My husband never sleeps with me. Is this normal? (Lifted from Quora)

[mybabyboy]

We have been married for 8 years now. Ours was an arranged marriage. Ever since we got married, he always slept in the drawing room or a separate bedroom. Only when he wants to have sex, he comes and sleeps with me. After the act, he goes back to the drawing room to sleep. I have never experienced the cuddling , spooning or other non sexual acts with him.
In other matters our relationship is pretty good but I always keep wondering if this behavior from husband is common? There are many nights that I longed for someone's hug or cuddles. But End up hugging a pillow. I am a very physical person like in love being touched and caressed. 

When I confronted him about this situation , he says he sleeps in other room because I don't like having a television in the bedroom and he likes to watch television before going to sleep . The fact is ( he told me himself) that he watches porn and jerks off most nights.

As a side note I 'd like to add that he never satisfied me sexually . I don't know if it is because of his porn addiction. I always keep fantasizing about strong tall men when making out with him as that is the only way I get turned on. Also he comes to me for sex when he wants . If I ask him for sex, he says I am always needy. The fact is my sex drive shot up like crazy after having kids. I get depressed a lot these days and keep fantasizing on cheating on him which I would never to in real life. I saw him check out a lot of good looking woman on streets. I am a very beautiful woman according to indian standards and in pretty good shape even after kids , but yet looks like he never gets turned on by me. I feel like divorcing him.

Edit: I know for sure that he loves me as he takes very good care of me in other ways like helping me out when I am tired or sick or take 100 % responsibility of kids or encourage me in my career   and in general a very responsible and caring husband. I am sure a lot of indian men would never ever do such things for their wives. But he is totally insensitive when it comes to our intimacy ( sexual and non sexual) .

[Chamak_Chandra]

[tennisluvr]

100 pages thread, confirmed. 

[tennisluvr]

1 hour ago, mybabyboy said:

We have been married for 8 years now. Ours was an arranged marriage. Ever since we got married, he always slept in the drawing room or a separate bedroom. Only when he wants to have sex, he comes and sleeps with me. After the act, he goes back to the drawing room to sleep. I have never experienced the cuddling , spooning or other non sexual acts with him.
In other matters our relationship is pretty good but I always keep wondering if this behavior from husband is common? There are many nights that I longed for someone's hug or cuddles. But End up hugging a pillow. I am a very physical person like in love being touched and caressed. 

When I confronted him about this situation , he says he sleeps in other room because I don't like having a television in the bedroom and he likes to watch television before going to sleep . The fact is ( he told me himself) that he watches porn and jerks off most nights.

As a side note I 'd like to add that he never satisfied me sexually . I don't know if it is because of his porn addiction. I always keep fantasizing about strong tall men when making out with him as that is the only way I get turned on. Also he comes to me for sex when he wants . If I ask him for sex, he says I am always needy. The fact is my sex drive shot up like crazy after having kids. I get depressed a lot these days and keep fantasizing on cheating on him which I would never to in real life. I saw him check out a lot of good looking woman on streets. I am a very beautiful woman according to indian standards and in pretty good shape even after kids , but yet looks like he never gets turned on by me. I feel like divorcing him.

Edit: I know for sure that he loves me as he takes very good care of me in other ways like helping me out when I am tired or sick or take 100 % responsibility of kids or encourage me in my career   and in general a very responsible and caring husband. I am sure a lot of indian men would never ever do such things for their wives. But he is totally insensitive when it comes to our intimacy ( sexual and non sexual) .

Akkai anni thane assume chesesukoni I am sure about this, I am sure about that antondi. Inka enduko papam ee confusion. 

[Damon]

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[Idassamed]

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[mybabyboy]

2 hours ago, mybabyboy said:

We have been married for 8 years now. Ours was an arranged marriage. Ever since we got married, he always slept in the drawing room or a separate bedroom. Only when he wants to have sex, he comes and sleeps with me. After the act, he goes back to the drawing room to sleep. I have never experienced the cuddling , spooning or other non sexual acts with him.
In other matters our relationship is pretty good but I always keep wondering if this behavior from husband is common? There are many nights that I longed for someone's hug or cuddles. But End up hugging a pillow. I am a very physical person like in love being touched and caressed. 

When I confronted him about this situation , he says he sleeps in other room because I don't like having a television in the bedroom and he likes to watch television before going to sleep . The fact is ( he told me himself) that he watches porn and jerks off most nights.

As a side note I 'd like to add that he never satisfied me sexually . I don't know if it is because of his porn addiction. I always keep fantasizing about strong tall men when making out with him as that is the only way I get turned on. Also he comes to me for sex when he wants . If I ask him for sex, he says I am always needy. The fact is my sex drive shot up like crazy after having kids. I get depressed a lot these days and keep fantasizing on cheating on him which I would never to in real life. I saw him check out a lot of good looking woman on streets. I am a very beautiful woman according to indian standards and in pretty good shape even after kids , but yet looks like he never gets turned on by me. I feel like divorcing him.

Edit: I know for sure that he loves me as he takes very good care of me in other ways like helping me out when I am tired or sick or take 100 % responsibility of kids or encourage me in my career   and in general a very responsible and caring husband. I am sure a lot of indian men would never ever do such things for their wives. But he is totally insensitive when it comes to our intimacy ( sexual and non sexual) .

someone named Nisha replied this,

You dont why ask him whether he likes you to jerk off his organ? And why don't you jerk off his organ.

You can indulge him in dirty talks when you are alone with him. Dirty talks can refresh his mind.

You need to wear clothes which he likes you to wear. Clothes which can give more exposure to your body will be better. You must see to what kind of girls he looks for and in what clothing he prefers to see other women. So you need to dress up like that.

Talk about what kind of porn he likes and accompany him while watching porn this can make him feel good and he may see you as a porn actress.

If you really want to satisfy your husband then you should initiate the process of love making rather than waiting for him to start.

Tell him that his organ has grown up well and you would like to get banged by him and listening to this he might talk to you dirty.

Ask him in what position he likes to have sex with you. Asking this question makes him feel good and he thinks that you really respect his feelings and wishes.

If you start, then I hope he will definitely lift you and take you to the bed.

[captain_raju]

18 minutes ago, mybabyboy said:

someone named Nisha replied this,

You dont why ask him whether he likes you to jerk off his organ? And why don't you jerk off his organ.

You can indulge him in dirty talks when you are alone with him. Dirty talks can refresh his mind.

You need to wear clothes which he likes you to wear. Clothes which can give more exposure to your body will be better. You must see to what kind of girls he looks for and in what clothing he prefers to see other women. So you need to dress up like that.

Talk about what kind of porn he likes and accompany him while watching porn this can make him feel good and he may see you as a porn actress.

If you really want to satisfy your husband then you should initiate the process of love making rather than waiting for him to start.

Tell him that his organ has grown up well and you would like to get banged by him and listening to this he might talk to you dirty.

Ask him in what position he likes to have sex with you. Asking this question makes him feel good and he thinks that you really respect his feelings and wishes.

If you start, then I hope he will definitely lift you and take you to the bed.

Atu potunaro ee aada ladies 

[libraguy863]

22 minutes ago, mybabyboy said:

someone named Nisha replied this,

You dont why ask him whether he likes you to jerk off his organ? And why don't you jerk off his organ.

You can indulge him in dirty talks when you are alone with him. Dirty talks can refresh his mind.

You need to wear clothes which he likes you to wear. Clothes which can give more exposure to your body will be better. You must see to what kind of girls he looks for and in what clothing he prefers to see other women. So you need to dress up like that.

Talk about what kind of porn he likes and accompany him while watching porn this can make him feel good and he may see you as a porn actress.

If you really want to satisfy your husband then you should initiate the process of love making rather than waiting for him to start.

Tell him that his organ has grown up well and you would like to get banged by him and listening to this he might talk to you dirty.

Ask him in what position he likes to have sex with you. Asking this question makes him feel good and he thinks that you really respect his feelings and wishes.

If you start, then I hope he will definitely lift you and take you to the bed.

vammo nisha ki baga exp emo aa forn vishayam loo .. baga open up and grow avtuhnnaru ..emanna gokithe ..kathalu padatharu 

[Tyrion_Lannister]

43 minutes ago, libraguy863 said:

vammo nisha ki baga exp emo aa forn vishayam loo .. baga open up and grow avtuhnnaru ..emanna gokithe ..kathalu padatharu 

Baytki ala cutting istaru baa....manam chese ani vedava panulu manatho samananga chestunaru ladies

[lazybugger]

as usual pilla p replies.

[tennisluvr]

Just now, lazybugger said:

as usual pilla p replies.

Ikkada Quora lo na

[lazybugger]

Just now, tennisluvr said:

Ikkada Quora lo na

what's wrong with Nisha's reply. why the shaming, tell? for fun aa..

it sounds like a bunch of virgins whining about women's sexual emancipation (the reaction to nisha)

[timmy]

3 hours ago, mybabyboy said:

We have been married for 8 years now. Ours was an arranged marriage. Ever since we got married, he always slept in the drawing room or a separate bedroom. Only when he wants to have sex, he comes and sleeps with me. After the act, he goes back to the drawing room to sleep. I have never experienced the cuddling , spooning or other non sexual acts with him.
In other matters our relationship is pretty good but I always keep wondering if this behavior from husband is common? There are many nights that I longed for someone's hug or cuddles. But End up hugging a pillow. I am a very physical person like in love being touched and caressed. 

When I confronted him about this situation , he says he sleeps in other room because I don't like having a television in the bedroom and he likes to watch television before going to sleep . The fact is ( he told me himself) that he watches porn and jerks off most nights.

As a side note I 'd like to add that he never satisfied me sexually . I don't know if it is because of his porn addiction. I always keep fantasizing about strong tall men when making out with him as that is the only way I get turned on. Also he comes to me for sex when he wants . If I ask him for sex, he says I am always needy. The fact is my sex drive shot up like crazy after having kids. I get depressed a lot these days and keep fantasizing on cheating on him which I would never to in real life. I saw him check out a lot of good looking woman on streets. I am a very beautiful woman according to indian standards and in pretty good shape even after kids , but yet looks like he never gets turned on by me. I feel like divorcing him.

Edit: I know for sure that he loves me as he takes very good care of me in other ways like helping me out when I am tired or sick or take 100 % responsibility of kids or encourage me in my career   and in general a very responsible and caring husband. I am sure a lot of indian men would never ever do such things for their wives. But he is totally insensitive when it comes to our intimacy ( sexual and non sexual) .

[Idassamed]

7 minutes ago, timmy said: