned , very difficult to assess all these in the few meetings you will have with the ammayi if you are going for arranged marriage 

Life is about learning from each other , why are you so frustrated in teaching someone something? Did you knew everything when you came here ?

Saw a similar post in different context (opt guys not being prepared etc) , every one stars from small step 

Most importantly patience unna ammayilu and down to earth and konchem middle class background. And non metro citi area nundi vachinda ammayilu ite mattam better...

you are judging and pulling in multiple stereotypes here , Can you say that if one marries non metro ammayi then they will have less issues? It does not matter what background they are from , what matters is their behavior

Again ivvi naa personal experiences ivvanni meeru follow avvalsina pani ledu but i see lot of tammullu pelli ki ready ani anipinchindi so posting it ..becuase marriage anedi okesari chesukovali konchem checklist unte better pick dorike chance untadi..tarvutha 30 or 40 years jeevitam haiga untadi lekapote naa laga naa friends laga sankanakipoddi..

 

I know lot of people are gonna troll me as well..let the trolls begin..

 

Nothing personal sir , but just wanted to give my 2 cents 

[lazybugger]

Just now, Peddayana said:

Nothing personal sir , but just wanted to give my 2 cents 

we prefer $100 bills

 

[Peddayana]

Just now, lazybugger said:

we prefer $100 bills

 

 ,  only cents vunnayi mastaru 

[ipaddress3]

2 hours ago, aragorn said:

counselling done vuncle 

mayya nu inka single aa?